Success Mindset

It’s Not About Getting to Done; It’s About Pressing Fucking Play!

I know, right?

I KNOW.

How hard it is, to deal with the daily battle, the internal struggle, the relentless fucking voice inside your head which tells you –

You’re not done.

You’re not there.

Your efforts are POINTLESS!

It’s not enough.

It never will be.

YOU’RE not enough.

You never will be.

And you’re never ever EVER going to be able to stop.

You think the voice inside your head is a nasty little so and so? Well let me tell you … mine would give yours a run for her money for sure!

And I used to think –

“What’s wrong with me, that I can’t just be happy?”

“What’s wrong with me, that I can’t be SATISFIED?”

“What’s wrong with me, that I’m just never done, it’s not enough, it’s never GOOD enough, neither am I and I never will be?!”

“WHEN WILL I JUST BE DONE?!”

And I’d beat myself up and bash my head against a metaphorical wall and then I’d binge eat block after block after block of sweet sweet awful chocolate to push away the fear deep within, the voice within the voice which whispered in OH so creepy scary a tone my greatest fear of all –

“There’s something inherently wrong with you, and you don’t deserve to live a happy life”

And when I’d come out of my fear, out of my sabotage, out of my escapism and back into DOING well I would get. shit. done. I’d be the hustlin’ most hustler of all and I would work my BUTT off to push, to strive, to PROVE that I was enough, that what I was doing was enough and that I was a success God damnit, ’cause LOOK AT EVERYTHING I DID AND DO AND AM!

But yet –

(You know)

It still wasn’t enough.

So I’d push harder, run faster, do more, be more, and also escape more. IF I RAN HARD ENOUGH MAYBE I COULD GET THERE????!

But yet I never did.

What was I missing, what couldn’t I see, what was the ONE FUCKING PIECE OF THE PUZZLE I NEEDED TO LEARN?

I invested thousands –

(Hundreds of thousands in fact)

I learned from the best –

I was a GREAT student –

And I implemented my sweet ass off.

But still, always, eternally, it was. not. enough.

Still, always, eternally, it was ME that was not enough.

Not done.

Not happy … yet.

Not successful … yet.

Not there … yet.

And oh, I would get there, for sure; I just had to push that extra bit, learn that extra step, reach that next goal!

Eventually, something happened.

Perhaps I learned it somewhere, or perhaps I just absorbed it as a knowledge, an osmosis, a shift within my soul, an unclenching deep inside of me as I realised –

You’re not done.

You’re not there.

You haven’t done enough.

You never will be done.

You’ll never be there.

You’ll never be FINISHED.

And.

that.

is.

Okay.

In fact?

It is fucking FANTASTIC.

There’s a certain freedom, can I tell you, that comes from giving in to the never-endingness of pursuit.

A freedom that comes from accepting that the purpose of pursuit is not in fact to get there, but rather, to pursue. To grow. To stretch. To LIVE. And that the way I choose to live, the way I choose to press play is to eternally pursue, eternally strive, eternally seek and never, ever, EVER be done.

I can be content yet always discontent.

I can be proud of what I’ve done yet still want so much more.

I can complete my work for today yet still be forEVER unfinished and have more to do.

I can be SATISFIED and on PURPOSE and work with PASSION and from FLOW whilst being constantly UNSATISFIED and fixated on all that is still ahead of me!

I can be here now –

And remain connected to the vision which lays before me.

And not only is this all OKAY but it is in fact the most incredible and exciting thing in the world to realise and also ACCEPT that there’s always a next level, always a new depth, the onion is never peeled and you’re NEVER EVER DONE.

If your goal is to get to done –

So you can sit on the couch –

Or on a boat –

And eat and drink and be merry –

And look back on a time in your life where you stood for something and strived for much –

Then set yourself a finite number or goal to achieve, go get it, then go power down.

End of game.

But if your goal is to live each day with the excitement and possibility of what you could create from it, what you might unearth within yourself, what you might put forth into the world –

And if your desire is yes to accumulate more money, more fame, more choice and more fun cool toys to boot but to do so by living a NOW that you love –

Then take just a moment –

Right now –

Hand on your heart –

And THANK YOUR FUCKING STARS you’re not done yet.

Because if you were done, if the getting of a goal was enough for you then where would you find your purpose? Where would you stretch your soul? Where would you CREATE and STRETCH and LEARN and LIVE from?

