Money Mindset, Success Mindset

Want Your Millions, Want ’em Now? Be a Diva, and Expect The Best.

Be a diva

 

I freaking HATE it when people come and talk to me when I’m writing or engrossed in my work. I’ve mentioned this before but God knows it bears saying again. I mean come ON – are they actually stupid? I think it’s pretty clear when somebody has their head down and is focused and anybody with even 1 single lone creative cell in their body knows NOT TO INTERRUPT THE ARTIST AT WORK.

ESPECIALLY not to ask something as mundane and IRRELEVANT as how you are or whether you got their message/email/annoying distraction to everything you actually care about and want to spend your time on.

Yeah. I’m a selfish bitch, I know. I want it all, I want it now, and I want it EXACTLY HOW I ASKED FOR IT.

NO interruptions.

NO small talk.

NO pesky tasks.

In fact, you know what? Let’s make it simple for both of us, just don’t come anywhere within a 50 foot radius of me when I’m working, thinking about work, journaling, brainstorming or otherwise in flow in my creative state.

Sigh.

Do you ever wonder if maybe you’d be happier and better off living on a remote island cut off from everybody? Or at least getting helicoptered in there once a day for a nice block of 4 or 20 hours

Here’s the thing about being a total diva, bitch, whatever you want to call it –

The world will never understand you and you WILL come across as arrogant, demanding, spoiled, a princess, head in the clouds, ungrateful, uncaring, and a whole host of other things not generally spoken of in polite company.

And BECAUSE of thisno, not in spite of it but BECAUSE of it – you will make your millions, become the leader you were born to be, transform the lives of countless thousands and ultimately do what you were born to do and live the God-given purpose bestowed upon you.

You will –

Run the business you REALLY want to run, even though ‘they told you it was a bad idea’.

Work with the clients you’d TRULY want to help, and everyone else can get stuffed.

Go to bed each night feeling fulfilled and knowing you made the impact you were supposed to, even though the house is a pigsty, your inbox could make a world leader leap, you haven’t attended to a personal task since last decade and you have no idea what’s happening in the world.

Achieve any goal or dream you truly set your mind to and decide to make happen yet forget to open your mail.

Enjoy great health, fitness and energy and take on the best of ’em in the gym but yet sink into a fugue-state of zombie like boredness if expected to chat to someone new at a dinner party.

Have cool and interesting friends who GET you and who themselves propel you to ever further heights because they are so. damn. awesome but guiltily fail to remember the last time you caught up with your growing up friends.

Fill your mind with the stuff of leaders, of true inspiration and change, devouring it hungrily day after day but unable to focus yourself enough to watch even half of a show on TV when it’s your ‘downtime’.

Make as much money as you choose to make, into the millions, the hundreds of millions, the hundreds of millions per year if you want, just because you can and because you made up your mind to.

Live with purpose.

Wake up with passion.

Move with flow.

Be in alignment.

Have exactly what you decide you want, how you want it, when and where you want it, in your business, your money, your personal life, and right down to the quality of the coffee that is delivered to you each day because you EXPECT THE BEST AND SO YOU GET IT.

And that’s what it’s really about, isn’t it, this being a total diva thing you’ve got going on.

[pq] You know you can live a life that most don’t even dare to dream of and so why the heck WOULDN’T YOU? [/pq]

No you don’t WANNA do small talk.

No you don’t WANNA have to turn and smile and answer even with one WORD when you’re in your zone.

No you don’t WANNA take time to learn about stuff the rest of the world deems important and worthy of an hour or two a day of serious focus.

No you don’t WANNA wait for retirement to live your bucket list dreams.

No you don’t WANNA stay in economy.

No you don’t WANNA follow a budget.

No you don’t want to do ANYTHING, anything at ALL except what you FEEL LIKE DOING AND ARE CALLED TO DO.

You think it sounds selfish? It is! It is INCREDIBLY selfish to turn your back on what the world expects of you, what even your loved ones consider appropriate, normal, RIGHT.

Just now, my husband walked into the coffee shop where I was working and had only BEEN working at for 20 minutes. We have a nanny come several times a week for a few hours so that we can do yoga or gym together, maybe lunch and so on. It’s great. What is NOT great is when I specifically ask to have the first hour of the day to myself for my writing and then I am interrupted 15 minutes in. How the hell am I supposed to work like that?

We have the whole freaking day to sit around having coffee and talking about our (admittedly awesome) travel plans.

I was pissed off, and to be honest, downright rude. He is now sitting at another table in the cafe.

I feel bad about this in the way that HE might have felt bad 3 years ago running his restaurant had I have come in and hopped up on the bench in the middle of him doing service for 100 hungry demanding Melbourne-ites.

Which is to say NOT THE FUCK AT ALL.

This is my WORK time.

This is my WRITING time.

This is when I GROW MY BUSINESS, make MONEY and when I DO THE THING I AM CALLED TO DO.

