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Success Mindset

WHEN LIFE IS REFUSING TO DELIVER YOUR NEXT LEVEL, THIS IS PROBABLY WHY

A simple way to know if what you’re doing is in alignment, and will actually get you to where you desire to go, is to assess the complexity of the thing.

Anything more than a 3/10 on the ‘it’s gettin’ a little fancy’ scale, and you’ve got a pretty great chance that you’re barking up the wrong tree.

Relationship not working and so you plan out a myriad of things you could or should do, adventures and outings and ‘getting to re-know-you’s’ and agreements and carefully laid plans on how to better flow together day to day, appreciate or enjoy each other or just not be triggered like a mofo by one another?

Yeah …good luck with that! You may well get SOMETHING working, but the next thing you’ll need some work on is your mental health, and some serious stress, anxiety, or sorrow relief!

In business, just about the SECOND you find yourself trying to trick things up is the same second you lose the game.

Assuming that the game is not just to make MO-NEY, but also to be fulfilled, happy, in flow, and KNOW that you are doing what you’re meant to do.

It is?

Oh, good! Not just me then 🙂

But hey hey, let’s not convince ourselves that even if it were just about making money (screw fulfilment! screw happiness! screw flow! lol) that the answer would be to GET FREAKIN’ FANCY.

It would not.

It is not.

It never was.

And it never will be!

But yet, if you pay attention to how most people are out there showing up, and yes indeed-y most likely to how YOU are showing up a hella lot of the time (no fear; me toooooo, when I forget on occasion who I am!), then the sad truth of the matter is there are bells and whistles and bows everywhere, all topped off with an an unreasonable amount of unicorn glitter, and somewhere under there –

MAYBE

Is the simple stuff that, if you JUST LET IT DO IT’S THANG, would get you to EVERYWHERE you wanna be, and then some.

Okay, okay, so maybe we keep the unicorn glitter; why not?! But as for the rest of it, let’s be brave enough to call it what it is:

DISTRACTION.

Distraction, plain and simple, and a little delusion thrown in, but mainly a LOT of distraction from the fact that THIS IS NOT THE THING.

Just like, when you try to fancy up and ‘make work’ a relationship, what you’re REALLY doing is playing the dancing monkey-puppet in your own life, hoping that if you sing and shout and let it all out loud enough, you’ll be able to cover up the silent scream of your soul, as it EMPLORES you to be honest, and admit:

THIS IS NOT THE THING.

A rule of life,
Which you’d do OH so well to remember,
Which applies in EVERY area, no matter how much you want to try and justify or imagine otherwise – !

IF YOU NEED TO MAKE IT FANCY, OR EVEN JUST THINK THAT YOU DO, THEN THE BASICS ARE NOT IN PLACE AND IT IS VERY LIKELY NOT.THE.THING.

Get the basics in place.

The ACTUAL ones that automatically RESULT in a feeling of flow, inner peace, certainty, yes even when things are not yet resulting in the OUTCOMES you want … the feeling of KNOWING you’re on path and that this is aligned cannot be disguised …

Get THAT stuff in place,

and you will not NEED any other stuff on top of it.

This is true because a) you will see that keeping it simple and ALIGNED is what will WORK, and b) you’ll forget about the fancy stuff. Because you were never about that anyway. You never WANTED it. You just thought it’s probably maybe what you have to do, in order to SUCCEED!

“If I dance and side-step and twist and vocalise JUST right – !

And I am a VERY very good girl – !

THEN it will work for me, and I’ll get a LOVELY gold star!

Won’t I?

Anyone? Anyone?!”

Great way to live life. But yet, for most people it is THE way that they choose to live life, forever and ever and ever Amen!

Well, the thing to remember is – and don’t forget I mentioned I have to often remind mySELF of this too – the thing to remember is – WHO YOU FREAKING ARE!

Namely, NOT one of the 99.99% who does life by avoiding doing everything but THE thing!

We are the 1% within the 1% WITHIN the 1% and it’s time we ACTED it!

This means –

HONESTY.

Honesty, with self (who else, who else FIRST at least?!) about what.actually.matters.

What we know it’s meant to BE about.

What EXPANDS vs contracts, saddens, pushes us down. Expansion vs contraction is another of my favourite ‘is this actually the right thing’ tests.

What we feel in our soul is a YES.

What lights us up and lifts us up!

What we feel PROUD of.

Don’t you want a business, a life, a YOU, that you feel PROUD of?

So here is what to do.

If this is speaking to you but you can’t-quite-put-it-together and you’re not entirely sure what my main point is (don’t worry; me either! I’m just a simple messenger 

What you DO is, you ask yourself –

Where in my business, where in my life, where ANYWHERE, am I trying to make something that is not just a simple HELL yes –

Fancy and merry enough –

That it works?

Another way of saying it:

What turds am I tryna cover in glitter right now?

Sprinkle it on all you like, in the end it’s VERY very clear –

You’re either saying yes to your soul –

Or life is saying HELL no to you.

 

📷 no explanation should be necessary.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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