Success Mindset

Fuck the Steps!

Just-because

Quick question for ya –

How often do you actually stop and QUESTION the way you’re doing business? (Or life, since there really shouldn’t be much DIFFERENCE now, should there?)

I don’t know about you but I find it INFURIATINGLY easy to get caught up in (once again, ffs!) doing all of the Things Which I Think Must Be Done.

Things that I HAVE to do (don’t I?!) in order to –

Be someone important.
Doing something good.
And worthy.
So that people will like me.
And buy my stuff.

Or, I don’t know, there might be other things but I think that in a nutshell?

That’s it.

And it just makes me wonder, now that I AM stopping to wonder about it –

WHO MADE THEM GOD ANYWAY?!

And by THEM, I mean of course ANYBODY who you are listening to, taking the word of at face value, and then structuring your LIFE according to without even considering whether you WANT to live your life that way.

I dunno, is it just me or is it freaking CRAZY that with all that we know about CHOICE and POSSIBILITY and the fact that it’s the OUTCOME that matters not the journey we are STILL acting like scared little schoolgirls and asking permission for how we BE OURSELVES?

Seems kinda crazy to me.

But hey, I’m just the one noticing it and (once again!) trying to pull myself up on it.

How about YOU?

If you’re not sure whether this resonates with you or is at all RELEVANT, a quick quiz –

All you have to do is answer ‘rules’ or ‘gut’ for each question. Namely, which one are you following.

*The way you’re currently trying to grow your list
*The way you plan out and then run your launches
*The way you blog, or indeed the way you communicate at all
*How often you email
*What type of stuff you email
*How often you post on social media (or if you use it at all)
*The style of coaching you do
*The structure of your programs
*How you network (or if you network!)
*What sort of learning you do
*What you do to get your name out there
*How you communicate in forums (your own and other people’s)
*How you map out your marketing
*What you do to SELL shit

GUT OR RULES honey? You only get to choose one in each situation but here’s where it gets just a LITTLE bit more confrontational –

I’d be willing to bet that how you do ONE thing?

Is how you do everything.

And how you do EVERYTHING, in case you didn’t realise?

Is how you’re crafting your life AND WHO YOU’RE SAYING YOU’RE ALLOWED TO BE.

So which is it baby?

Gut or rules?

Are you a GOOD little girl, desperately trying to DO THE RIGHT THING so that EVERYBODY likes her and she gets a gold star?

Nawwwww …

FAIL.

THAT IS NOT WHAT YOUR LIFE IS ABOUT.

SOME people’s, maybe.

But YOU?

You’re NO gold star wannabe honey.

So let’s try this again, yeah? Are you a GOOD little girl, carefully joining the dots of life so that somebody SOMEWHERE (please!) recognises her, or are you LIVING YOUR LIFE LIKE IT’S ACTUALLY YOURS?

Or to put it another way –

Are you carving your DESTINY right now, and living on PURPOSE, or do you prefer the Life-In-A-Box sort of approach, one that means the years pass by SAFELY, and you do some NICE stuff, and you get REWARDED by society, because hey!

Everybody loves SOMEBODY WHO FITS IN JUST LIKE THEM.

A tip for you, in case you’re not sure which path is for you –

You don’t get to live “life on your terms” if the TERMS were pre-determined by somebody else.

And those TERMS, those RULES, those STEPS that you’re following because that’s how it IS, that’s how it’s DONE, that’s how we DO things in online marketing, or in the woman entrepreneur world, or if we want to grow our list and make a difference?

(Keep this on the downlow, yeah … wouldn’t want it to get out or the ENTIRE SYSTEM MIGHT COLLAPSE)

Those steps were made by other PEOPLE.

Now I’m not quite sure here and you can correct me if I’m wrong but aren’t YOU a person JUST LIKE THEM.

And if THAT’S true then doesn’t that mean that you are EQUALLY qualified (if not, dare I say, MORE qualified) to DECIDE ON THE STEPS FOR YOUR OWN LIFE?

