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Success Mindset

YOU’RE SHIFTING AWAY FROM BEING A COACH, AND THAT’S WHY THINGS AREN’T WORKING

Maybe the reason your offers aren’t quite selling the way you want them to, everything feels OH so slightly uphill (by which I mean most DEFINITELY completely uphill!), and you have a constant and unshakeable sense of dis-ease, is that you’ve already energetically SHED –

The old you, and BECOME –

The new you –

And your soul simply hasn’t been loud enough in informing your brain of said situation –

And that, coupled with the fact that you already have the neurological pathways for being the OLD you 100% ‘down’, it’s kind of rote, you don’t have to think about it, of COURSE you show up like this, sell like that, coach on such and such –

Means that you’re continuing, long after the curtains on that act closed, to play a game of business and life that is JUST NOT YOU ANYMORE.

Can I ask you a question?

When you look into the future, I mean WAY into the future, let’s say the vision BEYOND your current vision, a place so far away (but yet of course also so close!) that it’s totally safe to assume that at THAT magical point you’ll have fully sorted out your shit and you’ll be BEING who you’re fully meant to be –

Who are you?

What are you known for?

What is the work you DO with your clients, your community, the world?

And what is the work you have categorically left behind? Proud to have done, and invested time in! Absolutely you were GOOD at it, in fact great! But no –

It’s just not what you were ever going to end up having define you, it was never your REAL ACTUAL THING?

I’ll hazard a guess, and I’m sure you know EXACTLY what it’s gonna be!

The work that the future you, the empowered you, the IN her power you, the one who has ABSOLUTELY stepped into being all that she was ever meant to be, THAT work?

Is exactly the damn work you’re doing right now, isn’t it?

Oh, no need to get triggered, I KNOW you’re also doing the real work, the deeper work, the SOUL work, the FLOW work, the work you can’t not! ESPECIALLY when it’s in conversation with your existing clients … your mentor or peers … your own journal … and of COURSE you let that deep true work be part of your MESSAGING – !

But being known for it as your THING?

Standing FULLY for it, and not trying to be seen, heard, paid, with anything that is NOT that thing?

STOPPING to sell or put your energy and emotion (nay, your life!) into a single offer or product or service that is in ANY way not that thing?

Yeah …

Nah!

That hasn’t happened yet.

You think about it.
You dive DEEP into it in your inner work.
Possibly you even bemoan it to me, either directly or simply via transmission and that’s why I KNOW this message is for so many people right now, not just the several private clients with whom I’ve in some way already discussed it.

But,

You just don’t press play.

You dither.
You dip one toe into the ocean of being THAT you, and then you run screaming out.

So cold!
Too scary!
There might be SHARKS!

Can’t do it.

And, you return to what is safe, what is known, what you’ve PROVEN, over and over again, you’re good at selling, at standing for, at being known for, at HELPING people with, the same damn stuff you’ve always known that, whilst you may well be living for it for right now you CERTAINLY should not be dying for it.

And yet you are.
And yet you continue to choose to do so.
And yet you may well give your ENTIRE life for, if you don’t change now.

Don’t you see?

EVERYTHING worth having, requires you at some point to be brave enough to walk away from the thing that is NOT that!

This is true with business.
It’s true with what you’re selling in said business, what you ‘know how to’ make money with, what people know you for.
It’s true with relationships, whether it’s getting to where you ONLY have soulmate clients and friends, or also of course with being with the LOVER you know you’re meant to be with.
It’s true with everything.

Often, we create a life in which we have things ‘pretty damn good’ …

We’re safe.
We know the ropes!
The internal pathway is SET!
And we have a certain level of success, which ALMOST convinces us –

Just keep doing this.
What if you walk away from it and the REAL THING DOESN’T WORK?! What if you find out that actually it’s TRUE, and you’re NOT good enough to be known for the real thing, have the real thing, BE the real thing?!
What if you end up with NOTHING?!

