THAT NEEDY SHIT YOU’VE GOT GOING ON? WHERE YOU’RE HOLDING ON TO NOT QUITE RIGHT INSTEAD OF INSISTING ON AWESOME? LET’S STOP THAT
I want to talk to you real quick about that needy shit you’ve got going on. You know –
The GRASPING you do.
Where you hold on.
Desperately.
(Embarassingly, let’s face it)
To something that’s just, well –
No.
Actually.
And you tell yourself –
It’s not so bad! They’re not THAT high maintenance … whingy moany … lacking in EVERY FUCKING THING you demand in a client, a friend, a lover, yourself.
Oh, and when I say you demand? In your dreams, baby, because while you SAY you want the best, are the best, work with the best, do the best, ETC, what’s actually happening?
So let’s talk, you and I, let’s sit down, you and I, let’s CHAT, you and I, let’s get REAL, you and I, let’s get our shit TOGETHER, you and I, and when I say you and I oh TRUST me I do mean both of us, because never forget:
Any lesson I pass on to you is one I’ve first WELL kicked my own butt on first 😉
And coming from that KINDA tender place of having learned my lessons hard, in business, first, with money, next, in fitness, at one point, and now in life and LOVE, I’m gonna tell you this:
When you let go of the needy shit, you feel a DAMN fine sight better. You can BREATHE again. You can hold your BACK up, and fucking SMILE. You look hotter too, for SURE.
And also?
(And you might wanna write this one down)
When you stop holding on to the not quite right I guess it’ll do for now it’s just how it IS and it’s all I can GET shit –
You make way for your SOUL people to find you.
And I was thinking, today, about this, today, for oh so many areas, today, and I was listening, today, to messages, today, from my BADASS clients, today, all of whom basically just check in or get on a call with me to tell me how awesome both they AND I are, and then what they’ve launched | sold | created | unleashed, oh, and “thank you Kat, you’re the best!”, and I was thinking about how AMAZING coaching is these days, and then I was thinking back to some years ago when it felt –
Ugh.
A drain.
Hard.
Frustrating.
And I thought (and perhaps you’ve said this too?! But I’ll wager you don’t really mean it!), I thought –
“I HATE coaching! I’m NEVER DOING IT AGAIN!” *stomps foot and storms off*
And now – ?
I have fucking STANDARDS inside’o’my STANDARDS baby.
And oh my heaven and earth holy GOD I can tell you that when you start working with your SOUL people life is so.damn.FINE!
This don’t just apply to business, you understand 😉
So here’s what I want to tell you.
Today.
A message.
Today.
As my fingers fly quickly over my keyboard to get this out, wine at the ready, friends about to arrive at this beautiful wine bar, a live performance ahead, for this evening’s festivities, but I can NOT turn into that until I turn this out for you:
Something’s been on my mind lately gorgeous. Something, I think, which can very much break or make us, as SOUL centered entrepreneurs. The soul part, in this case, meaning we actually give a fuck. About what? Everything that matters. And in this case: about doing business with soul. From alignment. About creating the MEGA fame and
Stop scrabbling for scraps, when you came to pierce souls. This is a letter to the true 1% within the 1% leader, who is bored senseless with doing anything other than claiming his or her rightful place, and going straight to the actual mofo top. Not the smoke and mirrors top that everybody else is
There’s very little point, if you think about it, wondering to yourself about what you need to do, or even who you need to be, in order to see what you long for, that ‘next level you’, show up and start waving at you in the mirror. Little point even to thinking about who you
If you step back from your ego, from your want, from the urgent ‘need’ to make more money, build a bigger following, be seen by EVERYONE, and NOW, do you really and truly feel you’re meant to be going bigger right now? Maybe yes, maybe sure, maybe you’ve already become all that you need to