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Success Mindset

YOU ARE ALWAYS SUPPORTED, ALWAYS LOVED, ALWAYS TAKEN CARE OF, AND YOU GET.TO.CHOOSE YOUR OUTCOMES

Yesterday I received an opportunity to take ownership of my life, and how I get to be supported and taken care of, in a next level way which I am certain will help me to grow and uplevel like a MOTHERFUCKER.

Of coursed on the surface of it … the things which at their CORE are most brought to serve you, can look or feel like something awful, upsetting, or scary.

A few months ago … and then a few before that … this same opportunity – or the POSSIBILITY of it – was presented to me, and I freaked the fuck out and did EVERYTHING I could do to try and force it away, to take CONTROL, to ensure that I got to keep having things the way I thought they had to be.

I didn’t want things to change! I didn’t know how I’d be able to handle that! It was DEFINITELY going to have a really negative impact on my life, and just fucking INCONVENIENT, and so I KNEW –

I had to do everything possible to resist.

Sometimes when you decide to ‘create your reality’, what you’re actually doing is allowing fear to keep its noose tightly wrapped around your neck, rather than actually acting from FLOW.

And here is the thing about flow:

It DOES in fact FEEL like flow.

It doesn’t feel like trying to keep things at bay.

It doesn’t feel like frantically pushing or pulling in order to not have to enter into discomfort.

It does NOT mean resisting growth … yes, even the PAINFUL growth!

And most of all? It doesn’t feel like having to make choices from fear, or from compromise or from some sort of idea that the only way to be HAPPY or to have things your WAY is to have certain things in place, and every person or element around you doing exactly what YOU think they need to be doing in order for you to be IN that flow.

In fact, as soon as you start attaching your own internal outcomes (flow, happiness, peace, joy, etc) to certain things that must be ‘just so’ in order for you to create them, you LOSE THE ENTIRE FUCKING GAME.

 

The game of flow? Yes, but ultimately also, this way, the game of life.

 

So as much as it’s totally GREAT to have things, practices, routines, support, stuff, etc, around you, that you desire and CHOOSE, there also gets to be an awareness that there is NOTHING you actually NEED, from the anybody else or any THING else, in order to be fully supported –

Fully taken care of –

And fully in your power and in CHOICE.

So what was it that happened, which has allowed me to tune in and receive this message, this download, this next level growth?

I found out yesterday that I get to now parent alone.

My kids Dad … who currently lives 5 minutes walk from me, and we share care back and forth day to day … gets to now make an aligned choice for him, to move back to our hometown of Melbourne, and start his new business there.

AND I get to choose GRATITUDE around what I will learn from this, how I will grow, how I get.to.choose.

When our marriage was ending … a several year long thing, really, although officially only last year … when I was stepping more and more into admitting what was the higher purpose aligned choice for me … when things were shifting and changing and scary and perfect all at once and the day to day PRACTICALLY speaking as well as emotionally speaking was just a complete shit-show, I RAILED AGAINST THIS IDEA.

NO WAY, I said.

That won’t work! It can’t! And how could you POSSIBLY want to leave the kids anyway?!

And I did whatever I COULD to not.let.it.happen.

HOW WOULD I COPE, without that support?

And I look back now, and I get to notice with interest how in FEAR I was. How I was holding on SO tightly, scared of loss or lack. What scarcity! How fascinating. And also, now –

How much I have grown.

Oh, so much older and wiser now; just a few short months later

And what I see is this –

I ALWAYS get to choose.
I ALWAYS get to choose.
I ALWAYS get to choose.

Choice and creating your reality doesn’t mean that you have to FORCE the world around you to conform though. Choice is about the INNER game … it’s about ‘what are the emotions’ I wish to embody? What do I get to choose to FEEL.

And what I choose is this:

I am supported, fully.
Life gets to be easy, and fun.
I am always taken care of.
Everything happens FOR me, not to me.
I am constantly given the chance to grow!
I get to learn all the time.
I am loved.
Everything always works out perfectly for me.
I always make the right decision.
I AM TAKEN CARE OF, and I have ALL the resources I need available to me at all times.

Don’t you think?

Yes.

And so here is where you get to take what you need from this:

Where are you holding on to a construct, an idea, that things need to be a certain way in order for you to be able to have the world around you work the way you think it MUST?

Where are you trying to FORCE things because you’re scared you can’t have the outcome you want if you don’t?

Where could you just let GO, gorgeous, and let flow SHOW you the way?

And how can you NOW get to decide what you can have inside of you – peace, love, support, joy, fulfilment, more – just based on the fact that EVERYTHING you need is inside of you.

Now.

And always.

When things happen in your life that initially feel SCARY and you resist them out of fear of what it will mean or how it will rock your boat (lol!), then what is REALLY going on is a massive opportunity for growth.

You get to learn.
You get to tune in.
You get to grow.
And baby?

You ALWAYS get to fucking receive.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!