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Success Mindset


Oh honey, don’t you know –

You shouldn’t say that, men don’t like that, other women won’t like that, you’ll get a name for yourself, don’t DO that, now shush, and go, quietly, back to your work.

Oh little girl, what did you say?

That’s funny, that’s cute, that’s sweet, just be careful though, and remember – if you show too much of your soul, somebody might take it from you, so best, really, not to, and look –

Let me show you how to be like the others, how it’s done, and then, you are safe.

Oh child, with your magic, and your lightness, and your dreams, and your fairy-tale way of seeing the world –

No (said with a slightly patronising smile, and a tilt of the head) –

Art isn’t learning.

Art is just for fun!

You can do that when you’ve finished your lessons child, now back, to the things that matter, and away, from the things that call you, because don’t you realise, didn’t they tell you the rules?

If you want to do it –
If it’s calling you –
If it feels like FUN – !

That means it’s wasteful of time, and of energy, and not what a GOOD girl does, and you might be able to do just a little of it as a luxury when you have done the things you MUST but only, of course –

If you colour between the lines.

Just like us.
Just like us.
Just like us.
And the way we were shown, so that, nobody can see our heart, but more still than that – 

So that we ourselves don’t see our heart or worse still –

Know her.

Oh darling, yes, I know you were born with the knowledge of the ages deep inside of you, with wisdom running through you just as thick as the blood in your veins, with the mysteries of the collective ALWAYS just accessible, and I know that when you were young you did things, you knew things, you SAW things, and magic, was normal.

Visions would come to you.
Visitations, also.
And you’d travel –
In your heart
In your soul
In your spirit
Far away
To places where you’d create other worlds, and dance in them, and see EVERYTHING that was to come laid out before you, and you ALWAYS knew –
Exactly what to do
And exactly how to do it

There was never a question
There was never a doubt


I know this. I remember this time too, but didn’t you learn?

This was the way we thought before we were told how to think. What is allowed. What to talk about. And what to lock away. Ever so tightly. And then tigheter still. Until eventually we forget –

It was ever there.

Don’t TELL people you can do that, don’t SHOW them you know that, and for God’s sakes – !

Keep your mouth shut about the worlds between worlds and the layers you can see even right now in this moment –

As you look around –

The physical just one representation of what you’re currently IN.

And when you do your art –

As I know you inevitably WILL, for, as much as they tried to tell us that that is not what a GOOD girl does, it crept out, it snuck out, around the edges, we tried to quiet it and keep it down, we TRIED to conform, but there was always just a LITTLE bit of crazy popping out, and eventually a bit more, and soon enough we just COULDN’T hold it back, and so it came out –

But how did it come out?

When you do your art –

You can breathe the SMALLEST bit again, because finally you’re DOING the damn thing, but really –

It’s EVER so careful
It’s EVER so safe
And look – !


And with a pat on the head and a smile, they send you on your way, YOU send yourself on your way, and you feel –




The feeling of just barely TOUCHING your own soul coupled with the ANGUISH of letting it languish and die.

What a very interesting feeling …

What a very interesting way to live your life.

As you dance and play and write and create and PRETEND you’re doing what you came here to do when the whole entire time you’re still just that child –

Waiting for a gold fucking star and hoping you did it right.

KNOWING that if you let what was really inside of you out it would horrify | fascinate | magnetize | appall, but MOST of all it would LIGHT YOU UP WITH THE POWER THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE, and maybe –

Just maybe –

You’re not ready to be all that you are.

They tried to kill us.
They tried to keep us down.
They told us how to be safe.
They told us the RIGHT way.
The mocked our art, and made it small, made it a task for ‘after the real work’, for ‘fun’, and of course if it’s fun it can’t be real, it can’t be life.

We can get angry at them …
We can feel betrayed …
We can scream and shout …

But don’t forget –

Somewhere along the way –

We let them.

And somewhere along the way –

We REALISED this was wrong, and then?

We kept.fucking.letting them!

Your curiosity will kill you.
Your art makes you a crazy one, unsafe, not fit for normal society.
If you bare your soul you’ll get hurt.
Accessing your feminine WILES is dangerous.
Hide your sensuality.
Push your truth down.
And for the love of God –

There you go –

Good girl –

You’re doing it right –

You’re just like us –


And now we lay you down to rest

Preserved and pretty and just the way we always wanted you to be

Another lifeless clone of the rest of us

And the worst part of all is maybe not even that you never lived your God damn life, the WORST part of all is that you allowed yourself to be an example for women to come –

Of how to not be who you always were.

But well done …

You didn’t go out of a single line!

You get TEN gold stars.

And one soulless life.

Maybe you were gonna be somebody
Maybe you were gonna tear shit up
Maybe you had something BRILLIANT in its strength and power and RAW and wild

It doesn’t really matter

It was all just a game of make believe anyway

And look – !

This is what you chose.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x


I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!


You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,


What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!


1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!