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Success Mindset

QUIT THE FUCKING HOOP JUMPING, AND COME BACK TO YOUR HEART

The problem is, you’re trying to succeed by doing, not just doing in a general sense, but doing it right, getting it right, building it right, doing a good JOB.

It makes sense, right?

If you were the ‘good girl or boy’ at school, and you grew up striving to do the most, be the best, get it RIGHT, then you’re simply following that pattern.

“If I do a good job and get it right I’ll get a gold star and an A+ and everybody will love me!”

If on the other hand you grew up flaking the fuck out or perhaps simply not able to GET the ways of the world and fit in, then there’s that unconscious part of you now which wants to GET ITS SHIT TOGETHER, and finally prove something:

“I CAN do a good job, I AM an organised and responsible and worthy person, just wait, I’ll show you!”

Regardless of which side you veer more into, and for me, actually I’ve been both, depending on the age or the situation, either way you’re missing one vital thing, something which they just didn’t really TELL us growing up, and which they still don’t NOW.

The way to get it right, do it right, get the best outcome and also to BE the best (you) is to follow your HEART.

Of course that’s actually completely fucking inaccurate, isn’t it?

At least, as far as how to succeed in SCHOOL; the way most of us went through it, and then also as far as how to succeed in the workplace, or college, or even, for the VERY most part, as an entrepreneur!

Just look around …

The way of the world, yes even THIS world, where people talk of ‘life on your terms’, and ‘doing it your way’, and ‘fuck yes or nothing!’, is STILL based on the premise that there’s a right way –

A wrong way –

And this is how to show up if you WANT that gold star.

But perhaps you think you’ve broken free of that! You know you get to be fully you! You are ready and willing to WAGE WAR ON NORMALCY and by golly you’re DOING it. You EVEN SOMETIMES SAY SHIT THAT OTHER PEOPLE WOULD NOT LIKE!

The audACITY of it all!

Well, awesome. A beautiful start. A beautiful first STEP, into the world of YOU GET TO DO WHAT YOU FUCKING WANT –

ONLY –

And always!

An initial FORAY into living according to the truth, and the truth of course is this:

When you say yes to your soul?

Life says yes to you.

But let me ask you a question, or maybe 20 of them, we’ll just see what comes OUT – !

And I ask because I know this was me, for so long, still is, at times, for sure, and the EXHAUSTION of it … not to mention that it doesn’t fucking WORK … is just horrific.

Do you or do you not still believe that there is a way you need to DO things in order to sell?
How about launch?
What about build a FUNNEL, hmm?
How ’bout if you want to get featured in big-time media?
What about finding great staff, and also managing them?
How about how you have to interact with clients, or what you need to offer or deliver, either in your 1:1 or your group programs?
How about for tech stuff, and your online presence in general?

What about in LIFE?

Do you or do you not still believe that there is a right way and a wrong way to interact with the opposite sex, so that you get attention, get heard, CATCH one?
How about to take care of your health and fitness?
What about to be a good parent?
How about to be supported vs have to do everything yourself in your home or just personal life admin?
What about for how family relationships should look?
How you should eat?
How to speak to people in official positions?
How to present yourself in social situations?
How to think?
How to BREATHE?!

Hmmm?!

Look, I’m not trying to go through every bit of your business and life and find holes, all I’m asking is this:

Is there or is there not any place where you are still choosing to believe that YOU HAVE TO JUMP THROUGH HOOPS IN ORDER TO GET WHAT YOU WANT?

You KNOW there is, of course there is, we all do it, yes even me! But I gotta tell you –

I have stripped that shit so far back at this point that I have to think REALLY hard to find a single area where I’m still playing by the rules.

And when I notice it and finally ACKNOWLEDGE it to myself (which can take a while, I admit, depending on how high my fear is around that thing!), well –

I stamp it the fuck OUT.

The best example is to do with how to communicate with men. GOD – I found myself ACTUALLY STARTING TO FUCKING BELIEVE I should follow things that dating and relationship coaches say on their YT videos or whatever about the CORRECT way to speak to men.

“Don’t say that, you’ll scare him off!”

“Say this, that’s what men respond to”

etc.

UGH.

I almost believed it because, well, I’ve come out of two failed marriages now. I have no idea what I’m doing! I’m all messed up! I’m not connected to my feminine properly. I don’t understand men. Etc!

Yeah yeah yeah yeah SO much noise. Wanna know how I know exactly what to say, always and actually CAN’T get it wrong?

Because I have a belief system that I can’t screw up ANY area of my life, when I just follow what’s INSIDE of me; it’s just about listening in, and doing what I’m guided to, no matter what, no matter how illogical, no matter how scary.

And whatever the outcome is, it’s exactly as it was meant to be …

And even if I DO take action not from the gut (’cause, fear AF sometimes), then THAT is exactly what it’s meant to be …

But to follow a process, a plan, some rules, which doesn’t FEEL right? Well, even if I got the supposed OUTCOME, what the fuck foundation is it based on?

No no no no NO! That is NOT how I want to do any PART of life.

It’s also, incidentally, not how I do ANY part of business.

I do what I want.
Only.
Always.
In ALL of the above areas, and more besides.

AND THAT IS WHY SHIT WORKS.

Does it get messy, chaotic, do I break rules constantly, do I sometimes get knocked back for not DOING it right? Of course!

Does it ALWAYS FUCKING WORK ’cause I’m following my soul? Of course!

Does ‘it working’ sometimes look different to what I thought I wanted or needed? Of course!

And here is what all of this comes down to, REALLY –

How do you want to fucking LIVE? You wanna buy into a belief system that there’s a right and a wrong way and for your whole.damn.life you gotta watch out for that? You wanna live in a world where what you achieve or become or have is based on you going against your own CORE?

Good fucking luck.
Best wishes to you.
ENJOY.

Let me tell you something:

If your shit ain’t working
Ain’t selling
People ain’t listening
Don’t want you
You don’t feel HAPPY
It feels like you’re pushing shit up a hill
It’s like pulling TEETH
Even when you DO get a ‘result’ you can’t enjoy it
YOU DON’T FEEL IN FUCKING FLOW

You’re doing it wrong

THAT is how to know

Enough with the nonsense that a single other person could know better than YOU what is right for you, your business, your body, your life.

Give in to TRUST.
Give in to FAITH.
Give in to FLOW.

Connect to your fucking HEART.

And then?

Do what it tells you.

THAT’S ALL.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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