And that’s the thing, isn’t it?

We – yes even we! – understand the concept of ‘normal world’ working. It is NOT appropriate to walk into somebody’s office and just perch up on their desk, tap them on the shoulder, and want to have a nice old chat when they’re in the middle of a demanding project or conference all or whatever.

So when did it become appropriate or okay to interrupt US when we are in flow, just because we are entrepreneurs, artists, leaders who work in a certain way that much of the world doesn’t really see as work.

It’s not okay, and I won’t stand for it, not for me OR for you!

But this goes deeper. I’m having mini rant because my husband interrupted my writing and then the waitress wanted to have a nice good morning chat, so my blood is definitely boiling a little more than usual this morning

What it’s really about, of course, is the underlying TRUTH that we SHOULD – ALL of us – be able to have things completely on our terms in any and ALL situations.

From the little things like not having to smile and make small talk if we don’t feel like it, to the big things like saying no to the house, the mortgage, even the already successful business if it’s not how we want it.

Perhaps you are comfortable with the idea of turning your back on the smaller norms the world expects, the social niceties, the day to day little habits that could turn you more towards your business and dreams or more away from them.

Perhaps you DO create a bubble around you when you work so that you can enter into flow.

Perhaps you DO ignore home admin and mail so you can get the important stuff done.

Perhaps you DO ignore news, and boring magazines, and TV because you want to fill your mind with inspiring stuff.

But tell me –

How far do you take it, this being a diva and living life on your terms thing, and is it far enough?

Do you push fruitlessly onward (yet never upward!) with a business that is not quite right because you’re scared of doing what you really want to do?

Do you continue to teach and help people with stuff that bores the FUCK out of you that in fact makes you feel stressed and anxious because you think you’ll lose business if you don’t answer those questions?

Do you take money from people who deep down you can’t STAND because you’re scared that you’ll struggle even MORE if you become a diva about who you will and won’t work with?

Do you value your time?

Do you honour your worth?

Do you teach, or do you lead?

Are you you, or are you what you think you have to be?

Do you INSIST ON BEING THE LEADER, THE WOMAN, THE YOU WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE or are you okay with getting there- supposedly! – slowly, clawing your way to the destiny you THINK you might still reach, maybe, one day, if you just. keep. following the goddamn RULES you think you need to follow so that –

What?

You can finally one day do what you really want to do, say what you really think, ask for what you really want and also HAVE it?

You can do it, say it, ask for it and have it NOW! Don’t you see! YOU are what’s standing in your way!

I had a couple of clients at my recent live event mention that as children or young people, when they made up their minds to get something they ended up just GETTING it. Anything. Everything! Are children selfish, do they have diva like tendencies, do they insist on what they want and REFUSE to listen if they don’t get it? Yes, of course they do! Is it infuriating? Yes, definitely! Do they often GET what they want because they refuse to back the fuck down?

YES!

And we might get frustrated and roll our eyes and grit our teeth and want to scream at our children but we also laugh secretly at how insistent and stubborn they are and are quietly impressed at their grit and determination and just EXPECTATION that they should get to have their life on their terms.

Where is YOUR grit?

Where is YOUR determination?

When did you stop expecting the best for yourself and accept you have to follow the rules, be a good girl, do what’s expected of you, fit in, conform, be nice and have pretty hair to boot?

And do you really CARE if people get frustrated, roll their eyes at you, grit their teeth and sometimes want to SCREAM at you or just plain don’t GET you, think you’re selfish, arrogant, head in the clouds, a bitch because you CARE ENOUGH ABOUT LIVING YOUR PURPOSE and a live you love that you don’t care what people think of you.

What they say of you.

Or even to you.

Even if they’re the people you love.

This is YOUR life baby. YOUR opinion of your life and of yourself matters more than ANY other person’s opinion of you.

And when you make the small talk, when you stop yourself mid-flow, when you once again say yes to what other people are asking or expecting – oh so nicely! – of you then you also, like it or not, say NO to you.

NO, I won’t have that life I truly dream about, the life I am CALLED for, the life I know I was BORN for. It looks great, but that’s okay. I’m busy. People wouldn’t like that! I don’t want people to think I’m a diva.

So no thank you!

You have it.

Except they won’t, of course. Nobody else can live YOUR calling for you.

Only YOU can fill that role.

But that does NOT mean that you WILL.

There is a STRONG chance that you will not EVER become the leader, entrepreneur, woman who you were born to be unless you WAKE THE FUCK UP AND DO IT NOW.

Tough?

Yeah. Hate me if you like. If that allows you to hate yourself a little less for not following the path you know you could be following right NOW if only you had the balls to stand up.

Turn away from the world.

Square your shoulders.

Focus your gaze.

And ask for exactly what you want.

As much as you want.

How you want it.

And when.

And then go the fuck out and get it.

Life is Now baby! Time to Press Play.

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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