THIS IS WHAT A WEALTH MINDSET LOOKS LIKE (Plus 12 Killer Wealth-Triggering Questions to Ask Yourself!)
If there’s one thing that’s for sure about who you will be when you step into your NEXT level of wealth, the one you dream of, think of, and KNOW is waiting for you, it’s that your mindset will have elevated wildly beyond the already pretty badass place it’s at right now.
I’ve been working with and mentoring self-made 6, multiple 6, 7 and now even multiple 7-figure entrepreneurs for years now, some of whom came to me already pretty nicely along that pathway, others who I literally got to be alongside as they BECAME millionaires (so cool!), and of course I’ve also been fairly closely involved in my own journey from big-dreams-empty-pockets to now, well –
And here is what I know for SURE:
The wealthier you become the more your mindset WILL elevate and grow, the more you’ll let go of old ways of thinking, of anything that suggests your outcomes are anything BUT 100% within your control, and of many many previously tightly-held demands for validation, reassurance, permission, and so on.
Of course we’re not just talking about FINANCIAL wealth. Make no mistake – money GETS to be part of the picture, one thing you’ll realise ever more, and no doubt have already clued in to in order to get to where you’re already at, is that it’s JUST as easy to breathe in as air, and you can have as much as you like!
But to me and my clients, wealth is reflected not just in terms of bank account size … lifestyle … the house and car of your dreams … 10k or so of Mont Blanc pens in your handbag at any given time … no, just me? haha … or even ALL the red-soled shoes in the world, but it’s also VERY much about an energy. A feeling. EXPANSIVENESS, to know that first and foremost you are FOLLOWING SOUL, living life purposefully, being who you are meant to BE in the world!
I would go as far as saying that money is one of the LEAST important reflections of true wealth. To me TRUE wealth is a feeling of spiritual expansiveness and certainty, whereby I KNOW –
I’m on path.
I’m tapped in.
I’m PROUD of myself.
And what I am doing and who I am being not only lights up and fulfils ME, but also, in a way –
The entire world.
Thought so 🙂
Before I go way off on THAT little tangent, let’s get back to what we came here to talk about! A little smackdown and reminder of truth for you today, from my higher self AND yours straight to, well – whichever version of you you’re right now choosing to be.
This is what a wealth mindset looks like:
1) Absolute Belief
Self-made WEALTHY badasses, who are soul-led and driven (and I’ve no interest in engaging with or talking about any who are NOT … in fact I’d have no clue about it as that’s not who WE ARE) … have the ABSOLUTE belief that what they see and feel inside of them is real, available, available for them, available NOW.
This belief may be well tested at times, and faith can get very rocky. But, in the end, after they’ve had their freak out or little deviation from truth, they ALWAYS come back to belief, and reminding themselves of who they just ARE.
Prompt: do you believe that what you dream of is not only possible but is DONE, for you? If yes, then simply put your drama aside and act like it. If no, why are you here following me? Not a fit!
Speaking of which –
2) Ability to Remove Emotion, and Just Do the Damn Work
One of the greatest characteristics of a soul-led wealthy person is they are able to quickly alsoCONSISTENTLY detach from their own drama, their stories, the ’emotion’ of the moment, see it for what it is, be okay with admitting that’s what they were doing, laugh or roll their eyes at themselves, and then RETURN TO SOUL-LED work.
They know there is no other choice, and that besides – who they really are is somebody who acts from core. They don’t entertain their own bullshit, just like a parent won’t entertain the histrionics of a wailing child.
Prompt: where could you stand to drop the drama and come back to your core?
3) Personal Responsibility
Soul-led wealthy people know that no matter how tempting it might be to wail and moan about life being hard, other people making things hard for them, society or whatever not being right, that in the end they HAVE to take personal responsibility for all their outcomes.
Like anybody, we might well get ‘caught up’ for a little bit in ‘that’s not fair!’, or ‘this HAPPENED to me!’, or ‘I can’t believe he / she / did that, now look!’. But, we quickly kick our own ass back to soul truth and TAKING MOFO RESPONSIBILITY, because we know that, no matter how hard it might feel to do so, to NOT do so implies we don’t have choice, or that we can’t choose our own outcomes and create our reality.
And we are simply not available for that!
We also know that an evolved consciousness goes to the DEEPER levels of a situation, looking not at the surface discomfort or uncertainty or situation, but instead at what it represents, and which core beliefs we want to choose to be aligned with.
