Success/Success Mindset

VALUE, WORTH, AND MOTHERFUCKING ATTITUDE, BITCH

It’s a fact that you’ll receive value and GOOD shit into your life to the exact reflection of the level you SEE yourself as worthy of.

Guess what? What you choose to see yourself as worthy as has jack.fucking.shit. to do with where you can choose to play and hang out.

So you might –

Question whether anybody likes you or ever will –

Be terrified of falling flat on your face –

Worry and worry and WORRY your pretty little face off about whether it IS pretty enough, whether you’re good enough, what are they thinking and what are they SAYING, and clearly you should go hide behind a tree while EVERYBODY ELSE RULES THE FUCKING WORLD, because after all:

Who are YOU to show up like that, show yourself to the world like that, expect to get to do BUSINESS like that or LIVE like that?

Well –

I PUT it to you – !

WHO ARE YOU NOT?

And the answer is simple, baby: who you are NOT, is right now the person who decided to wake up, stand up, hand on their heart and lay claim to what they want ANYWAY, because here is the secret which successful people know and maybe you DON’T:

We’re all just fucking winging it baby.

We all just be making shit up as we GO.

I don’t have a freaking CLUE what I’m doing over here, except for, this –

I know that when I tune the fuck IN, when I admit to myself what I really want and what it should BE about, when I ask myself from INSIDE of me what is next and right and ALIGNED, then I REALLY –

Can’t.

Go.

Wrong.

So if the INNER me says, hey KAT?

You’re born for more and to make millions and impact millions and maybe even change the fucking WORLD, and by the way you should get to be a badass VIFP motherfucker while doing it, and have the body, the energy, the cool AF crib, the lifestyle, and oh yes ALSO, the men (!), and long story short the LIFE, then I now know to say:

Okay.

‘Cause the old me would have turned around and said NO –

Surely not!

Little old me?

I can’t!

Not yet.

I’m not GOOD enough I’m not WORTHY enough and God damnit nobody LIKES me.

And now –

When I feel that way, as I sometimes still DO, and as I can tell you EVERY succesful fucking person does, ’cause guess what they ARE still human, I remember:

Hmmm …

Yessss …

All of that might be TRUE …

Maybe I am NEVER going to ‘default’ thought process feel good enough …

But at the same time? I’ve learned, that if I just show the fuck up anyway, aka admit and ask for what I want, make a DECISION to go get it, surrender the how, and then do the fucking WORK, all the while repeating ON repeat what I choose to have done NOW?

It just works.

So as much as it might make a WHOLE lot of sense to make choices based on what the scared little girl inside me sometimes thinks, actually?

It makes no fucking sense at all.

It’s what those who were brought up in the WRONG SCHOOL OF LIFE think. And I know I spent a good 30 or so years in that same school of life, being taught –

You can’t.

Not yet.

And maybe not ever.

And that your EMOTIONS should in some way dictate your OUTCOMES.

But all the while, you know what?

I SUSPECTED, that if I just really DECIDED and went all in, maybe I could actually create anyfuckingthing I want.

Want to know a secret? If you just really DECIDE and then go all in, you can actually create anyfuckingthing you want.

So …

Why not just do that?

Why not just DECIDE, today, to start to SEE your value and your worth at that next level place which you already dream of?

And why not adjust your motherfucking attitude accordingly, bitch, because here is what else:

YES you get to choose and YES you can call in and create ANYTHING you decide, all the more so if you’re ALIGNED to it, but guess what being aligned to it means?

You gotta drop some shit.

Some dirty old grungy old LIMITING old beliefs.

Some bitchy moany ‘successful people don’t DO that shit’ behaviours.

Some sabotages.

Some reactiveness.

And a whole bunch of not-quite-right second class stuff which you’ve been ACCEPTING or allowing into your life, because somewhere along the way, you decided:

You shouldn’t get to have what you want.

You have to settle.

You have to make do.

You’ll never get to have the REAL dream life version of what you want, so you’ll just pretend you want this other version.

Here’s the thing:

You’ll ALWAYS receive money, success, health, love, life, ALL of it precisely as a reflection of the level of value and worthy you choose to PLAY at.

So everytime you play at a sub-tier level of what you REALLY dream of and want and are called for, you send a signal out, which says:

This is where I play at.

This is what I get to have.

This is what I CHOOSE.

And I know –

That it’s hard –

SO fucking scary –

To rip that bandaid, to energetically or otherwise walk away from the stuff which is not where you ACTUALLY (inside of you!) see yourself as being.

And let’s be honest baby:

You see yourself as being the best, don’t you?

You were born to fucking LEAD, right?

You KNOW that you’re supposed to have all eyes ON you, and frankly you SUSPECT that you should be playing at the top in ALL areas.

8-figure+++ freaking badass hot AF MOFO, baby, just for starters, and taken care of by God, the Universe, men (or, y’know, whatever!), accordingly.

So I guess the only QUESTION is –

AT WHAT POINT DID YOU THINK YOU MIGHT DECIDE TO TRY AND OWN THAT SHIT?

Here’s a clue:

You’re not gonna get it –

Until you decide to just GTF over yourself, let your dreams be BIGGER than your bullshit, and just decide –

And ask.

On repeat.

No emotion or drama necessary.

When you ask for what you WANT, in alignment and on repeat, and then you let go and show up ACCORDINGLY, you WILL fucking get it.

But only every single time 😉