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Success Mindset


Most people who are trying to do the entrepreneur and online business thing really should NOT be. Maybe you WERE born to be a leader, a revolutionary, to change the world with your message and not.back.down, but the reality? Most people weren’t and so maybe YOU weren’t.

If things aren’t going the way you SAY you want them to then it’s really a very simple matter of facing up to the fact that either:

a) you’re not doing the work, or
b) you simply weren’t born for this, or more likely:
c) you’re not doing the work BECAUSE YOU WEREN’T BORN FOR THIS, because if you WERE freakin’ born for this you’d be DOING THE WORK AND GETTING THE RESULT and nothing and nobody would stand in your way, least of all your OWN bullshit or drama.

Yep … this is gonna be one of THOSE posts, in which I’m kind of an asshole but in which really what I care about is if this isn’t the playground you’re supposed to be in GET THE FUCK OUT.

Okay so I guess we’re starting straight in with the asshole thing then!

But here’s where I actually think this matters:

Don’t do shit you weren’t born to do.

Live your life on PURPOSE.

Find the calling you can live all day every day, 24 hours a day, and never want to slow or stop or even take a BREATH away from because the fire within you burns so strong.

MOST wantrepreneurs are floating around with a one day fantasy dream of not having to be under command or work again, of making 6-figures, 7-figures, beyond online and then kicking back on a beach with a so-called freedom lifestyle.

That’s all well and good and why SHOULDN’T you want to do fuck all with your life, ahem, sorry, automate something you don’t really care about so you can make money while you sleep and, well, do fuck all with your life …

… you see the problem here?

If you DON’T then trust me: you’re one of the ones I’m talking to who WAS NOT BORN FOR THIS, and this poses TWO pretty critical concerns:

1) you’re not going to MAKE that money so you can go sit your no doubt overweight (’cause if you’re not motivated to work all day in business you’re prob. not motivated to do what it takes in any area) ass on the beach or couch, because the way to MAKE THAT money and have the ability to choose how you then live is to BE THE PERSON BORN FOR THIS. I know, SO annoying! Why can’t you just build a nice little 6-figure hobby business and not have to live the normal life? No fair!!

2) okay there is no 2), it’s really just plain and simple YOU’RE NOT BORN FOR THIS.

So, how do you know you WERE born for this?

Pretty fucking simple, isn’t it?

You know because you KNOW. You don’t need MY seal of approval or anybody else’s. And there is ZERO doubt in your mind that you’re going to make it big ALL the fucking way.

You do the work.
Every day.
No question.
No buts.

Here’s the thing:

If you’re in this to build to 6-figures so you don’t have to go back to work after having a kid …

Or because you don’t wanna live the normal life …

And you just want to create a pretty little website, launch a program, make some money …

You weren’t born for THIS and my community is not the place for you. Frankly I don’t believe you’ll REACH those pretty little goals as success requires an ALL IN attitude.

But, there are plenty of business coaches out there teaching business-in-a-box and that you can make money on a few hours a week.

Go follow them.
Do your thing.
And who knows? If you’re really committed you probably WILL achieve whatever you set out for.

But don’t try and play in the LEADER pool or the REAL entrepreneur pool if you don’t actually see business as LIFE and you’re not prepared willing and EXCITED to hustle all day long and LIVE.THE.GRIND.

Know your limitations.

And focus on what you’re actually going to achieve based on what you’re willing to DO.

The all in life is not only not for everyone it is for VERY fucking few people.

Most simply AREN’T WILLING to do what it takes and are never GOING to even if they say they’re willing.

MOST are simply not BORN for this.

But if you’re born for this –

And you KNOW it –

And you REFUSE to fucking NOT run this thing –

Then just one challenge to you today:

Are you acting like it?

‘Cause if you’re not? If you’re not showing up, every day, no matter what, no buts, no ifs, no maybes, no regard to whether or not you FEEL like it ..?

If you’re not hustling your fucking ASS off?

If you’re not doing the WORK, all the work, all day, EVERY day?

Then baby you can SAY you were born to lead, to make and impact millions all you like.

But all you are?

Is a little girl crying wolf.

Because when all is said and done here is how we KNOW you were born for this:

You’re doing it.
You are it.
And everybody who meets you KNOWS that baby?


Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.