Lock In Your Vision, FUCK the “How”, Surrender the WHOLE Process, Even the OUTCOME!
The further I travel down the path of creating my reality and living my dreams, in every aspect of business and life, the more I notice how much time I lost along the way, how hard I made it on myself, how much I worried about SO many things which just didn’t matter.
They didn’t matter in the end.
And they actually didn’t even matter in the moment!
These were just the fear-driven or conditioned into me “shoulds”, ideas of what is right or how it must be, or, in many cases, simply me blindly following others who were also blindly following others who were, well –
You get the idea.
And I suppose it IS one way to approach it all, isn’t it?
Set a goal … make a plan … said plan obviously to be dependant upon the ‘right’ ways to do so, and also with the underlying belief that things take TIME … come at a COST … that you can only ascend in some sort of logical sequence … etc … and then of course you are supposed to FOLLOW said plan …
And yes it CAN work, certainly DOES work, for many people on lots of different things, but I don’t know about you … for me? I was just never that good at following a fucking plan.
I just didn’t seem to be able to STICK to the damn things, not even with the best of intentions!
And even back in school days … I just always decided:
This is the outcome I want (basically: the best possible outcome!)
And I’m gonna get it
And thank you but NO thank you, I’m actually NOT going to be able to go ahead and do that whole ‘do it by the book’ way of getting it … ’cause, well, long story short?
I kinda can’t be fucked.
Never could be, actually, with rules or processes!
And still can’t!
But yet somehow … some way .. since as far back as I can recall … I ALWAYS got the freaking outcome I wanted!
I was always top of the class.
I always got the ‘stuff’ I wanted.
I always got the job or gig I decided.
It even worked with boys .. and then men 
So, what gives, right? Was I just LUCKY? Blessed by the Gods? Or somehow getting away with something I shouldn’t have been; cheating the system?!
Do YOU feel that way, when you ‘get’ or achieve stuff where you haven’t actually done the work that you’re SUPPOSEDLY meant to do?
And if you do … as I have often felt over the years … feel guilty or somehow bad about it … has it ever occurred to you that maybe we all just learned the wrong SHIT, about how to succeed in life, how to get what you want, how to NOW live your every dream?
The truth is that once you KNOW the truth, about what it really takes to receive something … anything … no matter how big the thing … that old way of doing things just seems fucking RIDICULOUS!!
I don’t know whether to laugh or cry when I see people still caught up in it … and believing the dogma so whole-heartedly it at times seems pointless to try and state otherwise … all we can do is live by EXAMPLE. I feel roughly as though it’s like somebody still believing FULLY that the earth is flat … you just feel SORRY for them, but if they really really believe it then there’s not that much you can do about it!
And really, my role here is not to try and ‘save’ people whose ears and hearts are closed to REALITY, anyway. Nor is yours, I would imagine.
Which means that when it comes to all of THIS stuff, the most important thing I can do to in some way guide or mentor YOU, is to follow what I KNOW is true, even when yes I too find it scary or at times I EVEN question my faith!!
But question or not, fear or not, and despite the fact that yes of COURSE I at times fall into the old ‘earth is flat’ way of doing things, pushing shit relentlessly up a hill and worrying about HOW, here is what I know for SURE:
The path to success, to receiving, to achieving, ANYTHING, is simple.
Give yourself permission to own and CLAIM that baby, do so over and over again daily, faith means you keep asking and moving forward even though you can’t SEE how, and speaking of that –
FUCK the how, you don’t need to know how, yours is simply to confess to the vision and accept what is being shown to you, nobody who actually knows anything real about success ever said you have to know how!
So you must also SURRENDER the entire process, keep focused on the outcome and let the process or path take you wherever it needs, oh and one more thing:
If you’re really serious about this stuff and you mean it then you ALSO surrender the outcome.
It’s always “this or something better / more aligned”
Because ultimately the ONLY outcome we desire is flow, happiness, a purposeful and fulfilling life, or whatever your version of that.
So as much as you might desire, get to have or REALLY think you need ANY particular thing, there is not a SINGLE thing you actually do HAVE to have.
Everything you need is inside of you.
God-given and heaven sent since before you began.
Which means … EVERY thing you allow or receive in life, is not only absolutely yours for the asking, it’s also just a sweet BONUS. The cherry on top of living a life completely whole.
And that life?
Is the one you’ll find in your soul.