One of the greatest misbeliefs we are at risk of falling prey to is the ridiculous RIDICULOUS idea that the point of it all is to get to easy.

To struggle and sacrifice and give of our very souls so that ‘when we’re done’ we can stop.

Do nothing.

Be nothing.

And wait until we die.

The counter side of that coin is that one of the greatest REALISATIONS we have the honour of being able to wake up to is that the point of it all is to continue the struggle.

To EXPAND the struggle.

To LOVE the struggle and the stretch and the sacrifice and the REWARD of giving our very souls to our work, our creations, our every cell and breath.

So if right now you’re struggling –

And it doesn’t feel GOOD for you –

And you think you just need to get to done so you can STOP and RELAX and BREATHE –

Then ask yourself:

What are you actually going to do when you get there?

Who is it you’re waiting to be?

What is it you’re holding off on doing, having, creating, breathing into your LIFE?

And why in God’s good name when ANYTHING is possible for how you choose to live your NOW are you not. just. doing. THAT stuff now.

Life isn’t supposed to be about getting to done.

It’s about loving the doing. About pressing fucking play!

Not enjoying the struggle, not excited there is still so much to do, not SATISFIED with your dissatisfaction and the fact that you’re never finished?

Pick a new horse.

And start bloody riding it like you mean it.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

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This will be intense …

And a lil bit scary. But buckle up, because you KNOW you’re ready for it.

SO fucking ready 😉

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Places are already filling, and we begin next week. If you know it’s time to say yes to MAGIC, and creating your reality from the supernatural, and you’re SO ready to drop the paradigm of always having to DO (and yet still not be there!) then message me now.

I’ll get you the full overview, and talk personally with you about whether or not it’s for you.

To the supernatural baby, and beyond …

PPS

I HAVE SOME BIG NEWS TO SHARE!

As of today, I’m opening up the doors to my Inner Circle, my private client mastermind.

This is THE most badass high level mastermind in the world for women who want it all – and are prepared to do what it takes to get it! Really what we’re talking about is being prepared to be the PERSON.

And that’s what I do. I help you remember ALL that you were, and then become it. ALL Of it.

This is my highest level private mentoring circle. The exact place where I have personally mentored dozens of this industry’s most elite female entrepreneurs to break income barriers ranging from 10k months to multiple 7 FIGURE months, and everything in between. But more importantly than that – to become who and what they always were.

But know that this is not only (obviously) not just for the masses, this is also not just for someone who can afford to invest in a high level private coach. Being willing to throw money down is something which has absolutely zero correlation to being somebody who has what it takes to TRULY go next level as a leader.

If anything, in this industry, investing in a high level coach such as myself, is a rite of passage which veers just a little too much on the side of ‘trend’. It’s become something which ‘everybody does’, almost as a way of proving they play business and life a certain way.

Maybe even of trying to prove it to themselves.

Here is the reality which those who I am truly here to personally mentor and lead KNOW, the reality which my clients and all women like me as well as of course me personally have ALWAYS known:

We are VERY VERY DIFFERENT.

We are simply, smarter, faster, and have more presence. We can do more in our minds before breakfast than what most people can do in a freakin’ WEEK, a month, a year.

We are not basic ass coaches trying to heave ho our way up a few extra thou a month.

We are the ones who have ALWAYS known we are 1% within the 1% within the 1% in terms of how we think, create, operate, how and WHAT we are tapped in too.

This is not arrogance, this is fact.

And there has NEVER been any question but that we will go all the way.

My clients are high level badasses who do the work, who have a proven track record BEFORE coming to me, and a BEING-ness which unquestionably separates them from the rest. They don’t come to me to save them or lean down and hold my hand out so they can clamber up. They come because they are, quite simply, ready to go to the next level, already absolutely on their WAY there, and see in me something which they recognise because it is in them.

That ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ fire, and a level of ‘unapologeticness’ which, when truly understood and applied, can literally be the difference between 5-figure or low 6-figure and 7 or multi-7-figure entrepreneur.

So if you know who you are and it is THAT –

And you feel certain that you are ALREADY well on your way to to precisely where you’re meant to be, but that being in MY energy could help you to drop in and get there even faster, and that with a couple of simple tweaks your current revenue could be doubling, tripling, heck QUADRUPLING and beyond in months, as it has done with numerous of my clients previously, well then –

PM me here http://m.me/katrinaruthofficial and we’ll see if it’s a fit. I’m excited to talk to you, and maybe – do biz and life with you.

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