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Success Mindset

RISE UP AND LEAD

Isn’t it about time you gave a big up yours to the bad habits, shitty excuses, lack of discipline or just plain old SCAREDY-CATNESS that’s been stopping you from creating the business and life you want?

Let me tell you:

It ain’t gonna happen just ’cause you want it to happen, and it ain’t gonna happen just because it ‘SHOULD’ happen aka you think it’s your destiny or what you’re born to do … repeat after me: just because you HAVE a calling doesn’t mean you get to live it!

You want it?

THEN YOU NEED TO RISE UP AND TAKE IT.

Take me, right now.

6 hour airport stopover.
Feel somewhat rubbish as my body thinks it’s 3am, and I had 2.5 hours sleep on the way here … and have a 10 or something hour flight coming up at the end of said stopover. Plus this backward airport has no Virgin lounge, augh!

Anyway – I’m sitting here. Feeling sorry for myself, not ‘totally’ as hey I am off for 2 weeks of adventures around the US and UK by myself. I do love time by myself, even though I did already have moment when I saw a busy stressed Mum with young kids. I want my kids here stressing me out! Kinda …

Where was I?

Stopover.

6 hours.

Have spent the first hour so far wandering around looking for interesting things to look at (there are none) then downing several double-shot macchiato’s while inhaling a plate of eggs and bacon. And, of course, because I AM constantly seeking the meaning of life, reading Facebook and refreshing multiple times while my brain … slowly … shrinks.

And here’s the thing, right? Technically it’s the middle of the night for me and technically I can do whatever the fuck I want to do on my stopover, so if I want to sit around reading Facebook and, um, shrinking my brain for 6 hours while no doubt stuffing my face with sugar at some point to counteract the GOD-AWFULNESS of spending your time that way then I can and I WILL!

But, I actually don’t.

Not really.

Doing so was just … well … automatic. And I guess really, as with so many things, quite often day to day things, where we wonder why the frick we’re doing THAT, it was just because I didn’t have anything else I was choosing to do.

So I opened up my online journal.

And asked myself – What is the impact I really want to make on the world?

And what came out, in QUICK response, was this:

Okay, fuck this shit. Not going to sit around here on my ass doing fuck all!

Time to WRITE.

What do I really want to do?

EMPOWER WOMEN TO RISE UP AND LEAD

Which brings me to here, because the very next thing I started doing was writing this blog.

And now here’s what’s REALLY interesting –

Literally 3 minutes ago, when I started typing this, I felt like shit. Pretty much. For above reasons. Totally justified!

Didn’t feel like I had ANY energy to do anything useful.

And now? I’m on my way ALREADY to feeling fucking FABULOUS.

Because I’m doing something active rather than responding to flat energy or tiredness.

Because I’m doing something that MEANS something to me rather than just killing time.

Because I’m doing something that brings me to life and ENERGISES me because it’s my soul work.

Because I’m doing something which is also a critical part of my business, in fact is THE critical component of how

I’ve built the entire thing!

Because I’m doing something that has now in just these maybe 6 minutes so far SET THE FUCKING TONE for the rest of the morning hanging out here in airport no-man’s land.

And here’s what it’s made me realise:

The success I create, the success you create, is SO not a product of doing big-ass crazy UBER huge scary stuff.

I mean don’t get me wrong … that shit’s cool … one of my BESTEST times ever as an adult was doing Tough Mudder. Not that it made me money, mind you, but still – big-ass crazy stuff rocks!

But where success is born?

Is in the daily discipline.

The small choices you make, to pick up the pen or open the file and write something even though you don’t feel like it, have nothing to say (I honestly had NOTHING in my head to write when I started writing this; I just knew that reading Facebook all morning wasn’t going to rock my world!), or even when you’re ‘totes justified’ in not taking action right now.

Success comes from small, often in the moment insignificant, DAILY habit of being the sort of person who, well, creates success.

Think about it …

Imagine where you’d be in your business if you dedicated even 15 minutes a day to writing. How about 20? 25? Wanna know how I’ve published over 30 best-selling books on Amazon in the past 18 months, with UMPTEEN more in the works AND written thousands of blog posts online since 2007? I write for 25 minutes a day. Sometimes more. Never less.

Daily discipline.

And I apply the same sort of ‘1%’ principles to promoting and marketing in my business …

To engaging with my community and building relationships …

To clearing the email / admin / desktop clutter that would otherwise eventually TAKE OVER THE FUCKING WORLD …

To staying in shape …

Even to being an active and present Mum who does fun play-time adventure stuff with her kids!

Repeat after me … success is NOT what you do once, no matter how impressive it may be or how good it may feel in the moment. It’s what you do every. fucking. day.

So here is my question and what really prompted this post:

Are you leading and speaking YOUR truth in the way you were born for?

Are you doing it DAILY?

Are you going ALL THE FUCKING WAY IN?

You have a purpose gorgeous.

You ARE here for a reason.

That message that pulls on your heart, that feeling like you need to share stuff with the world, like if people could just UNDERSTAND this ONE THING their entire freaking life would just WORK and WHY DON’T THEY GET IT?!

It’s not NORMAL, that you feel this way, have this stuff inside of you. (That’s a compliment by the way).

You do realise, I hope, that not everybody walks away with this NON-STOP sense of URGENCY to impact the world.

To rise up.

To LEAD.

To EMPOWER others.

Not everybody is walking around just about ready to explode with everything they want to do in their life, everything they want to create, everything they want to BE.

But you are.

BUT YOU FUCKING ARE.

So I guess it’s not even really a QUESTION for you now is it, but more of a challenge.

Plain and simple.

WILL you RISE UP AND LEAD now?

‘Cause baby? I know it’s gonna hurt at times and I know you SO often really just can’t be FUCKED (never mind all that fear and resistance stuff!), but honestly?

Awesome is your destiny.

Now it’s time to claim it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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