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SCARED TO BE SEEN, REALLY SEEN? YOU’RE NOT ALONE, BUT ALSO … GTF OVER IT, OR GET OUT NOW

I spoke to a journalist this morning, about 40 minutes of question and answer relevant to every part of my story, and how I’ve built this business from the ground up; a dream which began 27 years ago, when at 11 years old, I picked up my first Tony Robbins.

A multi-million dollar EMPIRE built on a simple ‘knowing’ which passed through me all those years ago, that yes –

I was born for more.
I was going to do something extraordinary with my life.
And maybe I was even going to in some way change the world!

You too? Thought so … it’s always been that way for us, hasn’t it? The knowing … even long before we KNEW that we knew.

The thing is, I would never have built this business to where it is today had I not have quit letting my BULLSHIT be bigger than my dreams; finally said yes to stepping into the light and speaking my truth, ‘fuck what anybody had to say about it!’.

I guess I’m somewhat known for being unapologetically me, and certainly what I TEACH is to let the world see you, understand that sure, some people may not like it or may even judge it, but that ultimately this is the ONLY way your true peeps will find you. It’s also how it gets to be SO easy … what could be easier than just being you, all of you, in business AND in life?!

It’s easy for me to talk about this. I can preach about it all day long! And certainly I DO practice it, have practiced it, continue to practice it.

But yet …

There’s still that scared little girl part of me which comes out to play on occasion!

Perhaps you know her? Perhaps you’ve MET her? Perhaps she’s IN YOU TOO?!

And she says – when, on an occasion like today, you have the opportunity to share your story outside of your own bubble where you ALREADY KNOW EVERYBODY LOVES YOU –

“They probably think you’re full of shit … not a good person … have no SUBSTANCE … or just that your story is actually BORING, and who the hell do you even think you are?!”

I’m sure it’s not just me who still has these sort of thoughts of self-doubt!

Who automatically somehow assumes that people won’t LIKE her … or at least won’t GET her …

I guess, for women and men like you and I, we grow up used to not being understood, and to a degree we always carry it around in some way; that knowledge that we are DIFFERENT. We see the world differently. We want different things. We want it all! And? We know we can have it.

We live our lives in a certain way which most people WILL never understand, and don’t even WANT to understand, and while we obviously CELEBRATE being this person much of the time, there are also still those times when it’s SCARY.

Whether it’s fear of not being understood, or being judged, by your partner, your family, your friends, those closest to you, or it’s fear of strangers not getting you, not understanding your passion, your message, your intent, whatever it is, it’s a CHOICE to allow that stuff to rule you or not.

I think that showing the world who you really are, and giving yourself permission to BE all that you are – the good, the bad, the random, the badass, the crazy, the downright mad; ALL of it – is critical to success and TRUE fulfilment, but I also think it’s a daily fucking practice.

It’s human nature to hide. To pull back. To self-protect. And often we automatically fail to express our true selves because we’re scared it’s too much, or not appropriate, or that we’ll be told off or judged. Kicked out of the herd!

I feel these things as much as the next person. EVERY leader does; EVERY successful entrepreneur questions themselves continually, and, if they’re doing a good job at standing up for what they actually stand for then they’ll also find themselves FREQUENTLY feeling that slightly nauseating feeling of wondering if they’ve gone too far … if they should have said that … published that … agreed to that.

And then?

They keep going 

Because it’s just what we DO, isn’t it?!

I always say to people that in the end you’re going to give into being you ANYWAY, so you might as well just do so now.

Let’s get real here:

No matter how damn scary it is to put the real you out there, and ‘not give a fuck’ about what anybody has to say about it, isn’t it SO much scarier to imagine a life where you let fear rule you and you NEVER go all in?!

Here’s what else:

It is literally impossible to get ‘being you’ wrong.

You can’t screw it up. Even when sometimes it seems you HAVE screwed it up, it’s always just exactly the lesson you needed for that time, and ultimately it is what you CHOSE so therefore it was right.

Speaking your truth, being you, standing up for what you stand for and standing against what you don’t, these are all things which can ONLY set you free.

And I guess it’s up to you if you want to believe that or not … you’re certainly welcome to believe that success requires you to be SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT …. but good fucking luck playing life THAT way!

In the end, it’s VERY black and white –

You either go all in to live the life you were born for, and you REFUSE to let your fear pave the way, or?

You get out now.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/