If You REALLY Fucking Want It, It’s Yours!

One thing you need to understand about making shit happen like MAGIC is that you have to really really really REALLY fucking want it.

It’s not enough to think it would be cool …

To HOPE that you get it …

Or even to do the work!

It has to be like life or fucking DEATH, you need to have Terminator like focus, laser vision to where NOTHING will stop you and you just KNOW that no matter what happens or how hard it is to hit your goal?

It’s motherfucking DONE.

And let’s be honest now –
When you think about what it is you’re CHASING right now –
What it is you SAY you want so.damn.bad –

Do you feel 100% CERTAIN that it’s done?

Because as much as I hate to be a downer, I AM here to tell you the truth and the truth is this:

99.99%? Is a complete fail. Life is too full to achieve the stuff you don’t HAVE to have, and more relevant still than that? You’ll GET precisely what you expect to get and what you make a MUST.

Nothing more.
Nothing less.

So if you WANT more, then don’t only ASK for more, but INSIST on more, and if you don’t WANT less than stop allowing it to be even a single 0.01% possible.

It blows my mind that more people don’t get this, or that they think that simply setting a goal and making steps towards it is going to have really even the slightest bit of impact. I actually think you’d be better off doing NOTHING to try and create success in ANY area of business | fitness | life if you don’t have a 100% absolute commitment to it, because ANYTHING less is simply a waste of your time and money, not to mention eventually your sanity and DEFINITELY your ability to believe in yourself.

If you think that’s too extreme then simply look around:

Facebook is like a WASTELAND of nonsense and rubbish and half-assery instead of assKICKERY. Let’s get real here – each of us know maybe 20 or so people on Facebook (know or know of) who are LEGITIMATELY crushing it. Okay, I do know more than 20 but I am priveleged to know most of the upper echelons of the entrepreneur and leader world online! 🙂

Regardless, for every 1 person we know who is indisputably making it HAPPEN there are, what? 100 people basically taking up space and duplicating BULLSHIT in an ABSOLUTELY half-assed attempt to somehow stand out and eek out a dollar or two. Heck, it’s probably more like 1000.

And here’s the thing:

If you categorise yourself as NOT in the masses and ultimately as one of those of us who are THERE, then we can very easily test out that theory and see how it fits you:

Are you –
100% –
Absolutely –
No matter WHAT –
Fucking CERTAIN –
That what you say you’re gonna have?
You’re gonna fucking have.

ONE HUNDRED PERCENT BABY.

ONE HUNDRED.

FULLY.

NO QUESTION.

NO DOUBT.

And NOTHING will stop you, because done just means DONE! I know I’m trying to ‘extra’ emphasise this concept of done by being extra SHOUTY and firm about it, but here’s the ACTUAL thing:

When something is a done deal and you know it, there IS no need to get shouty, overly aggressive, to try and prove your point about it. Would you shout and yell and insist to someone that the sky is mostly blue? That the sun rises without fail each day? That you need oxygen to breathe? That you can’t trust a person who doesn’t like coffee or wine? 😉

No.
You don’t need to INSIST or get overly worked UP about things you know are done.
They just ARE.
It’s how it IS.
No question.
No doubt.
And no matter WHAT the hardship you need to overcome along the way to get there it is just how it IS.

If you think back to the things in your life that were NEVER in question, isn’t it true you felt that way long before you saw the physical manifestation come to life? Whether it was that pair of jeans you HAD to have, that guy or girl you KNEW you were gonna be with, that test you were GOING to smash, that workout you’d crush, that opportunity or deal or position that was YOURS, if you knew it?

You fucking knew it.

And it seems to me sadly bloody rare to encounter people who have this level of certainty. Every DAY I see or speak to people who are hell yes’ing all over the place, all over my stuff, all over freaking Facebook and insisting to all and sundry that they ARE going to make it, that this is their year, or 2017 is their year (I thought this one was supposed to be?!), or that NOTHING IS GONNA STOP ME NOW BITCHES!

And all I think –
With an inward SIGH –
Quite honestly?

Me thinks the lady doth protesteth too much.

I mean REALLY –
You’ve only SAID it 100,000 times!
But where are the results?

And sometimes when I ASK people they even admit –
They’re comfortable.
YES they want more!
It’s just …
Or it’s only …
Or they can’t until …!

And the fact that they even remotely BELIEVE their own bullshit or simply don’t get that you have to be RELENTLESS, OBSESSED, a KILLER, well –

I guess they just don’t fucking get it.
Were never meant to, perhaps.
Weren’t BORN for it, really.

And THAT is what it all comes down to really, isn’t it?

Some were born for it.
MOST FUCKING WEREN’T.

Everybody (at least in this world!) seems to want to THINK that they’re one of the chosen few, and maybe we all ARE special unicorn flowers who WERE freaking called, but here is what y’all seem to be missing:

Just because you have a destiny and were CALLED –
Doesn’t mean you’re GOING TO FUCKING LIVE IT.

You want it well baby yes you WERE born for it and can have it but guess what?

You’re going to have to do what it takes.
No matter what it takes.
UNTIL it takes and THEN KEEP GOING.

Is it really so hard to understand or live by?
ALL you have to do is give your entire fucking life –
To live your entire fucking DREAMS.

Most people reading this –
Will hell yes all over it.
Nod their heads.
Say Kat, that’s me!

All I ask is that if you say that?

You actually damn well mean it, and also, that you LIVE by the reality, and the reality is this:

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