Money Mindset, Success Mindset


Have you heard the expression ‘you can’t see the wood for the trees’?

I kind of assumed that everybody knew this saying, but recently said it to a client and apparently no – maybe it’s just one of those things my Dad always said and I assumed was worldwide languaging 🙂

I was thinking about this last night as I dropped off to sleep, thinking about how strong and certain my mindset is around business, money, clients, purpose, my right to LIVE it fully, and also to have ALL of these things be completely on my terms.

I was thinking about how straightforward and obvious most any situation relevant to business and money IS for me.

How I always know what action to take …

I NEVER question my desires …

OR my decisions …

And I expect ALWAYS to have things the way I want them to be.

And I was thinking about how, if I could just transplant many of my own ways of thinking over to my community and clients then I know I could save you SO much time and heartache, and help you to fast-track to where of COURSE your business is next level fucking awesome, ALWAYS, and of COURSE you make money easily … on command … like magic … always!

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not going to try and rob you of the chance to go through your own journey of figuring shit out, and nor could I!

But I do think that I have some things to share that WOULD help you see your way forward more clearly, and faster, now.

Little confession, before we begin?? A big part of the reason I was thinking about this stuff was I was noticing the contrast in how I think about love and romance right now, compared with how I think about business.

Put it this way – if I was unsure of myself and as unwilling to be clear on my desires and requires in business as what I have acted with love and romance since leaving my marriage 18 or so months ago, I’d STILL be broke as fuck!

So consider this post a missive to YOU, and also a reminder to ME, of what kind of mindset is required for success.


1) I CONTINUALLY second guessed myself. Now … I make rapid decisions from the gut, and I NEVER question my first instinct, no matter how illogical it may seem.

2) My belief system was that there is a ‘right’ way and a ‘wrong’ way, and I have to get it right OR ELSE. Now? I know that the right way is the one that feels right, or that I’m directed to from within. Period.

3) I didn’t trust myself. Now – I NEVER question myself. I fully trust that I ALWAYS know the right action to take, and I ALWAYS know what is right for me, my biz, my life.

4) I was flaky on being true to my standards and boundaries. These days – I have ZERO uncertainty around fully sticking to my standards and boundaries. I literally never go against them. If somebody wants me to provide or be something outside of my own standards and boundaries, I walk away. No emotion … no harm, no foul. It’s just not what I’m available for.

5) I felt like my hearts deepest desires were a pipe dream ... or at least for right now … and that they were not yet AVAILABLE, or at least for me. Now, I know that whatever I feel and see inside of me is REAL, is AVAILABLE, is available specifically for ME, and is available also NOW. I FULLY believe that if I can see it, it’s mine.

6) I continually caved, or went against what I had said I would do or stick to. Now I do not do that 🙂 … even when it is sometimes really scary, I simply hold true to my values and desires.

7) I settled, sacrificed, compromised, like a motherfucker. I no longer do that. No exceptions. I trust that when I honour my higher self, everything works, even if it might short-term appear not to be. I KNOW this; it’s fact.

8) I lived in fear. I now live and act from alignment and love. This is a daily practice … ALL of these things are a daily practice!

9) My mindset was that if I DO enough, and do it RIGHT, then I will get results, and I would put the grind ahead of what I needed for ME, always. Now I know that there is NEVER anything I need to do, but ALWAYS action to take. I know that all I need to do, EVER, for ANY outcome in life, is tune in moment by moment to what feels right and aligned, for me.

10) I constantly compared myself to other people, or worried about what I should be doing differently. These days, blinkers on, I barely notice what others are doing, and if I do see something that looks cool or worthwhile I run it through a filter of ‘is this aligned for ME; is this what my soul wants?’

11) I thought that getting what I wanted or needed came from earning it, rather than deciding. Now I understand all outcomes eventuate ONLY from the fact that you decided to get ’em. There is literally nothing else required.

12) I failed to honour my value and worth, and to charge or do what I knew was aligned and what I was meant to do. Now I fully honour my value and worth, I know how damn good I am and I am okay with it!

13) I didn’t realise I could just choose. I still have to practice this every day – want more? CHOOSE more? Want it all? CHOOSE it all. That’s it.

14) I was super attached and needy; I failed to surrender and live in faith. Today, I am unattached to outcomes, even though yes I want them and know I can HAVE them. But, I also know that if it’s not meant to be, then THAT is perfect and that is what IS meant to be.

15) Deep down I wondered if I was actually good enough or had what it took. I no longer do that. I gave in to knowing that I AM WORTHY BECAUSE I EXIST. Also, I now know that self worth has nothing to do with results, results come from choice.

16) I was waiting for somebody to appoint me. Now I continually appoint myself, and act accordingly!

And MOST of all:

17) I was NOT being the real me, I thought that in order to succeed I had to look or act or teach a certain way, and that if I ‘just’ did me and ‘only’ created content and a business based on my purpose work nobody would want it. These days, well – I am all of me, all the time, and I feel very calm about knowing that you really CAN take or leave it and EITHER WAY IS FINE AND PERFECT.

Here’s the reality:

If you want to become a multi-millionaire … if you want to have a soul aligned business on your terms … if you want things to just WORK … the most powerful thing you can do is know your own mind, and STICK to it.

But in order to know it?

You gotta tune in and listen.
You DO gotta trust.
And sometimes you also gotta CHOOSE the mindset you WISH you had, then live into that.

I’ve been applying this stuff a lot recently relevant to my personal life … I have broken a LOT of rules recently in a dating situation, gone against what ‘experts say’, and even my friends, and here is what I know for sure:

ALL I need to do for things to work perfectly, is BE FULLY ME.

Say what I THINK and feel.
Speak my truth.
Honour what I believe is aligned.
Be okay with doing scary shit, and know that I can’t SCREW UP BEING ME, know that if I follow my soul it is IMPOSSIBLE to get it wrong.
And always, always, ALWAYS release the outcome and no that no matter what, I’m going to be okay, and that everything WILL work out the way it’s meant to; whatever that is.

Which brings me to a simple question, which you might like to ask yourself today:

If you knew you were totally taken care of and okay, and that what your soul desires and requires is ALWAYS allowed and always shows the RIGHT FUCKING WAY –

How would you be showing up?
Who would you be serving?
What would you be saying, or not saying, selling, or not selling?
What would you simply decide, expect, require, and not think for another second about?
And what would no longer be acceptable to you?
What would ALIGNMENT look like for you, right now?
And what would you spend your time on today, your energy, your emotion?
What else?

Okay, that was more than one question 🙂

These are the questions I asked myself daily, on repeat, as I moved my way out of being over 145k in debt, to creating a FULLY soul aligned multi-million dollar empire.

These are the questions which, quite literally, made me millions.

And which I know in their own way will also guide me to soulmate love –

And to all the things I ever wanted –

Was ever meant to have –

And ever will want.

I suggest you ask them of yourself.

And then?