Success/Success Mindset


It’s not going to happen.

Do you realise this? The way you’re doing it right now, the way you’re trying to ‘make’ it work, wait for it to work, let it work, hope it works, expect and know and think that it SHOULD work, one day, ’cause after all – !

It’s destiny, baby, and what I was BORN for!

None of that means it’s going to happen.

It is NOT going to happen.

Not now –

And not ever, not UNLESS.


Unless you get the fuck up and say oh HOH bitch, it JUST fucking happened! Ba-da-boom.

How you gonna say that though, unless it JUST fucking happened?!

Well, obviously you’re going to have to go and MAKE it happen, but let’s be clear, since I already mentioned that THAT doesn’t work –

There’s I’m trying to make it happen, I really am, I’m showing up, I’m doing the ‘work’,

And then there is I MADE it fucking happen.

Think back –

Think back to the things in your life, perhaps in your business, which you HAVE made happen.

What are some of your most holy shit incredible accomplishments?

Perhaps something which came out of nowhere, left you breathless and with your head spinning and in an INSTANT, changed your life –

Or perhaps something you’d been hoping | wishing | praying for for GOD knows how long, and then one day you just got freakin’ SICK of it, sick of your own BULLSHIT, you said fuck THIS shit, you clicked your fingers, and tapped your ruby red heels together, and BOOM –

It was done.

Is it true or IS IT TRUE that THAT shit, the stuff you MADE happen, happened like magic, like woah, in a second, it seemed impossible, almost still does, even now when you look back, because something shifted and enough was enough and you just DECIDED.

You decided –

“Fuck this shit.
I don’t even CARE how.
It is DONE”

And for the first time, you meant it, and you FELT it, you felt it BEING done, that visceral shift where you just KNEW that nothing and nobody, not least your own sorry stories, was going to any longer stop you.


Is the ONLY way it works. It’s the only way that any of it works.

So, let’s talk about fame.

Let’s talk about being born for it.

Let’s talk about being the 1% within the 1%, motherfucker, and KNOWING that your message is supposed to change people’s LIVES, knowing that everything you feel and see inside of you is real and HAS to happen.

And by the way, since we’re having this convo and all –

Enough with the ‘I don’t really care about fame or fortune bullshit’!

Is it really that you don’t care? Or is it that you’ve somewhere along the way decided that that shit would come at a cost you don’t want to pay, or that MAYBE YOU’RE JUST NOT WORTH IT?

Lemme tell you –

a) NOTHING comes at a cost you don’t want to pay, the whole damn point is you always DO wanna pay the price, that’s how alignment and living what’s in your soul WORKS, but generally fear makes you frozen, and you become terrified or resistant to doing so

b) You’re fucking worth it. You were BORN worth it, and beneath all the fear nonsense, and the ‘I don’t know howwwwww’ whininess, you DO know this. So there.

Which means that the fact that you aren’t ‘there’ yet, wherever it is you purport that you should be or thought you WOULD be by now, is entirely –

And squarely –

On you.

Specifically, it’s on the fact that you ACTUALLY haven’t decided yet. You haven’t flicked that switch, made the ‘fuck this shit and I don’t even CARE how; it’s DONE’ deep gut decision, and instead you are walking around –

Making feeble little attempts here –

And posting boring and bland shit there –

And then wondering why it’s just TAKING so long.


It never TAKES ‘so long’, it is NEVER a drawn out process when the true decision has been made. The SECOND you flick that switch you FEEL it done, and then the physical reality just catches the fuck up.

In a ‘human time’ sense, this may take a day or a thousand of ’em, but you don’t NOTICE, it doesn’t feel like something that’s slow-going and drawn out, ’cause you be flying along in the superflow zone baby!

When it feels slow-going
Hard to come by
And drawn out
And draining

This is a CERTAIN FUCKING SIGN YOU HAVEN’T GONE ALL IN YET, you haven’t truly DECIDE, ’cause if you HAD, then you’d just KNOW it’s coming, already, and you wouldn’t need to worry yourself about it, WOULD you now?

I’m right 

So, you’d just go about the business of being you, being present in the NOW, and living your damn LIFE!

What does THIS moment right here ask of me, what does my soul guide and command me to do right NOW? That’d be all you’d ever be concerning yourself with, and then you’d DO it.

Trusting trusting trusting that of COURSE you’re doing exactly what you need to do and of COURSE you are on path, because that is just who you are and how it IS, and as for, oh, what’s that now? That outcome you’re waitin’ on and working towards, hahahaha, don’t be silly –

There’s nothing I ever need to do to create shit
I created it in my MIND bitch
It’s already DONE
I expect it at any moment in the human realm
And I’m completely fucking at peace, content, present and in attendance right NOW, in the meanwhile


That’d be like ordering a meal in a restaurant, and then standing guard in the kitchen or getting amongst it yourself, for fear the meal otherwise wouldn’t arrive.

Doh, you ordered it, of course it’s coming, and whilst it would be nice for it to come INSTANTLY, which sometimes it seems to just do, anyhow, either way YOU are kicking back living your best life and having the most badass time ever, so, whatever –

It’ll be there when it’s there but it WILL be there.

This fame thing.
This fortune thing.
This impact thing.
This making millions and transforming millions with your message thing.
This MO-ney thing.

ALL of it depends, quite simply, on you deciding that you’re actually NOT going to concern yourself, for a second longer, with how it’s gonna happen or what you should or shouldn’t do.

And that you will quit doing a SINGLE thing to try and GET there.

ANYTHING which is coming from ego or ‘I should’, gets to go.

And instead?

You’re going to take charge.

You wanna be famous, you wanna be known everywhere, you wanna be rich as fuck and live your purpose?

Stop waiting for the world to notice you, or come find you.

The answer is, and always has been, you BUILD it, and they, the so-called ‘gatekeepers’, will come to YOU. Assuming you even still want or need them!

As for how you build it –

Why, isn’t it obvious?

You become it.

By deciding.

And then you repeat.

Every day.

How long?

Duh, till you die of course.

What, you were planning to live for something you DON’T wanna die for?

If you’d decided –
And you knew it was done –
And you were no longer waiting on even the TINIEST bit of approval or validation or permission –
Pray tell –

What would you be doing right now?

That’s all.