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SELFISH BITCH

A MANIFESTO FOR DRIVEN WOMAN WHO WANT IT ALL, AND ARE NOT AFRAID TO TAKE IT.

(Revolutionary Fucking Leader Book 2)

A NEW BREED OF WOMEN

The Selfish Bitch Manifesto

Where it all began … early this year, in a fit of frustration at how damn HARD us ladies often make it for ourselves, I whipped off an email rant to my community.

What followed, was something of a movement. It made me, and I’m honoured to say a ton of other women entrepreneurs who took up the message, realise that it is OKAY to want it all and it’s even okay to TAKE it all, and what’s more? Maybe putting yourself and your dreams first doesn’t have to be a bad thing.

Here’s the email that started it all:

Do you ever feel like you just can’t help yourself and that you are SO damn selfish with your time and what you want to be doing?

I can’t tell you how many times a DAY I feel torn between whether to work on my business or spend time playing with my four year old daughter and my six month old son, or maybe even relaxing with my husband once in a while … and I have to be honest here (even though I’m scared to say this) –

My preference is working on my business.

My eyes are covered right now. Please don’t throw things at me! I swear I love, love, LOVE being a Mum and there is no sweeter sound than that of my kids laughing, but full disclosure? There is no sweeter feeling than the satisfaction of knowing I showed up in my business today and I did the work I know I am born to do.

And I’m not gonna pretend any longer –

I am a workaholic, and proud of it.

And you know what else? I am really freaking selfish about getting time for my work.
I leave the house in a mess most days.

My bills don’t get paid until I get the reminder notice (not because I don’t wanna pay them, just cause I forget!)

I HATE when my kids or husband or ANYONE speaks to me when I’m working, especially if it’s when I’m writing.

I will go out of my way to avoid people, situations, meetings and tasks – pretty much to whatever extent I need to – if it means I can get to be alone with my laptop.

I find small talk EXCRUCIATING because I’d rather be creating in my biz, sending something out there into the world.

I could go on and on here, but I don’t want to appear any more of a selfish bitch than what I already am!

But here’s the thing, the thing about being such a god-darn selfish bitch!

And because I am so unbelievably selfish, such a god-damn selfish bitch in fact, I have built up an online company that makes 80k per month, that allows me to work a total of less than twenty-five hours a week, that means my family and I could pack up our lives at the drop of a hat last year, move to our current beach-side abode and are taking off in June of this year for a couple years living the laptop lifestyle.

You might not naturally be a selfish bitch like I am. But I’m guessing that if you’re reading it’s not because you’re aghast at the awfulness that is me.

It’s because you can relate.

Because you are RELIEVED to hear you’re not alone.

Because you need somebody to tell you that you’re NOT a bad Mum, wife, partner or friend and that it doesn’t make you a bad person to want to be alone with your laptop, your ideas, and a never-say-die determination to make your dream business and life HAPPEN.

Us selfish bitches get sh*t done.

And that’s exactly why I’ve created this book. It’s a call to arms.

A call to women all around the world who are so damn OVER the guilt, and the ridiculous pressure to be NORMAL and do what they ‘should’ do.

I’m here to tell you that you are doing exactly what you should be doing, and you’re doing a damn good job of it as well.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

✨✨ Success Frequencies.

Let’s talk about them. Breathe them in. ALLOW them in. And then dial them TF in.

Are you ready?

There are certain ways of being, of operating, of thinking, and perhaps most in particular of expecting which are currently dictating your outcomes in every area of life.

You are, quite literally, coded. Programmed. Running on a frequency of … X.

With X being, well – whatever you see around you most days. Whatever you experience. Feel. Know to be true. Receive and hold onto. Receive and do not hold on to. Or do not receive at all.

There are certain things in your life which right now you can click your fingers and command to replicate, on repeat, and they do.

And there are other things which SHOULD be in your life, which you yearn to have in your life, which sometimes you get a glimpse or a taste of or even an entire mouthful, and then they’re gone, into the night, maybe never to return again, shrouded in mystery and frustration but yet at the same time that deeper part of you knows –

it’s not supposed to be like this.

It shouldn’t be.

I don’t accept it!

And I WILL move past.

You look into the future you see inside of you and you know that it is ALL real, ALL available, ALL true, ALL there for the taking. A virtual sushi train of wondrous life options, every one of ’em just a choice you can pluck off as it rolls on by! Don’t see what you want, not exactly? All you gotta do is ASK, and it’ll be freshly made for you!

Your belief around the impossible is OFF THE CHARTS.

And it always has been.

Your PROOF, of CREATING and ALLOWING the impossible is also pretty darn off the charts, if you do say so yourself. Which you don’t have to, because others do it for you!

It’s ALWAYS been this way for you, you’ve ALWAYS been able to dance between realities and choose the one you wanna keep.

But yet –

it feels, so much of the time, as though you’re teetering.

Teetering on the edge of will I / won’t I let myself FULLY go and receive, create, allow, BE –

or will I fall back into normal, into rules, into worries, into shoulds, into the dreaded dreaded fear that it’ll somehow all just stop working and I’ll find out there was never anything special about me at all, never anything wondrous about what I could do, and that I just somehow … fluked things for a bit.

Sometimes you’re CERTAIN which way you’re going to topple.

And other times you’re terrified you have no idea at all, and if you did you wouldn’t want to know.

But what you do know is this:

When things are working.

When things are flowing to and through and from you in the precise ways they should be.

When things are OH so yes.

When it’s all just coming together, the different areas of your business your money your life and YOU just rolling PERFECTLY, like a beautiful and impossible to replicate orchestra, pure MAGIC –

it’s not because of what you did.

It is not because of how you planned, followed the plan, did it right.

It’s not a list you ticked off that made it that you got to then GET.

It’s not because you followed RULES for success.

Or really anything at all.

It’s because you were playing life on a certain frequency. You were tapped in, dialled in, LEANING all the way in to something you can’t even fully describe but you KNOW when you’re in it.

You were, not to be too corny or cliche about it but we’ll say it anyway ’cause it’s true – one with life itself. Dancing the most beautiful dance of BEING FULLY YOU with the wind beneath your wings nothing other than God and truth and the very fabric of the universe, what else could it be?!

Put simply:

you had those Success Frequencies switched on to high AF, and you were using ’em.

Want to know how to do that more, in fact any time you choose, in fact with complete calm understanding of what it is you ARE doing and how to tap in and BE in that energy, that place, that receiving, at will?

It’s always been available.

It’s ALWAYS been right there for the taking.

EVERYTHING you’ve suspected this whole time is true.

And now?
We’re gonna get you understanding it (every last bit).

Living it (as naturally as breathing).

And UTILISING it to let life unwind to the places you’ve been waiting to be (the way it’s meant for you).

Ready?

Success Frequencies with Katrina Ruth, beginning February 1st.

12 audio deep dive trainings.

12 homework worksheets designed to break you open, wake and shake you into the place your inner self is already meant to be playing in, and lead you to specific steps YOU get to take in order to see drastic life elevation … aka RESULTS, the ones you want and are waiting on … in every area of your life.

24 days in total to revolutionise your life, how you see yourself, and how the world shows up for you in return.

This?

Changes everything.

Full price: $497

Pre-register here today and you pay only $197 total, or 2 payments of $109.

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Here’s what it comes down to:

You’ve always known that the work is about so much more than the work. AND YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. There’s not a single extra second you will one day be relieved you waited to go all in on that.

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