By using thekatrinaruthshow.com, you consent to our use of cookies.

News

Can You Face Your Own Reality?

When was the last time you took stock of your life? I mean really subjected yourself to an honest self-appraisal? Made note of the (true) state of your health and fitness? Without excuses, that is. When did you last compare the direction your job choices have taken you over the past year to the direction you intended to go? Give some thought to the state of your personal life and ‘fess up (if only to yourself) as to whether this was the way your life is ‘supposed’ to look.
Sometimes it’s easier to just forget to self-evaluate. Hear no evil, see no evil, so to speak. And who could blame you? You lead a busy life, I’m sure. Work, gym, social events, domestic chores, facebook … who has time to actually get off the wheel now and then and ask themselves the hard questions? Our lives are too go, go, go! We’re important people! There’s no time to stop! No time to think. No time to decide whether or not this go, go, go life you’re leading is actually the one you want. Or whether it truly satisfies you and allows you to live up to your potential.

You know what? I take back my implication that no-one’s going to blame you for not stopping to think. ‘Cause I think that when all is said and done, you’re going to have a hard time looking yourself in the mirror if you know deep down that you missed out on your dreams because you were just too busy.

Last week I returned from a short trip to Germany. I went back to my second home for a good friend’s wedding. As you can imagine, I was kinda having too much fun while away to sit back and reflect.

But you know what? Returning to real life after a break like this is an excellent time to force some honest self-reflection. When I look at my life, I have to say I’m pretty happy overall. And so I should be! I’ve spent the past decade working to create the business and life that I desire. But there are still elements of my business, my home life, definitely my rest life, and even my health and fitness that I’m not satisfied with. Things that I’ve meant to do for so long now I find them listed in ‘goal’ files from years back, yet still continue to earnestly add them to my new lists – without stopping to actually DO something about it rather than repeatedly write it down!

I’m sure I’m not the only one …

Am I?

If you’re feeling brave, or even if you’re not, take a moment to think about the following questions. Just for starters:

1.    When you look at the way you spend most of your time (I’m guessing work), can you honestly say that you: a) truly enjoy and are passionate about what you do, at least most of the time, or: b) can see that it is an investment in building your career/lifestyle to the point where you WILL be truly passion and enjoyment filled? Bit of a mouthful, I know, but simple to answer … so which is it?

2.    When you consider the people who make up your ‘inner circle’, do you truly look forward to seeing them? Can you honestly say that they build you up rather than tear you down? That you get something – anything – positive from being around them? That you consider each close relationship or friendship to be a worthwhile long-term investment? Maybe that sounds harsh? Well maybe that’s too bad – if the people around you aren’t a positive influence, then, really, what’s the point? I don’t mean you need to surround yourself with creative genius, but there’s gotta be something uplifting there! Even if it’s just that their smile makes you happy.

3.    How about your ‘you’ time? How do you spend your free hours? Exercising? Watching TV? Reading? What do you read? What do you watch? Do you get outdoors and try different activities, visit different places? Or are you too tired to bother? Relaxation is important, but doing nothing is not necessarily relaxing. Often, it can make you feel worse! I didn’t say always ☺. And while I’d definitely promote filling some of your time with exercise, spending all your spare time training is not a great idea either – even a healthy activity can become a source of stress and a reason not to get things done in other areas of your life.

You know, it doesn’t have to take going to Europe to force some self-reflection (although that’s certainly a nice way to precede it!) Just in reading through that you’ve most probably answered all those questions in your head. Maybe it would be worth writing your answers down? I’ve found committing this sort of thing to paper can be incredibly powerful, and it can definitely force action.

Stay with me for another few moments. What are some other hard questions you could ask of yourself? Why not give me – and other readers –  a few ideas in the comments section below. Or, if you’re willing to bare all and give yourself a bit of added accountability, why not post a few hard truths about your own direction? It just might force you to do something! If you make up your mind, then there’s no reason why answering these questions can’t be the start of  an overhaul that turns your life around! Don’t let this be just another ‘good idea’ that doesn’t go anywhere. Don’t let another year float away from you. You deserve a life created with intent. Don’t you?

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!