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Success Mindset


There’s very little point, if you think about it, wondering to yourself about what you need to do, or even who you need to be, in order to see what you long for, that ‘next level you’, show up and start waving at you in the mirror.

Little point even to thinking about who you need to BE? Surely that’s what we talk about all the time though?!

I’ve said it often – the fastest way to manifest an outcome is to internally go to the place where that outcome is already done, and ask yourself –

Who AM I, in that place?
How do I think?
What am I feeling?
What are my thoughts, my emotions?
What do I BELIEVE?
What have I let go of, walked away from?
What have I had to leap towards, say yes to, and ‘make’ happen?
What is my environment like (think … in every aspect, inner, outer, home, lifestyle, health, relationships, you name it!)
Who AM I, from the smallest thing I accept and allow, to the vastest and greatest thing I’ve created and called in?!

I love to ask myself these sorts of questions, and I ask them often! Have done so for years, in some way, shape, form. I’m continually just CREATING THE INNER ENVIRONMENT OF THE NEXT LEVEL ME, and then boom –

I wake up one day and I am her!

In fact, I swear so greatly by such journaling that I highly recommend you go dive into exactly this shit, today! Hop to it!

But at the same time –

It kinda sorta doesn’t fucking MATTER, y’know?

Who cares, who you have to be or what you’d be thinking or feeling or doing or ANY other thing, because when you GET there you will BE there, and that’s all there is to say about that and actually the FASTEST fastest way to get there (faster even than the FASTEST way … think of it like, trying to compare taking the Autobahn – fucking fast, if you want it to be! – to just TIME traveling) … the fastest FASTEST way of course?

Is to simply be there.

And so I remind myself this morning, as I journal, and dive into the above questions, and then suddenly find myself a little bored with it, like – meh. I really can’t be bothered with this stuff today. I remind myself –

When I expect it, I will see it done.

That’s just how it works. It’s how it’s always worked. It’s the only way it can work!

When I expect it.
When I see it in my mind.
When I’ve planted it deeply into my sub-conscious self, into every cell of my DNA, every strand of blood and muscle and tissue, every regulating pulse, nerve, my very mitochondria BUZZING with the certainty that, DUH.

THEN I will see it done.

So if I want to practice anything –
Or ‘rote’ rehearse –
Or ask myself questions, paint the picture, step into the vision, sure, why not? It’s a nice exercise, and fun! A reminder that it’s all just a game of make believe anyway.

But REALLY, if I want to practice ANYTHING, what I should be practicing is raising my fucking expectations.

Not as some kind of ‘for the sake of it’ rule, I don’t mean that.

On the one hand, I can look back and tell you with certainty that I have achieved the level of business and money and body and life success I have because I continually just TURNED UP THE FUCKING DIAL.

Day by day, an 0.01% improvement across multiple areas.

So small as to be imperceptible, most of the time!

So mighty as to change my whole world, again and again, over time!

That’s all I’ve really done, and I gotta tell you as well that when you realise that that’s all it takes it’s REALLY FUCKING EASY TO WIN AT EVERYTHING. I mean, can you honestly say you don’t have it in you to improve by 0.01% each day? Fuck off very nicely, if so!

As if.

But still, I don’t believe in dialing it up, aiming for the next level, for the sake of it.

I believe, quite simply, in aligning to your soul.

Getting connected to what’s already IN there, being shown to you if only you’d look, the certain blueprint of where you’re meant to go.

And THEN –

Practicing fucking expecting it.

By all means, doin’ the journaling around what it would look like to already be there, as per above, because doing that is a great way to PRACTICE EXPECTING IT.

So before you consider THAT, what you really want to be journaling on, looking IN on, and asking for answers on, is more so around, well, what do you believe is meant to be in place for you?

This is not about what you COULD create, step into, become.
This is not about what would be COOL, or make you cool.
This is not about what your bestie is chasing, or your mentor, or those who inspire you online!
This is about – 

What is your soul telling you is meant to BE?

THAT’S your guiding light, that’s what you want to tune into, that is what you want to pay DEEP daily fucking attention to, and THAT, of course, is what you want to decide to expect.

Everything I see inside my soul
Is real
And beautiful
And meant
For me
And when I then say yes to my soul
Life says yes to me!

Can you see how EASY it then becomes, to expect, to plant it in deep within, and ultimately to see it as done?

You’re not trying to instill something from outSIDE of you, you’re simply waking up what’s already within, and letting it come to life!

To me this feels as simple as when you pour water onto one of those teeny little magic towels they have all scrunched up for you when you check into your hotel in Bali. A few drops of liquid, and voila – it comes to life, it’s expansive, it’s MOIST (haha … TRIGGER WORD ALERT), it’s juicy, it’s READY, it’s real.

And it’s literally THAT FUCKING EASY for you to let the things that are inside of you become real, become alive, become JUICY, become yours.

They’re already there.
They already exist.
The entire fucking plan has been mapped out for you, too, you don’t need to concern yourself with HOW.

But you do have to decide to let that shit live.

And how do you do that?


You pay it attention.
You BREATHE into it, water it a little.
And you watch it fucking bloom.

So if you’re going to practice anything –

If you’re going to journal on anything –

If you’re going to wonder about why you have, or don’t have, this, or that, or the other thing –

Why not first simply stop –

Look within –

And ask:

What does my soul already know is mine?

And then?

Well just decide, what else?!

Yes please.
I’ll be having that.
No question.
No wonderment.
No concern for how.
It’s available.
It’s been shown to me, in the buffet wihin my deepest self.

I finally damn well chose it, so of course I now expect to see it.

I wonder –

Would you be willing to let it be that simple?

Or would you rather keep telling yourself a story, that in order to become everything you were ever meant to be, and have your SOUL aligned version of it all, you first have to be everything you’re not already,



Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.