Prompt: where are you not taking personal responsibility for your outcome(s)? What are the deeper beliefs being revealed here, and how does that then automatically impact on other areas of your life? Remember – everything affects everything, you either believe in abundance and being able to CHOOSE, or you don’t! This is finite.
4) Unwavering Expectation
RICH people have the expectation that things will just work out for them, that life will take care of them, that the cookie will crumble in their favour, and that they’ll be upgraded ALWAYS!
It’s never surprising to us when unexpected awesomeness drops out of the sky … we expect it because we have an energy of being a certain type of person, and we know that the world can see that too! If by chance something does NOT go in our favour, we also don’t get attached to it. We don’t get all melodramatic and make it ‘about’ us. We will probably be a little confused, and then just shrug it off, expecting and KNOWING that something even better is just about to occur.
And then it does.
SCARCITY minded people freak the fuck out when they in any way feel like the world is indicating they’re not good enough. Because their idea of who they are is based on stuff from outside of them, not from within. Which creates all manner of vicious and God-awful cycles.
Prompt: what do you EXPECT to happen? What if you looked at what the ‘next level you’ would expect, and then simply practiced, well, expecting that?!
5) Detachment, and Knowing Everything is Just a Practice
We know that everything we do is a practice, nothing is ever done, there is no ‘there’ to get to, and that the ultimate reward is in BEING WITH WHAT IS NOW, and also loving it and knowing it’s enough … even while more is ALWAYS available.
One of our greatest practices is SURRENDER, and detachment. We expect the best always. We INSIST on, and demand growth. And, we shrug our shoulders and ‘whatever’ if it doesn’t happen.
Because at our core we know that nothing matters, and we are taken care of, and we ONLY get better and better. In general, we just know that the better it gets, the better it gets and keeps on getting, because we CHOOSE and expect that, and we show up and be the person accordingly … so any deviation, even dramatic, is ‘so what’. \
Prompt: what do you need to let go of, in order to receive? What do you need to understand is a PRACTICE, not something to try and ‘achieve’, or tick off?
Detachment is one of the most CRITICAL practices to allow breakthrough, and wealth.
6) Growth Opportunity
We see hurdles, struggles, pain, frustration, things going ‘wrong’ as a growth opportunity. We know we have called it in. We TAKE RESPONSIBILITY. Then we tune in to what we get to learn, in order to move through.
Lack minded folks see it as the world or life out to get them. They learn nothing. So they GET to keep on learning the same lesson over and over again!!
Prompt: what do you need to LEAN INTO and learn and grow from, instead of carrying the frick on about?
7) Assumption That Everything is Working FOR Us
Perpetually stuck and broke people have a ‘the world is out to get me’ mentality. They thrive on and almost seem to expand from hater comments, or the idea that people want to bring them down. It’s like watching a yeast infection grow when fed more sugar. They don’t seem to realise that the main focus of their conversation is how nobody believes in them and everyone wants them to fail, or thinks they’re stupid or whatever, and “I’ll show them!”.
Wealthy soul-led people are too damn focused on doing their soul’s work to pay any mind to anybody or anything that doesn’t TRULY lift and elevate them.
Besides, we just expect that everybody wants to see us win and so that tends to be our experience.
Prompt: what are you experiencing because of what you’re EXPECTING?
😎 Infinite CHOICE, Infinite POSSIBILITY, and The Understanding that Physical is 20%, Max
We know that we have infinite choice and also infinite possibility, and that it’s all available in the NOW. Even long before we heard of quantum reality; the 5th dimension, and realised that the physical was just ONE part of where life exists, and is created, we just knew it in our soul.
Broke AF people, if told they can’t have something, or if it doesn’t work, or if it seems to go against them, largely accept it and then bitch about it.
TRULY wealth-minded people simply never accept any alternative but that they can have everything they want. We also actively enjoy the challenge of finding a way to make it work, when everybody and everything seems to think it impossible. We actually get off on overcoming the impossible, and it flat out NEVER occurs to us that we can’t.
We know there is a way. And we will damn straight find it!
Prompt: what would you find a way for, if you dropped the ‘but I tried already’ BS?
8) Integrity Out the Wazoo, Led Always By Intuition and Soul
My clients and I, and those like us, operate to a standard of ABSOLUTE integrity.