Just an idea.

But seriously, and it IS a serious question, why do you do that?

Why DO you give in to the rules, the musts, the shoulds, about ANYTHING?

Why do you keep doing SCARED when you could be doing YOU?

And don’t you believe, no don’t you just KNOW, deep down and where it MOST of all counts that if you just did you and to HELL with what anybody else says about it you’d truly come ALIVE and unleash your true AWESOMENESS on the world and that THAT would create you EVERYTHING YOU’VE EVER WANTED?

And if that’s the case, then again WHY and also –

What the actual FUCK?

Right?

Now don’t get me wrong here –

I am NOT just having a go at you right now.

I’m 100% including ME in this mix, because I?

I get scared.

I get distracted.

I get caught up ALL THE TIME in what others are doing.

I go to a new conference, or I check out somebody else’s sales page, or I jump on their webinar and all of a sudden I’m FRANTICALLY trying to do stuff I never even THOUGHT about doing and don’t even at all WANT to do but have now decided is ESSENTIAL for me to do because otherwise – otherwise – !

What?

I might not keep up.
I might not get there.
I might NEVER be good enough.

What I’m really saying, of course, when I give in to this stuff, when I’m SWAYED from my path of truth by this stuff, is that no.

Actually.

I don’t trust in my own ability to choose.
I don’t trust I’ll make the right decisions.
I don’t trust in my inner WISDOM.
And therefore I don’t get to decide how I live my life.

Which, now that I lay it out like THAT for you, is just freaking BULLSHIT.

I mean, seriously now – DO I LOOK LIKE THAT SORT OF PERSON?

One who doesn’t TRUST in herself, BELIEVE in herself, one who’s not willing to stand BY herself?

I hope to God no!

But yet I sometimes forget –

I’m human –

I at times envy others –

Or just think that they know more than me.

You too?

Ahhh … breathe it out sister. I’m with you.

But here’s what I do know, underneath it all and in spite of the fact that no doubt I’ll do it AGAIN!

When I follow my instincts …

When I BELIEVE in my intuition …

When I act from my CORE …

When I do what FEELS right …

When I say yes to ME …

And when I fuck ALL the steps …

Everything just –

Works.

I feel on purpose.

I come ALIVE with passion.

I step into FLOW.

And the work that I create?

It works.

It SELLS.

It changes LIVES.

You know?

Here’s what else I know, about you this time –

You have a purpose.

You have a calling.

You have a MESSAGE God damn it!

But for you to get that stuff OUT there, and do so in a way that feels good for YOU?

YOU NEED TO ACTUALLY GET IT OUT THERE.

In a way that feels good and right and TRUE for you.

Y’know?

So.

A mission, a challenge, a(nother!) call to ARMS.

Do you think.

For today.

And then perhaps tomorrow.

And perhaps ALL the tomorrow’s after that.

That you and I? That together we can agree –

That I’ll be me.
And you be you.
And that the rest of the world?
Can get screwed.

Fuck the steps baby. You were born to lead, and you don’t do that while chasing ANYBODY’S tail.

Agreed?

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

 

PS

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Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

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* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

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7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

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5 Comments

  1. Ali Cudby says:

    I fucking love this! I decided this should be the last thing I read for the year – it’s that good. Going out with my fist raised, totally connected to CELEBRATING everything that life has to offer…first and foremost, my own GUT.

    So many exciting things happening, and while 2014 was a LIFE CHANGING year, 2015 is going to blow it the fuck out of the WATER!

    Thanks for this, and Happy New Year, Kat!!

    1. Kat says:

      You are so welcome Ali – Happy NY to you as well and FUCK THE STEPS!

  2. Ankur Agrawal says:

    Wow Really encouraging post!!
    The way you tell things KAT is just FREAKING AWESOME!!
    It feels me with energy and just makes me to give my BEST
    Really Thank you so much and I am glad That I came across your site. 🙂

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