If you’re like 99.99%+ of people, you therefore STAY THE DAMN COURSE with what you’ve already invested so much into.

Blissfully unaware that the whole point of investing all that time and effort was NOT so that you could then continue to give your LIFE for that stuff, but instead it was to TEACH you stuff, to READY you for the next level of who you are, what you were born for, what you deserve, and what you absolutely GET TO HAVE, if only you’d say yes to it!

Problem is –

You ain’t no 99.99% bitch baby, are you? You da 1% within the 1% and you KNOW it!

You don’t have the luxury of being unaware, you NEVER have had.

You’ve always known when it’s time to walk away from something.

You’ve ALWAYS felt the soul nudge.

You’ve ALWAYS known when, no matter how scary or unavailable or impossible it may seem, something next level and BEYOND is waiting for you, and that.it’s.time.

And right now you damn straight KNOW, don’t you?

That you’re shifting away from being a coach.

That your calling is to head an EMPIRE.

That you came here to be a VISIONARY.

That just through your PRESENCE people will be transformed, changed, want to hang off your every word.

And that as for what you’re mean to be SELLING, known for, RECEIVING from?

It’s literally –
That.

Your presence.
Your energy.
The power that emanates from your every pore, when you’re JUST BEING YOU.
The DEEP soul truths which bubble up, and which you feel an URGENT need to share with the world.

Lemme tell you something about making MONEY –

If you’re in any way trying to sell shit, the content or message of which you do NOT feel an URGENT and pressing need to KNOW share with the world –

YOU’RE SELLING THE WRONG SHIT.

You’re building a house of cards.

And, worst of all, you’re allowing yourself to be KNOWN for something which is not.really.you.

THIS.

Is DEVASTATING.

In the sense that, it means the people who your TRUE message is meant to hit, WILL NEVER KNOW YOU.

Never mind in the sense that, it means YOU have to walk around every damn day knowing that once again you FAILED TO PRESS PLAY.

Failed to live, really, because what is living, if living is without letting our SOUL breathe?

It’s nothing.

Nothing very much at all.

And this is why you feel so lost, so low on energy and motivation, so despondent, in a way, although you do a damn good job at smile smile smiling anyway, as you show up for a message that is now stale, and offers which, frankly, you really don’t give a shit about.

And, of course, it’s why, try as you might to pull out your VERY best trick from WAY down in the bag, it’s just.not.working.

THANK GOD FOR THAT!!

Right?!

Thank GOD, for the protective power of your higher self, who knows that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH NOW, and that since you APPARENTLY aren’t gonna listen just to the simple knowing TRUTH of your soul, your attention may well be got if the whole damn (WRONG) enterprise just starts to slowly but surely grind to a halt.

Thank goodness!

Because if this didn’t happen, there’s a VERY good chance you would continue to build the ENTIRELY WRONG LIFE.

For real though!

Want to know something COOL, and awesome, and that you ALREADY KNOW?

It’s not as though there is actually some long and mystical road ahead, to become the real you, and be known for that.

There is in fact NOTHING you need to do, and you are ALREADY CREDIBLE AND WORTHY. (Or else, you wouldn’t see and feel it inside of you).

And as far as it being ‘way away in the future’, that’s also bullshit!

It may be the vision beyond the vision, and it feels ‘safer’ to imagine that it’s way away, in a magical place for a tomorrow well beyond tomorrow, and so therefore you don’t need to worry yourself about it, but ACTUALLY –

Actually –

It’s right here now.

Just waiting for you.

As it’s always been.

And as it will continue to patiently do.

Softly calling

Softly asking

Patiently wondering

Will you say yes?

Here is what it comes down to gorgeous, and it’s VERY simple –

You can continue to push shit up a hill to try and succeed at the wrong fucking life –

Or you can let finally GO. Say yes to what’s inside of you. Stop trying so desperately to keep yourself covered in the mask and skin of yesterday.

And let us see your damn soul.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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