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Live Your Passion

I’m A Mission-Focused Success Driven Robot Who Won’t Be Swayed From Her Path

I believe entrepreneurs need to have a single minded focus if they’re ever to complete their mission at all, let alone FULLY.

For me, my mission is the NUMBER one thing that matters in my life and the only thing I will put AHEAD of that is anything that FURTHERS my mission aka makes me into more of a success-driven Terminator-focused machine of awesome.

If it doesn’t help me move forward on my mission?

It’s out.

No exceptions.
No fucks given.

And I guess what this is really about is that you don’t need to give a fuck unless it’s what you actually give a fuck about.

Even though at times – many times – it may mean that I come across as a sociopathic mission-focused robot who simply isn’t NICE.

I don’t feel things unless I choose to.
I don’t care about social niceties.
I am ruthlessly focused on the emotional outcome I NEED in order to be able to function the way I need in order to get the RESULT I want, so much so that I will FORCE myself to change my state if need be.
I hate it when people say something you’re expected to respond in kind to: I want to say it when I want to say it

Don’t you ever feel like you just don’t CARE about all this stuff you think you have to care about?!

Me, I seem to be getting told a lot lately that I need to be more NICE. That I act too much like a robot in the way I go about my business and get my shit done, as well as the way I deal with whatever curveballs or interruptions come my way.

Just now I was reading James Altucher’s blog on being the luckiest person alive (his second version of it, the first one came out YEARS ago and was one of the posts I started following him for), and he said this:

“It used to take me years to bounce back from a hardship. Like losing all my money. Or a ruined relationship.

Now I bounce back so fast people almost think I’m a sociopath about it.”

YEP. That’s totally me. I’m at a point with the level of personal development I’ve done every day for nearly 20 years now and also with my FOCUSED vision on what it is I’m here to do and create that, (touch wood, I invite only good things from saying this!!), it is VERY hard to sway me and it also takes a lot for me to feel genuinely upset, shaken, embarrassed or foolish.

My general philosophy is pretty much that no matter what happens or no matter what I have to deal with –

It is what it is.

(You really can’t argue with the truth of that you know!!)

This does not go down SUPER well with those who I’d term the ‘not so crazy ones’. Just FYI and in case you relate to this and you’re thinking of trying to make it in the normal world still!!

Over the weekend, I did something that was potentially INCREDIBLY stupid and made me look like a complete vulnerable fool (not in a good way). It’s the kind of thing that in years gone by would have had me wanting to run from all who were aware of it and NEVER LET THEM SEE ME AGAIN NOR SHOW MY FACE.

I would have been MORTIFIED.

I SHOULD have been mortified. I can guarantee that pretty much any other woman on earth would have been mortified. (Except maybe you, my fellow crazy bitch!)

Instead I let myself feel a TWINGE and then I refocused on the shit I needed to get done that day.

I refocused on my freakin’ END goal.

And I got back to work.

It is what it is.

Last week a client mentioned not wanting to go on Periscope because of some of the awful comments she’d received at first try. I’ve seen this a lot, people justifiably going off that platform because of the trolls.

I haven’t used it for ages ’cause I prefer FB live but when I was scoping I got some pretty sick and let’s just say cunt-ish comments.

I remember feeling irritated that they were interrupting me and that it took me a minute to figure out how to block them.

Then blocked.

And moved on.

FOCUSED.

It’s been a long time since I let online hating or trolling get to me. I don’t get it heaps but I have had some SERIOUSLY nasty shit thrown at me.

Whatever. Not my issue.

The other day I was messaging back and forth with a close family member while also working. Talking about logistical stuff. I missed them saying they miss me in the middle of the conversation. I didn’t notice as I wasn’t really engaged in the conversation, it was just IM stuff about where / what / when. Besides, I don’t DO ‘real conversation’ over phone or email etc. I do it face to face or not at all.

They got really upset that I didn’t write ‘I miss you’ back.

“You’re such a fucking robot!”.

Yeah.

I guess I am.

“Why can’t you be more NICE?!”, that’s another one I hear not uncommonly.

Last night while working at the bar a guy tried to hit on me and I literally put my headphones in mid-sentence. I DID answer him politely at first while also turning back to my work, but when he didn’t get it I didn’t want to fuck around.

I have too much to do.

Often people will ask me for stuff or time that I REALLY don’t want to give – can’t afford to if I’m to remain focused on what MATTERS – and I long ago gave up trying to justify.

‘No, but thanks for asking’.

If they ask me for an explanation or a WHY?

‘No, but thanks for asking’.

I don’t have time. It doesn’t matter. It’s not your BUSINESS why I don’t want to spend my time on something that is not on MY focus list.

See here’s the thing:

I’m not NOT nice. I’m actually a super compassionate NICE person! And I do have emotions, contrary to MUCH popular opinion or so it seems!

I just no longer allow myself to be swayed from my vision by the day to day ups and downs of the normal life.

Most of the stuff that people get caught up in … distracted by … upset by … or feel they need to invest time and energy and emotion into because it’s the RIGHT THING or the POLITE thing or the PROFESSIONAL thing to do I just REALLY don’t care about.

So here’s the thing, and my point:

If this is who you are … and you relate to what I’m saying … and you sometimes are maybe HARD on yourself and you wonder if maybe you shouldn’t be NICER … more normal … more socially ACCEPTABLE …

Let me just tell you:

If your mission is more important to you than anything then THAT IS NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.

Might as well just admit it.

It’s NOT going to go away.

And here is what else:

Not many people are going to come along for this ride.

So you know what?

Deal with it. Adapt. BE OKAY WITH BEING WHO YOU ARE, and also?

Stop being so freakin’ hard on yourself!

So you’re not ‘socially polite’ and maybe you’re not even NICE …

You’re a bit of a ruthless and maybe even heartless bitch and people think you could stand to be more – let’s face it – DISTRACTED by them …

And the TRUTH is your mission is more important to you than anything …

So fucking what?

Accept who you are.
Stop worrying about being who you’re NOT.
And get the fuck on with it!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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