Money Mindset

YOU COULD HAVE ASKED FOR MORE, SOONER

Somebody who has for a long while been quite close to me asked me yesterday how it feels, to be at this level … to have ‘done it’ with purchasing and settling on my new dream home … what it’s like, to play so big, and whether it perhaps brings up that old chestnut which causes so many of US to not let ourselves have what we want, namely –

Beneath the want and the desire and the (let’s face it) often desperate need to GET TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE, is a sneaking lurking suspicion that if you got there?

You’d be bored as fuck and not know what to do with yourself!

So annoying … lol. If you haven’t dug into this, but yet you continually seem to hold money flow and other big accomplishments at arms lengths, or else you get things flowing and then seem to crash them back down again, I’ll bet part of what’s happening is that your sub-conscious self is hooked on the adrenalin, the challenge, the thrill of the chase, and the living in such a way which REQUIRES you to access imagination and creativity …

And considering that of COURSE when it comes down to it you’d choose access to imagination and source over MONEY (yeah … you would, if you had to choose one over the other!) … no WONDER you don’t let the money shit work out! Not if some part of you has decided it would come at the cost of experiencing the highs of having to draw on your most powerful self!

So anyway, my friend asked me what it feels like to be at this level and mentioned something about the whole getting bored when you get to ‘there’ thing.

I definitely don’t feel bored, I just settled on the house, and it was quite a race to the finish to cross that settlement line! As I blogged about yesterday. Not to mention I still have a TON of stuff to buy and get sorted with my decorator and so on.

But at the same time, yeah … I definitely am conscious of that ‘well, what’s next?’ vibe already creeping in.

If a normal person were following along with all this, they’d probably wonder what on earth I’m on about or else they’d feel sorry for me that I’m apparently not content even after buying a multi-million dollar beach home! ‘What next?! How about enjoying THIS?!’

But, we’re not normal, we don’t work like that, and naturally seeking ‘what’s next?’ is just part and parcel with being one of the driven ones.

It doesn’t mean we’re not content, grateful, SO damn happy and at peace! All of THOSE things are simply to do with connectedness to self and spirit, anyhow, they have nothing to do with what you have or don’t have, have achieved or no.

I like to talk about contented discontent … feeling like everything is already perfect, enough, complete, and at the same time there is SO MUCH MORE SO LET’S GO GET IT!!

It’s just who we are 

But this thing about what it feels like, to be at this level … that took me a minute.

And eventually I wrote back to him –

“I had to go think about it just now so I went and sat in the shower (I love sitting in there with all the water on my back)… and what I realised is how I feel is for sure super proud of myself but actually what I really feel is – I could totally have done this sooner.

Which makes me aware that I need to level up faster on other stuff.

Because in the end the only reason it took me this long is not backing myself with bigger stuff sooner …

And if I would have just committed earlier I would have made it happen earlier”

It was interesting to reflect on, as I hadn’t really thought about it at all. What I felt in the lead up to closing this deal was nervous, excited, certain, ‘what if’, ‘maybe I’m NOT good enough’ all mixed together! It was a BIG thing energetically to hold space for, and it represents a LOT more than just getting a kickass home to actually LIVE in (as opposed to buying investment property, which I have literally zero emotion around when I do it; it just seems like a smart thing to do …). This house is about making a statement that I am ready to create a safe home space for me and my kids.

I haven’t felt able to do that previously, for lots of reasons. Part of which was simply – being happy with being a nomad, and living out of a suitcase for a few years when the kids were younger; that lifestyle has stayed with me and I’ve just enjoyed NOT putting roots down.

Now, it’s time though. And it DOES feel big.

But to tune in and notice that how it ACTUALLY feels is like – wow. It IS big and I AM proud but you know what? It’s also not a big deal at all and I am FULLY certain I could have made it happen sooner, had I just committed …

That’s, well –

A bit wow!

But also just a helpful reminder of what I already know, and teach, namely – we will ALWAYS get what we want and commit to; no more and no less. So, if you want more – just ask for more!!

Makes ya think, doesn’t it? What would you ask for and commit to right NOW, if you knew that there is no need or logical reason to wait? Hmm? Hmm!

I think the boredom thing is pretty relevant as well, for those like us. I think we have to catch this, be aware of it, be conscious that if we are repeatedly sabotaging or just not allowing then we might be running some sort of pattern of well-meaning self-protection whereby we are prioritising enjoyment of life and the rush of NEEDING to create or push over getting to where we want to be … thinking that it would basically take away our reason to live if we were done!

Well, just remember who you ARE –

By definition you will NEVER BE DONE. I’m already conscious of looking for ‘what’s next?’, like I said – not because I need anything next but because it’s how my mind works, and have no fear –

I’ll just FIND something, and then I’ll be going hell for leather to call in THAT! (Pretty sure it’s a hot, sexy, smart, kind, funny, successful MAN, and me tuning in to who I need to be to allow THAT in!).

The thing is … if this underlying fear of being bored resonates with you, as far as why you don’t get what you want … I’m gonna tell you straight up, I used to worry about that a LOT. But if I compare where I am now to way back when I had no money and was back against the wall always … where I continually had to pull a rabbit out of a hat just to SURVIVE, and I learned to live in a 24/7 state of fight or flight …

Sub-consciously, had I gone into my money blocks back then (which I did do, and this sort of stuff DID come up!), I would have thought that being where I am NOW would be too boring and it’s not! I by no means feel ‘done’, or that fuck – ‘what do I have to push or create for now?’. Not at all.

When I look back to my starving artist years, I can see how much stress I was under back then and maybe I thought I needed that for adrenalin/dopamine but from this perspective I honestly wonder how the fuck I sustained that for so long. It’s crazy to think about. I feel like I wouldn’t even be capable of that now, my life is so chill and flow; I can’t even imagine not having it chill and flow!

But yet, if I DID have to (which is impossible now anyway, as I now understand how to actually receive, which I didn’t then!) … I would.

I’m SO glad for that time mind you! It was critical growth for me! 

And I’m SO glad it’s over. It’s been critical growth for me to let it the fuck go!

I think where my real learning around all this is at, and the big thing I want to share with you today, is that there is nothing you need from outside of you, to sustain or fulfil or light you up.

Entrepreneurs with the broke / starving artist pattern are often running a program that says I won’t be energised or motivated if I don’t HAVE to push and hustle like crazy to create and survive …

Those who continually push what they want away from them because their underlying fear is that having it would leave them nothing to live for …

These people simply haven’t tapped in yet to the realisation that being lit up, energised, having something to strive for, accessing creativity and source, all of these things are simply choices and commitments.

You don’t need a REASON for any of them.

If you’ve hooked yourself on only activating your prime power states when you ‘have’ to, you may want to consider breaking that little addiction … or else accept that you’ve literally set yourself up for a life where you can either FEEL what you want or HAVE what you want, but never both! Eek!

To be honest with you, until I tuned in on all this after that conversation last night and now writing about it here, I didn’t even realise that I HAVE become the person who only needs her own choice and commitment to feel what she wants and be who she wants to be.

No external pressure or force required!

For most of what I can remember, I DID depend on those outside things in order to be able to activate my superpowers.

And now?

I am the damn superpower.

So as far as how it feels, to be at this level???

I guess the best answer is, it feels however I decide for it to feel!

And that’s a pretty amazing place to be.

Now … WHAT’S NEXT?!!

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

PS

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{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

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Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

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> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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