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Success Mindset


The most powerful thing I’ve ever been told, given as a GIFT really is a better way to say it than ‘been told’, is that I’m going to go all the way big no matter what.

My Kinesiologist, Kerry, received this vision of my future in a session of ours a year or so back, maybe two.

The vision was essentially me being at the top of a mountain and it was irrelevant how I’d reached the top. The point was – I’m going to get there SO LONG AS I FOCUS ON BEING THERE AT THE TOP.

I fully believe that when you’re born to win, born to succeed and lead, born to share a POWERFUL message with the world that you know it.

You’ve always known it. Your very heart BEATS with this truth, and has for as long as you can recall.

Sure, you may well have RUN AND HID from this truth; maybe even for years, but that doesn’t change it’s realness.

You KNOW you were born for more.

You KNOW you’re going to rise up, start a revolution, change the world.

You’ve ALWAYS known it, and it’s as real within you as is the knowledge that the sky is blue, the sun will rise in the morning, and a woman without coffee or wine is a sorry woman indeed.

So I want to tell you what I so often have to remind myself:

It doesn’t matter how you’re going to get there.

Stop worrying about which path you need to choose, and whether you’ll make the right choice.

And for the love of God, forget about the results you’ve had so far and stop making it MEAN something.

So you didn’t reach your goals yet, you FAILED even, maybe you COMPLETELY FUCKING FELL ON YOUR ASS and perhaps it seems at times as though NOTHING you do works out the way you planned!

So the fuck what.

Shut up and get back to the truth within.

You KNOW you’re going all the way.

It’s your fucking DESTINY.

It’s just how it IS.

But let me tell you something that is CRITICAL to understand if you don’t want to SCREW UP YOUR OWN DESTINY:

You have to get your focus where your focus needs to be.

And where it needs to be is on WHERE YOU WANT TO GO.

And on holding THAT vision firm in your mind’s eye.
Seeing it as real.
FEELING it as done.

When you take your inner gaze OFF that mountain peak and bring it down to all around you, where you’re worrying, frantically, about what your next move should be, what you should do, if you’re doing it RIGHT, what people think, why it didn’t work yet, and if you even know who you ARE –


Just think about it this way:


Or if you’re climbing up a little ways, then backing down like a nervous animal at first sight of something scary, potentially treacherous?

Of if you TRIED that whole ‘focus on where I want to go’ thing, made it halfway up, then you slipped back down again and your silly little schoolgirl mind assumed the answer must be to find a better path, so back you went to learn once again how to climb.

Stop worrying about how to climb.
Stop trying to predict the road ahead.
Stop getting SO freaking caught up in the details, of what you need to bring with you, of what you need to first know or learn, of how you need to dress and prepare and even breathe!

If you want to go somewhere, set your sights there.
Make up your mind you’ll get there.
And step forth in faith.

I know it sounds ridiculous but the LESS TIME YOU SPEND worrying about what you’re even stepping forth ONTO or INTO, the better.

The CAUTIOUS part of you will wonder how that can be okay, shouldn’t you need to carefully pay attention to what’s going on all around you, decide whether it’s safe to keep going or whether the path you’ve chosen is the best one?

But you tell me –

How’s that approach working out for you so far?

Here’s what you need to understand:

Whether or not you reach your ultimate dreams and desires – the peak of the mountain! – has nothing to do with whether you chose the right path.


It was made for you and you for it.

You were BORN to scale those heights.

It is your DESTINY.

So you actually do NOT have to worry about setting a foot wrong and falling to the bottom, or about it being too hard and you not being able to cope, or about ANYTHING.

Do you hear me? I mean do you REALLY hear me? IT IS YOUR MOUNTAIN TO SCALE.

It’s WAITING for you.

NOBODY else can do it for you (which also means nobody else can tell you how!).

It is your DESTINY.

And you know that.
Deep within your heart, you KNOW that.

So if you know it –

And you believe it –

And you’re willing to finally ACCEPT and act on that belief –

Then don’t you see?

You have to have faith.
You have to CHOOSE faith.
You have to trust that when you keep your gaze focused firmly on the highest of heights you WILL make the right choices.
Your footing will be PERFECT.
You may well stumble and fall at times, even hurt yourself, but it WON’T MATTER because you and the peak of that mountain, you’re connected, you’re magnetically BOUND together, and so long as you look towards it and not away IT WILL DRAW YOU IN.

What would your life look like right now, do you think, if you’d simply allowed yourself to be drawn to where you were born to go?

And what could it look like, do you think, if from this day forward you simple focused on what you want –

And stepped forward towards it?

I want you to know:

You don’t have to worry about the how.

You were born for the top.

Focus on the top.

And let yourself just go there.

No how.
No why.
No ‘this or that’.

Just you.
Your faith.
And the highest of heights, which have always been there waiting for you.

It’s your time.

Stop being such baby.


And go climb that fucking mountain like you actually KNOW you’re gonna make it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.