The integrity is, of course, to our highest available self, our soul, our spirit, our consciousness, the REAL us.
We know that when we say yes to soul –
Life says yes to us! And that there is NO exception to this.
This means we will absolutely walk away from something we’ve previously said yes to … change our minds … be socially unacceptable in our behaviours and choices … appear to be flaky or chaotic as all get out … because we are guided by intuition and soul, and that’s that!
Even when it is SERIOUSLY uncomfortable or embarrassing or exposes our deepest fears or vulnerabilities we have simply learned that it is the STUPIDEST THING EVER TO NOT FOLLOW SOUL.
And we know that when we do, EVERYTHING unfolds and is opened to us.
So we do.
We do this from the littlest thing to the greatest, and it is one of our highest standards and personal requirements.
Other people … well. They do not. Largely their lives are created from fear, reactive surface-based emotions, and a need to fit in or be validated by others.
Prompt: what would faith do right now in your life?
9) Not Happy if Not Growing and Turning Up the Dial
We can’t stand the idea of not moving forward, and we are just programmed to improve across all areas, day by day. Edit – we have done the damn work, and continue to, to be programmed for this! We are not available for anything less. And, over time, it’s because automatic, just who we are.
This doesn’t mean we don’t rest, stop, breathe, take time out. It just means we know when it’s actually needed, and when it’s just resistance, laziness, poor programming, avoidance.
People who will never make it can’t be bothered, are too tired, have their period, dog ate their homework, or they were waiting for a vestal virgin to come down from a mountain and deliver to them a scroll which says it’s time.
In other words – it’s never their time, because they never make it so.
Prompt: what if you REFUSED TO ACCEPT THE IDEA THAT ANY MOMENT OTHER THAN THIS ONE RIGHT NOW IS YOUR TIME?
10) Driven by Purposeful Pain, and Acting FROM
WE are driven by pain, purposeful pain, if it’s needed, and we know that pain isn’t a big deal, a bad thing, or something to be scared of. We roll our ideas at such an idea … HELLO, it’s not called ‘growing pains’ for no reason.
Pain = growth. Pain is OFTEN purposeful. Pain ALWAYS teaches us something. In many cases, we seek it out (think … PBs in the gym … stepping out of comfort zone in business or performing … speaking our truth no matter how scary … just to name a few!), and we LIGHT UP from noticing how we become stronger, inside and out, to the point of being unstoppable, as a result.
We are proud of ourselves for learning to separate self from pain, and realise that it’s just another experience … and one of the most formative ones.
Weak people avoid pain, and think that’s okay.
Prompt: what do you need to lean into for your GROWTH?
11) Acts From the End Goal, the Vision Beyond the Vision
Probably our greatest strength, and what all of this comes down to, is our ability (choice!) to act FROM where we desire to be, not towards.
We know our vision beyond our vision, and we continue to practice DAILY simply being that person; aware that this is the fastest and simplest way to BECOME said person!
We do this in terms of our behaviour emotionally, energetically, mentally, spiritually and of course in the physical.
We do it whether we feel like it, and whether we don’t. We are LIVING EACH DAY IN THE KNOWLEDGE THAT EVERYTHING IS AVAILABLE TO US, and we will absolutely do WHAT it takes, no MATTER what it takes, UNTIL it takes to be that person.
People who wanna be us simply either aren’t born for it, or else they repeatedly fail (choose not to!) to be the version of them who would already have it.
Prompt: what would TODAY look like if you chose to ‘act from’?
I could go on and on here, but I think you get the idea.
Wealth is a choice, but it’s a choice that starts with MINDSET.
Daily, people who aren’t where they want to be, CHOOSE to perpetuate the mindset that got ’em to the stuck place where they are, and will keep them there.
Daily, WE choose to elevate, step outside our comfort zone, and practice being the next version of who we know we already ARE in the 5th, and daily we thus become it. We do this while also in FULL acceptance of all that is NOW, because we know that to not accept and allow what is, is to dial DOWN abundance and the ability to receive, and also results in a LIFE NOT LIVED due to never being present in it!
The only thing I didn’t say here on top of all this, is that of course WE expect and require that we get to be paid and RECEIVE all this wealth from doing what we came to do in the world, and THAT is one of the most definite things we simply won’t accept anything ELSE on!
We insist on being rich from our soul work.
Don’t forget –
Life is Now. Press Play.