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Success Mindset

THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T HAVE WHAT YOU WANT YET

The thing you have to understand about success, having it all, having it on your terms, having it NOW, is that it really shouldn’t be that complex.

I can guarantee you that if your approach to writing out your big picture vision or your goals and affirmations is something that feels like you ‘have to’ make sure you don’t miss anything and that you note down every teeny-tiny ‘just in case’ detail then you’re NOT in fact achieving your goals and dreams as fast as you could be, and possibly not at all.

Wanna know why?

It’s pretty simple actually, and makes total sense once you think about it or remind yourself of it:

You’ll get what you focus on, always and 100% of the time.

So if you’re focusing on detail … on the supposed STEPS, basically, or markers which you imagine need to be checked off in order to get to THERE, then, well –

(Just think about it!) –

By definition you can NOT very well also be focused fully on THERE, aka the end goal.

You might have it in mind …

Be able to talk or write about it if pressed …

But if it’s not THE main thing you’re thinking about, affirming, holding uppermost in your mind over and over again on REPEAT then it just makes logical SENSE that you’re not going to get to it as fast as you would if you WERE focusing on it all the time.

It’s just MATH baby …!

And here’s the other thing. It’s kind of a BIG thing, actually –

While it makes some sort of sense in theory to picture all of the ins and outs of what achieving your dreams will look like and what you might have to do in order to accomplish it, and therefore to focus ON said steps, the reality is you don’t actually KNOW, do you?

You don’t know what it is you’re going to have to do to get to there …

And fuck the “how”, anyway, right?! Does it actually MATTER how you get there, or is the end goal simply to BE there?

You also don’t know all the ins and outs of how it will look and feel once you ARE there, and while it’s nice to dream and think about it, if your FOCUS is on the ins and outs well, that’s what you’re asking to create.

Just because you THINK that that might equate to achieving the actual goal, doesn’t make it so!

If you’re serious about achieving everything you ever wanted and faster than you ever thought possible I can tell you that the FASTEST way to do so is going to simply be to focus on the actual end goal.

You say you want to sell a certain number of places in your launch, attract in a certain type of client, have this and that and the other thing come to life along your business journey and maybe you DO and maybe it IS assumed that in order to hit your really big goals you’ll need to do those things along the way, but let me ask you:

Do these things you set as ‘on the way’ goals actually MATTER to you? REALLY? Like in a THIS IS WHAT MY LIFE IS MEANT TO BE ABOUT sort of way?

‘Cause if they do that’s GREAT and by all means keep spending your time and energy focused on ACHIEVING them, but if what you really really really actually want is something altogether different, deeper, more transformational and simply just more big picture, then why not focus just on that?

And I know:

It’s scary –

To ask for what you REALLY actually want.

And I know:

It’s easier –

To set a ‘more achievable’ or ‘realistic’ goal.

And I know:

It feels like too MUCH –

To admit that actually you kinda sorta DEFINITELY see yourself going to heights higher than what most would ever even consider.

And I KNOW:

It seems to just make more SENSE to break it down, chunk it down, figure it out, bit by bit, how to get there, and GRADUALLY work your way to where you ACTUALLY “one day” wanna be, but here is what ELSE I know:

You always get what you ask for.
Ask for more, get more.
Ask for gradual, or EXPECT gradual, get gradual, and that doesn’t even take into account the fact that your gradual STEPS when put all together might land you in a completely different place from your REAL fucking dream!

If there’s one thing –
I wish I knew –
OH so long ago and well before I started to achieve the results I have now –

It would be to know that actually if I just go straight to the end goal, ask for it in faith no matter how UNREASONABLE or UNATTAINABLE it may seem, lock it in and repeat repeat repeat daily that yes THIS is what I want and choose and also choose to BELIEVE in, and then move forward towards in FAITH?


That that’s exactly what I’m gonna get.

The only difference between you –

And somebody already living your dream –

Is that the person who got to one day already?

Just asked for what they really wanted.

Stop being so God damn shy with your requests. There’s an unlimited buffet of YES available to you, but if you insist on only taking the teeny tiniest crumb for yourself, then ain’t nobody gonna force anything extra down your throat.

If you weren’t such a scaredy-cat and terrified that you don’t have what it takes to press play or that you’re simply not WORTHY –

What do you think you’d already have achieved this past year or so?

Having the balls to ask for what you want and then chase it unapologetically is just a choice. You can continue to not make it if you want, but that doesn’t make it any less true that all you EVER had to do was ask, and then?

Do the fucking work.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/