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Success Mindset

YES, BUT ARE YOU AVAILABLE NOW, AND HAVE YOU DECIDED?

If there are things you dream of having, becoming, or calling in, and they repeatedly still seem to be at arms length, you can’t understand why you’re not there yet, when you’ve been dreaming of it for so long and you God damn KNOW you’re worthy, then allow me, to ask you, a question –

Are you actually available for them NOW, and have you decided, really decided, that that’s just how it’s going to be?

You can answer yes quite easily, I suppose, although I suspect the question will at least make you ponder, perhaps a slight roll of the eyes at your self as you have to admit that hmmm, actually, no, not really, I am NOT fully open for that, I am DEFINITELY still closing myself off, and also, as for deciding, well –

Yes? No? HOW do I know?

How you know if you’ve decided, and made yourself ACTUALLY available for something you long for and know is meant to BE, is simple:

You’ve cut off all other options and anything that is NOT that.

This means you’ve walked away –
Closed doors –
Said ‘no thank you’ –
And chosen to be okay with WAITING, staying the course, and living, from faith, that if you DO refuse to accept anything other than THE thing, then at some point, when the time is right and you’ve done whatever work you perhaps needed to do along the way, it will show up because it HAS TO

The greatest gift you can give yourself, I believe, is the gift of PLAYING THE LONG GAME WITH YOUR VISIONS AND DREAMS

Of course EVERYTHING you see and feel inside of you is real and available NOW, there’s certainly no rule or idea that you have to wait, or put in a certain amount of effort, or indeed even do any work!

If you truly allowed yourself to feel and embody it now, you would SEE it now!

But then again –

If at first you don’t succeed –

Have you shown yourself to actually be WILLING to try try try again?

This is what FAITH based living is about, and being willing to do what it takes. It’s understanding that it can all happen NOW, in the blink of an eye, there is nothing needed to do, you’ve already done enough, are perfect, and ready, while at the same time knowing that you WILL nonetheless just keep on keeping on, aligning day by day as best as you can to BEING that next level version of you who is already living the damn thing.

It’s a continual dichotomy betwixt expecting it THIS VERY SECOND, and knowing that that is FULLY possible, while also being willing to give your life for it, for the practice of doing the work and being the person who would have it, whether or not it EVER shows up.

I know what you’re thinking –

What fun!

Seriously though, what other choice do you have?

When you’re showing up –
And you’re doing ‘everything’ you know how –
And you are TRULY believing –
And you KNOW that your deepest desires and soul cravings are allowed, and you KNOW they can come to life, for you, and fast –
And yet you still don’t see it manifested in the physical, let me ask you –

WHAT CHOICE DO YOU HAVE?

Will you be one of the 99.99% who put a deadline on their dreams, or who are inconsistent as FUCK with practicing believing it as done, with practicing being the person who would have it, which is of course, the very best way to manifest it, do you continually flick between absolute belief and certainty down into soul-crushing shame and despair, confusing your higher self with multiple personalities showing up each day, and thus keeping yourself pretty much at a standstill?

It’s a practice,
to be the next level motherfucking version of you

It takes discipline
It takes commitment
It takes PERSERFUCKINGVERENCE
It takes being willing to do what it takes, no matter what it takes, UNTIL it takes, all the while believing fully and all the while SURRENDERING fully

Part of that, and what I came here to share with you today, what the muse came through and nudged me about for you, is being clear on what you’re available for and what you’ve DECIDED, because I gotta tell ya –

You might be doing ALL the work, and then some, truly showing up and even practicing being the person, on the surface of things, but if your actions and choices repeatedly show you WILL still accept anything LESS than the actual thing you know it’s meant to be, then guess what sister?

You’re gonna continue to receive precisely what you’ve shown yourself available for.

Let’s shout that out again, for the kids who are napping in the back –

YOU’RE GONNA CONTINUE TO RECEIVE PRECISELY WHAT YOU’VE SHOWN YOURSELF TO BE AVAILABLE FOR.

