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Success Mindset

THAT NEEDY SHIT YOU’VE GOT GOING ON? WHERE YOU’RE HOLDING ON TO NOT QUITE RIGHT INSTEAD OF INSISTING ON AWESOME? LET’S STOP THAT

I want to talk to you real quick about that needy shit you’ve got going on. You know –

The GRASPING you do.

Where you hold on.

Desperately.

(Embarassingly, let’s face it)

To something that’s just, well –

No.

Actually.

And you tell yourself –

It’s not so bad! They’re not THAT high maintenance … whingy moany … lacking in EVERY FUCKING THING you demand in a client, a friend, a lover, yourself.

Oh, and when I say you demand? In your dreams, baby, because while you SAY you want the best, are the best, work with the best, do the best, ETC, what’s actually happening?

You’re a good ole-fashioned settler honey.

In fact you’re so damn good at settling you should go settle a new God damn town; anybody would think it’s what your LIFE is about!

I mean –

I only really see you doing it with who you take on to coach.

Or who you’re fucking.

Or how your body looks and feels.

Or, wait, what was I saying?

I see it EVERYWHERE, all THROUGH you, all AROUND you, in fact I kinda thought?

It was you.

To –

You know.

Play.

At that level.

Also?

HOW YOU DO ONE THING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING.

So let’s talk, you and I, let’s sit down, you and I, let’s CHAT, you and I, let’s get REAL, you and I, let’s get our shit TOGETHER, you and I, and when I say you and I oh TRUST me I do mean both of us, because never forget:

Any lesson I pass on to you is one I’ve first WELL kicked my own butt on first 😉

And coming from that KINDA tender place of having learned my lessons hard, in business, first, with money, next, in fitness, at one point, and now in life and LOVE, I’m gonna tell you this:

When you let go of the needy shit, you feel a DAMN fine sight better. You can BREATHE again. You can hold your BACK up, and fucking SMILE. You look hotter too, for SURE.

And also?

(And you might wanna write this one down)

When you stop holding on to the not quite right I guess it’ll do for now it’s just how it IS and it’s all I can GET shit –

You make way for your SOUL people to find you.

And I was thinking, today, about this, today, for oh so many areas, today, and I was listening, today, to messages, today, from my BADASS clients, today, all of whom basically just check in or get on a call with me to tell me how awesome both they AND I are, and then what they’ve launched | sold | created | unleashed, oh, and “thank you Kat, you’re the best!”, and I was thinking about how AMAZING coaching is these days, and then I was thinking back to some years ago when it felt –

Ugh.

A drain.

Hard.

Frustrating.

And I thought (and perhaps you’ve said this too?! But I’ll wager you don’t really mean it!), I thought –

“I HATE coaching! I’m NEVER DOING IT AGAIN!” *stomps foot and storms off*

And now – ?

I have fucking STANDARDS inside’o’my STANDARDS baby.

I know what I want.

I know how it looks.

I know how it feels.

I know what the RESULTS are.

I know how it FLOWS.

And I call.that.shit. IN!

And oh my heaven and earth holy GOD I can tell you that when you start working with your SOUL people life is so.damn.FINE!

This don’t just apply to business, you understand 😉

So here’s what I want to tell you.

Today.

A message.

Today.

As my fingers fly quickly over my keyboard to get this out, wine at the ready, friends about to arrive at this beautiful wine bar, a live performance ahead, for this evening’s festivities, but I can NOT turn into that until I turn this out for you:

Stop.

Just stop.

With the HORRIBLY unattractive NEEDINESS.

And stop.

Just stop.

With the awful GRASPING.

For things.

And people.

And a business.

A life.

THAT YOU DON’T EVEN REALLY WANT.

Baby you’re the best and you were born for it.

Please –

Act fucking accordingly?

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!

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