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Success Mindset

THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T HAVE WHAT YOU WANT YET

The thing you have to understand about success, having it all, having it on your terms, having it NOW, is that it really shouldn’t be that complex.

I can guarantee you that if your approach to writing out your big picture vision or your goals and affirmations is something that feels like you ‘have to’ make sure you don’t miss anything and that you note down every teeny-tiny ‘just in case’ detail then you’re NOT in fact achieving your goals and dreams as fast as you could be, and possibly not at all.

Wanna know why?

It’s pretty simple actually, and makes total sense once you think about it or remind yourself of it:

You’ll get what you focus on, always and 100% of the time.

So if you’re focusing on detail … on the supposed STEPS, basically, or markers which you imagine need to be checked off in order to get to THERE, then, well –

(Just think about it!) –

By definition you can NOT very well also be focused fully on THERE, aka the end goal.

You might have it in mind …

Be able to talk or write about it if pressed …

But if it’s not THE main thing you’re thinking about, affirming, holding uppermost in your mind over and over again on REPEAT then it just makes logical SENSE that you’re not going to get to it as fast as you would if you WERE focusing on it all the time.

It’s just MATH baby …!

And here’s the other thing. It’s kind of a BIG thing, actually –

While it makes some sort of sense in theory to picture all of the ins and outs of what achieving your dreams will look like and what you might have to do in order to accomplish it, and therefore to focus ON said steps, the reality is you don’t actually KNOW, do you?

You don’t know what it is you’re going to have to do to get to there …

And fuck the “how”, anyway, right?! Does it actually MATTER how you get there, or is the end goal simply to BE there?

You also don’t know all the ins and outs of how it will look and feel once you ARE there, and while it’s nice to dream and think about it, if your FOCUS is on the ins and outs well, that’s what you’re asking to create.

Just because you THINK that that might equate to achieving the actual goal, doesn’t make it so!

If you’re serious about achieving everything you ever wanted and faster than you ever thought possible I can tell you that the FASTEST way to do so is going to simply be to focus on the actual end goal.

You say you want to sell a certain number of places in your launch, attract in a certain type of client, have this and that and the other thing come to life along your business journey and maybe you DO and maybe it IS assumed that in order to hit your really big goals you’ll need to do those things along the way, but let me ask you:

Do these things you set as ‘on the way’ goals actually MATTER to you? REALLY? Like in a THIS IS WHAT MY LIFE IS MEANT TO BE ABOUT sort of way?

‘Cause if they do that’s GREAT and by all means keep spending your time and energy focused on ACHIEVING them, but if what you really really really actually want is something altogether different, deeper, more transformational and simply just more big picture, then why not focus just on that?

And I know:

It’s scary –

To ask for what you REALLY actually want.

And I know:

It’s easier –

To set a ‘more achievable’ or ‘realistic’ goal.

And I know:

It feels like too MUCH –

To admit that actually you kinda sorta DEFINITELY see yourself going to heights higher than what most would ever even consider.

And I KNOW:

It seems to just make more SENSE to break it down, chunk it down, figure it out, bit by bit, how to get there, and GRADUALLY work your way to where you ACTUALLY “one day” wanna be, but here is what ELSE I know:

You always get what you ask for.
Ask for more, get more.
Ask for gradual, or EXPECT gradual, get gradual, and that doesn’t even take into account the fact that your gradual STEPS when put all together might land you in a completely different place from your REAL fucking dream!

If there’s one thing –
I wish I knew –
OH so long ago and well before I started to achieve the results I have now –

It would be to know that actually if I just go straight to the end goal, ask for it in faith no matter how UNREASONABLE or UNATTAINABLE it may seem, lock it in and repeat repeat repeat daily that yes THIS is what I want and choose and also choose to BELIEVE in, and then move forward towards in FAITH?


That that’s exactly what I’m gonna get.

The only difference between you –

And somebody already living your dream –

Is that the person who got to one day already?

Just asked for what they really wanted.

Stop being so God damn shy with your requests. There’s an unlimited buffet of YES available to you, but if you insist on only taking the teeny tiniest crumb for yourself, then ain’t nobody gonna force anything extra down your throat.

If you weren’t such a scaredy-cat and terrified that you don’t have what it takes to press play or that you’re simply not WORTHY –

What do you think you’d already have achieved this past year or so?

Having the balls to ask for what you want and then chase it unapologetically is just a choice. You can continue to not make it if you want, but that doesn’t make it any less true that all you EVER had to do was ask, and then?

Do the fucking work.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!