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Success Mindset


I used to ask for small things, I got small things.

Now I ask for big things, for the best things, for all the things I most dream of and desire and crave. I now get big things, the best things, ALL the things I most dream of, desire, crave.

This is a lesson on how to ask for everything you never dared to dream for and also GET it.


It’s infinitely easier to aim for a standard of 1% within the 1% type excellence than what it is to aim for something more ‘realistic’ or a stepping stone type goal.

What UNsuccessful or ‘somewhat successful’ (same same) people never seem to get is that the whole POINT is to simply ask for and then do the work for the ACTUAL thing you want.

Think about this:

If you believe remotely in the law of attraction (and by the way you either believe or you do NOT believe, just on a NOT so side note …!) then asking for anything less than the ACTUAL big crazy amazing dream you want is just plain STUPID.

If manifestation really works (and it DEFINITELY does!) then it works just the same whether you ask for a grain of sand –

Or the entire fucking ocean.

So the only reason REALLY for you to ask for less than the actual dream life manifestation of what you want is, what?

You think you’re not good enough?

It’d be greedy?


We’ve already established that you can’t believe in LEVELS of manifestation so you gotta let go of THAT one, so let’s talk about the whole not good enough / self worth / bullshit / greed thing –

– or let’s NOT talk about it because it IS bullshit, because think about THIS:

If anything is possible –

And there’s infinite abundance available to you –

And we KNOW that us receiving more does not result in somebody else having less –

And ACTUALLY you HAVING more and ALLOWING more also allows you to IMPACT more, which is the OPPOSITE of greedy and selfish –


What the actual fuck are you thinking by asking for so LITTLE?!

It’s silly.

It’s ineffective.

It’s selfish.

AND to top it all off, if in asking for less you’re NOT asking for the aligned goal you actually WANT then you not only won’t GET the goal you wanted to hit (don’t ask don’t get!) but you also won’t get the half-ass / second tier version … because you asked for something you don’t really want!

It’s time to get real here.

You exist in a world in which you have the power to write your reality. Whatever you ask for, in faith and on repeat, and surrender to the ‘how’ of, will be yours.

I can tell you that the BIGGEST mistake I’ve made in business or life, the biggest thing I’d change if I were to go back, is just not asking for everything I really wanted. And even once I started to understand what I’m sharing with you here I then still only gradually scaled my goals up!

Telling myself that I should ‘work my way up’ to the big stuff …

That you can’t just skip levels …

Really all it was was fear and an underlying belief that I personally wasn’t WORTHY of having the business, life, love, everything, that I REALLY wanted.

A few years ago I started testing out asking for what I really wanted. I did this in a somewhat detached manner. I decided to stop getting all emotional as to whether or not I was ALLOWED, and simply:

1) Identify what I really REALLY wanted, the from the heart aligned dream I’d been too scared to ask for

2) Write it down in my journal as though already done (i.e. “I am … I have …)

3) CHOOSE to release / not worry about HOW it would come to life

4) Surrender the outcome: aka, again, not worry about how or when or even IF it would come to life, just CHOOSE to trust it will but let it go

5) Get the fuck on with my day. Aka: take action. One foot in front of the other.

6) Repeat. Daily.

7) It fucking worked.

This is the EXACT process I’ve used since then (and also before then if I think about it, I just asked for less), to make millions of dollars –

Stay lean AF and in fantastic shape no matter my age or how many kids or whatever –

Attract in absolute SOULMATE clients who I can’t even believe how lucky I am to get to work with –

Have insanely high conversions and repeat buys throughout my entire business / community –

Build a business which literally just requires me to get up each day and be ME, hold nothing back and never have to filter or excuse myself –

Attract in the love of my life who is also in love with me, my twin flame, the ONE –

Seriously just have the most fun and hands down AH-MAY-ZING life ever!

My secret is simple baby.

I just ask or what I want! What I REALLY REALLY want, no matter how outrageous or far flung it might seem.

I ask.

In full.

I release.

In full.

I do the work.

In full.

Now here is where a lot of people fuck this up –

They worry about HOW to do the WORK. What action do I take TODAY, Kat, to achieve that big dream?

They get really anxious if they don’t KNOW what to DO to:

* Make that sort of money

* Get that sort of body

* Attract in those high level clients

* Get paid to do what they love

* Meet their soulmate

* Do it all with EASE

Well, guess what? If you don’t know how you don’t fucking know HOW, but also it’s not ABOUT how, it’s about seeing | believing | feeling it in your cells as DONE and that is how you will ultimately step INTO the how.

I don’t really know HOW I made this money, got this body, found and fell in love with him, attracted in those sort of clients, etc, but I do know that I just kept asking for the full version of what I wanted and I chose not to get caught up in whether I was asking for too much.

And then I simply take action every day in every way to be the best version of ME that I could be.


And out.

Because ultimately here is what else I know fo SHO:

You attract in what you ARE.

Your results reflect YOU.

It’s not about the HOW or what you should DO it’s about “who do I need to BE in order to AUTOMATICALLY have that outcome?”

So here is the missing step I didn’t put above, plus all the other steps repeated:

1) Identify what I really REALLY wanted, the from the heart aligned dream I’d been too scared to ask for

2) Write it down in my journal as though already done (i.e. “I am … I have …)

3) CHOOSE to release / not worry about HOW it would come to life

4) Surrender the outcome: aka, again, not worry about how or when or even IF it would come to life, just CHOOSE to trust it will but let it go

5) Get the fuck on with my day. Aka: take action. One foot in front of the other.

—> MISSING LINK STEP: Be the ‘now’ version of the you who would already have all that stuff. STOP ASKING HOW. Eyes on your vision. Move towards it in faith, 0.01% adjustment every day, every moment, every breath.

5) Repeat. Daily.

6) It fucking works.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.