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THIS IS WHO I’M GOING TO BE, TAKE ME AS I AM … OR, WELL, YOU KNOW …

One of the greatest and most INSTANTLY rapid shifts you will ever experience in your online biz is the shift that comes about when you finally decide to be FULLY you, in ALL ways, no apologies, and ‘take it or leave it’.

Whether you have a personal brand or you’re marketing a product or a service not directly about you and YOUR message, even the smallest little bit of conformity or trying to in any way look or act the part in order to get a customer, a fan, a sale, will KILL you.

Maybe not in a practical sense, although really – is giving your life for anything other than HELL yes really any better than death? I guess that’s up for debate … but I know that if you’re like ME … i.e. you’re a crazy chaotic want-it-all-want-it-all-now just wanna live life on.my.terms sort of person, then having to in ANY way stifle your message or your self really does feel like slow –

Horrible –

Death.

And just look around – !

The ENTIRE FUCKING INTERNET (never mind the rest of the world) truly has bought in to the bullshit, and lives basically in fear of getting found out.

Found out??

Found out of WHAT, you might well ask … ’cause we’re talking about getting found out for being yourself! The horror

And before I get TOO preachy here, let’s have a little #katfession.

I found myself, the last few days, freaking the fuck out over getting found out. Found out for what? For being, well, me.

See, there’s this guy. I’m REALLY really into him … at least I think I am; we haven’t met yet! We’ve been Tinder pen pals for maybe 2 months I think … continually out of the country or city when the other one was there, and this week is the first week where we are both here and can now meet. I feel nervous even writing that, lol. I definitely feel nervous about dating in general, but also – when you’ve been speaking to someone for that long and actually getting to know them a little, build up rapport, start to get really REALLY excited to meet, well, you know –

It’s a bit scary!!

But here’s the thing:

This whole time, we’ve kept the conversation on Tinder. I figure … once you meet someone in person then you can decide to let them in to your whole life! The truth? The whole way through the talking there’s been that part of me that worries what he would think if he knew who I ‘really’ am. I mean, obviously I spoke about what I do, but, well, you know. I think talking generically about what I do / what we do / who I ‘am’ is a little different to somebody experiencing the mayhem and, shall we say, slight bizarre-ness of it by, let’s say, looking me up via a series of motivation / entrepreneur / Gold Coast etc related keywords, and tracking me down and finding me on Facebook ’cause Tinder put us in Tinder jail (I think ’cause I sent a YT link??)

Which is exactly what happened a few days ago.

My gut reaction was equal parts really flattered and happy that he actually tracked me down … and seriously apprehensive ’cause now he’ll get to see who I really am.

And if you’ve been following my posts over the past week or two you’ll know that coming in and seeing all my messaging / rantiness / TRUTH revealing right at this particular point in time is even more potentially horrifying than usual!!

Or, I KNOW, inspiring … interesting … exciting … I hope!!

But I notice that my INSTINCT in this particular situation is to automatically assume that if a guy is interested in me knows who I ‘really’ am (crazy AF won’t be stopped performer | preacher | etc!!) then, well, he’d be scared off … or think I’m too much … or maybe even think I’m talking shit!

So.
Fucking.
Interesting.

Don’t you think?!

Also … I’m very aware that he could be READING this right now, which just makes me feel even MORE vulnerable, but yet here I am, once again, letting the words that wanna come out, out.

Sigh.

Don’t you ever just think how EASY it must be to be one of the human people and not constantly pushed from within to release your EVERY FUCKING TRUTH and use your own freaking LIFE as a lesson?!

Anyway.

What’s fascinating about all of this is that I would, at this point in my business and for some time now, NEVER fucking question what a potential client, follower, fan, or even somebody in the media would think of the REAL me.

One, I let it all hang out all day and every day in EVERY element of my business, so there’s really no room for them NOT seeing it.

And two, I want them to know who I am! I THRIVE on the idea of being SO freaking abrasive or controversial or in your face or just ME that people can VERY fucking clearly see, right from the very first moment they ENCOUNTER me, who I am –

What I stand for –

How I show up and DO me | biz | life –

And whether they LOVE LOVE LOVE OMG YES adore me –

Or wanna run for the hllls screaming at the horror, the horror of it all and she is SO unprofessional | annoying | I just don’t like her!

Why the fuck would I want somebody hanging around here if they didn’t all out LOVE me? I don’t. And I’ve said it a million times, for years now, since I had my ‘fuck this shit’ moment, got sick and tired of wearing a mask and trying SO damn hard to be somebody I couldn’t (ahh … anyone other than ME!) … and decided to let the world SEE me.

I remember deciding I was just gonna write and speak and unleash and say what I REALLY wanted and couldn’t NOT, and that it would just fucking WORK, because I decided to.

As a result of saying that and MEANING it and then living FULLY into it, right away (and also continually looking at what the next level or layer is to go DEEPER), I have created a multi-million dollar location-free empire, where I get to wake up every day and make money doing what I love and was born for (write! speak! create! unleash!) and also?

JUST BE ME.

Which REALLY, just so you know, makes it sooooooo fucking fun and easy!!

Don’t you want it to be fun and easy?! Why would you not want it to be fun and easy?!

So here is what I get to now NOTICE, about my stuff around dating, and in particular this guy –

Why in God’s good name would I NOT want to be ‘found out’ for being me?

Do I not WANT it to be fun and easy??!

Well.
DUH.

Here is what I want and get to choose –

I get to connect ONLY with epic beings who think I’m awesome just for being me.

And the first epic being who gets to think I’m awesome has to of course be ME!!

Don’t you think? About YOU now?

If you think and KNOW you’re awesome –
And you FULLY love and accept yourself AS you –

Then wouldn’t it just stand to reason that you would only choose to engage with OTHER epic beings who get you, like you, want you, just as you ARE?

In business.
In personal.
In life.

What if –

Starting NOW – (life IS now, after all, and I feel that once you notice this stuff you DO get to then act on it and live into it right away!) –

You decided to just fully own.
Accept.
And BE.

Who you are?

Do you think that might make things easier, more fun, more FLOW, more yes?

I can tell you it absofuckinglutely WILL.

Let’s go do it gorgeous. IN ALL WAYS, yeah?

‘Cause after all …

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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