WHY YOU KEEP GETTING STUCK IN THE SAME SABOTAGES, THE SAME BULLSHIT, THE SAME OLD PATTERNS, AND STILL.AREN’T.THERE!

It sounds obvious, so obvious as to be a little bit silly to even need to talk about, but if you want to go to the next level then you’re going to need to be willing to discard the OLD level, and specifically the beliefs and mindsets that came with that.

It IS obvious, of course, it ‘goes without saying’, but the reason I’m saying it anyway is I’d be willing to bet you’re not doing it. At least in one area of your life, and maybe just about all of ’em! Well, for CERTAIN where you’re not doing it is ANY fucking area in which you don’t yet have everything you want, exactly, and then some! So how do you like THEM apples?!

When it comes to getting what they want (money! cars! women! more books! okay, whoops, I think I just became Tai Lopez for a second) pretty much everyone is more than happy to let go of their old STUFF.

“Be okay with saying goodbye to my old car / dive-y apartment / dodgy relationship / clunky website / not-soulmate clients / skanky worn out clothes, no PROBLEM. Come get ’em, and send the new shit over anytime, no need to call ahead!”

But how many people actually think about doing the damn work to release the beliefs, the thinking, the energy, the VIBRATION, the mindset, that got them all that old shitty NOT soul-yes stuff?

You can call in and manifest to the cows come home, repeat ALL the affirmations in the world, and FULLY know in your heart how available everything you dream of is, but if you’re still walking around being the person on the inside who got you to HERE, then guess where you’re gonna end up 3 months, 6 months, a year from now?

Still bloody here, that’s where, just 3 months, 6 months, a year older, and with a decent handful of empty little sayings to spout on social media, which nobody is going to pay ANY mind to even if they SAY GOOD SHIT, because people can FEEL your energy.

This is why, even though you may well –

Say all the right stuff
Post all the right stuff
Preach and teach and message and share pure GOLD
And even finally be willing to say yes to the soul work, soul biz, soul life, soul YOU that you know is divined

– you still can’t seem to get to where you want to go!

You feel infuriated, outraged, frustrated, ripped off, sad, unworthy, anxious, angry, and basically as though you’ve been sold a lie.

Why do all these other people seem to just appear out of nowhere and pass you by with ease?

Why have you been putting in the work for YEARS now, and you still find yourself battling the same old shit, dealing with the same ridiculous dramas and patterns, playing out the same sabotages, it’s crazy!

It should be reported to somebody, it’s not supposed to be this way! They TOLD you you could have it all, on your terms, anything you dreamed of, and you believed them! Well, isn’t it your time now? Isn’t enough enough? Haven’t you DONE enough? When the fuck is it all just going to click in already?!

And what you don’t realise, what you’ve maybe even never thought of, what I’m trying to SAY to you, is simply, well –

It’ll happen when you stop dancing around with one foot in both fucking camps, that’s when!

My mother used to like to say that you can’t be ‘half-Christian’, you can’t be sitting on the fence, not only is it uncomfortable, but if you’re on the fence then you’re simply NOT Christian.

She’s right.

Christian is a finite state.
Just like pregnant, you either are or you’re not; there ain’t no ‘I’m embodying being pregnant in this area but not in this area’. Haha. How silly does that sound? Well, I’ll tell you – 

It sounds roughly as silly as it sounds when you talk about being the millionaire you, or the hot and healthy as fuck you, or the worthy of true love and intimacy you, but then you continue to DEMONSTRATE the beliefs and mindsets and habits of the broke you / unfit and unhealthy you who does not honour her body / constantly settling or sacrificing or compromising you whose actions demonstrate she feels unworthy of love, and maybe even of LIFE.

Actions DO speak louder than words, and it doesn’t matter what song you’re singing about what you stand for, believe in, ‘insist on’, or know you can have, your state of BEING is a reflection of your beliefs, your thoughts, your fears, your energy, all the bits you think can’t be seen which, together, combine into a very easy to see reality, and the reality is this:

You are a product of what you expect, allow, and are available for, and your physical reality is a sum of your inner state.

The hardest thing you will do in life, I think, certainly one of the very hardest things, is to grit your teeth, square your shoulders, take a deep breath, and TURN AWAY FROM BEING THE YOU OF OLD.

YES it will be uncomfortable and terrifying and you’ll feel as though you’re dropping into black space.

But yes –

You will know that it’s what has to be done.

And so, if you’re looking for reassurance, validation, certainty, PROOF – use that.

Because no, you won’t be able to get the results in advance of being that new you, you won’t be able to gradually somehow transition over, and you can NOT get away with keeping one foot in and one foot out, hoping that this way you’ll somehow be able to just one day wake up easily in your new life, without ever facing into the confronting and daunting space of leaving the old.

That’s not how it works.

The reason so VERY very few make it to the top in any given area, is not because it’s not available to everybody, and contrary to popular opinion it’s also not because people don’t know how.

Any idiot can google the ‘how’ on any THING.

But the how don’t fucking matter, and we know THAT.

The reason so very few ever really get to HAVE IT ALL, is simple, and unromantic as fuck –

There’s only a very few willing to go the extra mile! There’s more room at the top because most just won’t do what it takes! And what it takes, REALLY only comes down to this:

Be the damn person.

Stop being the other damn person.

It’s that fucking simple.

The only question is –

Are you willing to let it be?

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