What My Latest Haters Have to Say!

Nothing like a great list clean out to get fired up in the morning!

(If you missed it, here’s what the ruckus was all about 🙂 https://www.facebook.com/lifeisnow.pressplay/posts/1088624934486361)

So kind of people to let me know … but truly, I am not here to be loved. Of course I love BEING loved … by those who I am here to speak to. But everyone else can fuck off. In the nicest possible way, MEANING: there is no benefit to them OR me in spending any time or energy together.

Know who you’re talking to.

Talk to them.

Fully.

And only.

Does it make me upset reading this sort of thing? I’ll be honest, a LITTLE bit. I hate thinking people think badly of me because there is still that awkward shy girl inside me who wants to be cool and liked and accepted and damn it I am a nice person and when people miss the point I feel an urge to explain to them how they DER missed the point and look I’m nice really really REALLY!

But here is what I have learned:

Not everyone will like me. No matter WHAT I do, whether I’m out there or not. Some will even hate me … even if I’m not this over the top ranty and forthright! And ultimately me trying to play it safe and ALLOW everyone to like me, even if it were possible, will not allow ME to share my true message.

So the thing is, when I write like I wrote in this post – https://www.facebook.com/lifeisnow.pressplay/posts/1088624934486361 – I know that those who I am here to lead will fucking LOVE it, get fired up, and step into THEIR power as a result.

AND THAT IS WHAT I’M HERE TO DO.

I am here to help women entrepreneurs who are natural born LEADERS to stand up and lead. To get their head and heart into alignment and their ass into ACTION.

And if I’m going to do that?

Then I need to actively talk TO those people.

Even if it means others hate me.

Judge me.

Think I’m just crude and rude and immature.

Or whatever!

If you’re going to lead –

And you have a calling –

And you know within your heart that there are truths about business, about life, about success, that are not being SAID and that somebody needs to speak the fucking truth and that if you don’t speak YOUR truth then who the hell WILL …

Well then be brave.

CHOOSE courage.

Choose to SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY.

And if people don’t like it?

Choose to be HAPPY that they fuck off. So you can spend more time on what matters. ON who matters. On who you are HERE for.

You can’t save the world honey.

You can’t have the world just LOVE you.

Nobody loves BORING.

Nobody loves SAFE.

Nobody loves please LIKE me.

But the people you were brought here to impact?

Are going to LOVE you and ultimately are going to be TRANSFORMED by you in the way you were brought here TO transform them …

But … only if you show up and do it.

So. Time to lead, leader! Start your revolution. AND LIVE IT!