Let this sink in.
SWIM in its truth, and essence.
Let the glorious pain of it wash all over you, as you realise the possibly VERY many areas of your life where this is true –

YOU’RE GONNA CONTINUE
TO RECEIVE
PRECISELY
WHAT YOU’VE SHOWN YOURSELF
TO BE AVAILABLE FOR

Nothing less!
And not a jot more.

OH, the horror and the beauty and the exquisite exquisite TORMENT of it!

Isn’t it WONDERFUL HORRIBLE FABULOUS DEVASTATING ALL AT ONCE?!

All you have to do, if you want more, if you want EVERYTHING you dream of and long for and KNOW you’re worthy of, is REFUSE TO ACCEPT ANYTHING LESS, OR OTHER.

And ALL you have to do, if you are so fed up with the shadow elements of your life, where it’s ‘not so bad’, and you ‘really shouldn’t complain’, and ‘actually it’s quite good, at times!’, and ‘you don’t want to be a demanding so and so’, and ‘maybe this is as good as it gets, or as good as you’re worth’ (lies!), is STOP BLOODY WELL ACCEPTING IT.

It’s a GLORIOUSLY FREEING realisation, don’t you think?!

Motherfucking terrifying as well, to be sure 

But hey … nobody ever said that living your dream was something you were gonna get handed on a silver platter, DID they now? Certainly not I!

And here is what it takes, to be that person, who WALKS THE FUCK AWAY, LIKE A DEVASTATINGLY BEAUTIFUL WARRIOR PRINCESS, ROBES AND FLAMES TRAILING BEHIND HER, INTO THE NEW LIFE SHE HAS UNTIL NOW BEEN PUTTING ON HOLD, NEVER ONCE LOOKING BEHIND HER – 

It takes
(quite simply, and can you guess?)
just WALKING THE FUCK AWAY

That’s all.
Without looking back.
That’s all.
And WITHOUT EVEN NECESSARILY KNOWING WHAT IT IS YOU’RE WALKING TOWARDS, never mind how it could possibly happen, or WHEN.
THAT’S all.

Of course probably, and certainly based on your current behaviour we could assume this, PROBABLY, you’ll never do that.

To scary.
What if.
Can’t handle.
The black hole and SPACE of it all.
Walk into the nothing, the not knowing, the what if, the WAITING place?

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, NO! I’ll do ALL the work, I’ll work my fingers to the bone, and I’ll dance to ANY tune you ask in order to get what I want and dream of, I’ll be the most go-gettin’ person in the room, but WAIT IN THE VAST UNKNOWING, PLEASE –

Not that.
ANYTHING.
But that.

And yet that
My DARLING
Is precisely
WHAT IT FUCKING TAKES
(you fool)
You BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BORN FOR IT AND WORTHY WARRIOR QUEEN YOU
(yes, we’ve elevated from Princess to Queen, WHY THE FUCK NOT?!)

That’s what it takes.

That’s what it takes.

That is what it TAKES.

So it’s never –

Are you willing, and will you do the work, and if I show you how to have it all would you DO it?

Of course you would, doing the WORK is EASY!

Until you realise that it it ACTUALLY is (and indeed the real work) is as black and white and 1, 2, 3, as this:

1) Know what you want, that has been shown to you, revealed to you, which you dream of, and FULLY believe you’re meant to have, and be motherfucking clear on THAT

2) DELETE DESTROY OR DROP and FULLY walk away from anything that is NOT that, in ALL areas of life, down to the smallest thing (this is the area where most people will NEVER choose to have the courage and thus will NEVER EVER EVER live their dreams, despite it being DESTINY and ABSOLUTELY what they deserve and were born for)

3) Stay the motherfucking course, all the while practicing being the person who would already be there

And if you can’t do these 3 things, if you won’t, or it’s not fair, it’s too hard, too scary, and what if it doesn’t worrrkkkkkkk?!

Then honestly –

Why the fuck are you bothering to do anything?

You’re maybe the busiest and hardest working person in the room –

And yet you’re working your ass off,

For nothing.

Nothing that was ever THE thing, anyhow.

 

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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