FUCK THE HOW; INSIST ON WHAT YOU WANT
I have a particular goal which I want to achieve really really really REALLY fucking really badly. I’m a little bit scared of this goal and if I’m being truly honest with you, as much as I HATE to admit this aloud, I’m worried that maybe it’s not possible.
Not possible at all??? Nah …. I definitely know it’s possible, I know lots of people (well, several!) who’ve achieved it, it’s just that something within me questions whether it’s possible for ME.
I worry that maybe I’m not good enough.
Maybe I’m not worthy of achieving something so cool!
Maybe I don’t have what it takes, shouldn’t I have already achieved it?
Maybe it’s just never going to happen for me, maybe that’s an area of my life where I’m just bound for ETERNAL FUCKING STRUGGLE, because hey – it would be too good to be TRUE!
I’ve been so used to thinking this way around this particular goal that I honestly did not realise the ridiculousness of everything I’ve been thinking, everything I just shared and actually had not until now ACKNOWLEDGED I was thinking, until about 5 minutes ago.
I think I shelved this goal a while back, even though for sure at times I’ve made tentative steps to journal on it or try to figure out ‘how’ to solve it.
But I haven’t REALLY looked it in the eye, not for a while and I think maybe not ever. I’ve known I had all these deep-set fears around it … and in a prime example of not practising what I preach and thinking that I get to have an exception because it’s something scary to ME … and despite the fact that I would fully kick your BUTT if you were my client and made exceptions on which goals you are or are not allowed to achieve …. I’ve pretty much just avoided ever fully looking at the situation.
And all of a sudden just now, as I journaled, it hit me:
Why on earth am I getting so EMOTIONAL about it, firstly? Since when was manifestation, dealing with your shit, creating the life you want, remotely about LOGIC?
Identify the goal or desired outcome.
Choose the beliefs you need to have locked in in order to achieve said outcome.
Repeat repeat repeat the beliefs and the fact that the outcome is DONE, over and over as many times as you can daily, every day, and then some, until done, and even after done.
Do the work / take the action that you would take if you HAD those beliefs and fully knew and understood that it is done.
It’s how I’ve only achieved –
EVERYFUCKINGTHING I’ve achieved.
Including the biggest and craziest and most awesome stuff! The stuff I am fully aware others look at and wish they could do, wonder how I DID do, dream of and know they one day WILL do … if only the could figure out the ‘steps!’
And I say –
Fuck the steps!
Heck, I’m pretty well known for saying fuck the how, fuck the steps, fuck anything that is not about simply locking in the mindset to where it is DONE!
And yet –
I guess I’m fucking human after all! Or I just think I’m special maybe, and that the things I struggle with are genuinely more complex or bigger deal 🙂
Except, they’re not.
The biggest and scariest things for ME are no different than any.other.goal.
Anything I’ve ever achieved.
Anything you’ve ever achieved.
Anything you DREAM of achieving.
So right now I want to make myself ACCOUNTABLE to you, because you can bet your bottom dollar that now I’ve NOTICED what I was doing I’ll be taking my own advice!
It’s not DELIBERATE, when I don’t practice what I preach 🙂
I want YOU to also get accountable to ME though, and of course to yourself.
Where are you telling yourself a story about something that’s too big?
Too ‘much’, for you, that maybe you’re not good enough?
Where are you making things SO much harder than what they need to be, and essentially not LETTING yourself achieve something you so desperately want?
The truth here is plain and simple:
Just because you really really want something –
Doesn’t mean you can’t have it, or that it’s any tougher to achieve than something you’ve already LET yourself believe you can have –
And therefore let in!
It’s time to remove emotion.
And go get your EVERY real dream.
Stop fucking around pretending you don’t know what to do –
When all you need to do?
Is choose. Believe. Lock it in. And act like somebody who knows how this shit, the REAL shit of creating what you want in life?
Don’t forget –
Life is Now. Press Play.