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Success Mindset

When Will it Be ‘One Day’?

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When you don’t allow yourself to be who you’d really be “one day, when”, it’s like telling God or the Universe you don’t want any loving.

“No thanks!”, you’re saying –

“I’m not so sure I really deserve to live that life; the one where I get to create my art, play with my kids, lay on my back and stare at the clouds. The one where I get to just BE and to have fun doing so. I haven’t done what I need to do yet!”

But here’s the thing –

(And seriously, answer this)

Will you EVER have?

Can I tell you a secret? It’s one I’ve said before, many times. But maybe you missed it.

[pq] You’re going to die and your to-do list will still not be done. [/pq]

Do you get that?

And if you do, then go a bit further with this honesty thing and tell me –

What are you really striving for right now?

What are you pushing yourself for?

What are you quite literally, not to mention emotionally, giving your very LIFE for?

And is it more important than the stuff you’ll do “one day, when”?

Will you get to the end of this year and be so glad you gave your focus, your time, your emotion, your very ‘you’ to staying on top of your list (or trying to, ’cause let’s face it, you never really DO get on top of it!)

Will you be so damn glad you did that instead of taking time to create the art you want, to be silly and frivolous and really just BE there each day with your kids, to laugh and joke with your partner like you used to before your life became So Busy and Important, to lie still in a field or on the beach and just drift away into nothing-ness, to really have a crack at following your big life dreams even though it’s impossible to see how or if or when they might pay off and even though the ‘smart’ thing to do would be to use that time on Important Things That Must Be Done?

Will you?

If you’re squirming a little and thinking that no, actually, you don’t know that you will be happy to feel that you pressed pause all year on the life you really want, then you’ll forgive me for saying what I really want to say, which is this –

It’s not just this year that we’re talking about, is it?

It’s your LIFE baby.

And this, this right now, right here is the very essence of your life. This is a moment. You’re creating it. You’re living it. Are you happy with where it just went? Because it’s gone now, poof. It’s dead.

And your life, the stuff you look back on and think, hopefully, “WOW”, it’s just a collection of little moments. Everyone of them an ordinary little moment just like this one.

You don’t have a choice here, not really, do you?

If you want to live a life you love and go to bed each night truly feeling that you ‘pressed play’, you have to do it now. Life is now. Now now now now now! Not when you have time. Not when you’re ready. Not when the stars and moon are aligned and an angel floats down from heaven with a missive to tell you it’s time.

Now.

It’s all you’ve got honey.

So by all means, push on the things you want to push on. Make sacrifices. Do the work. Overcome your doubt and fear.

But for the love of God, make sure you’re doing that stuff for an endeavour that truly matters to you deep within.

And in the process of achieving your big dreams, make sure you don’t forget the everyday little dreams, because those are the ones you really never can get back.

The smiles and laughter with people you love.

The pauses between the busy-work, to just be, to enjoy life and maybe even contemplate a little.

Watching the sun rise, or set.

Having coffee and watching the world go by.

Creating special memories.

Trying new things, taking up those almost-forgotten hobby ideas just for FUN. Heaven forbid you should do something you don’t have to do, right?!

And if need be, disrupting your life in a bigger way.

Quitting the 9-5.

Walking out of the relationship; the friendship.

Letting other people down to let your own dreams rise up.

Maybe even shutting down your business in order to make space for the right one.

Doing what you need to do, to live that “one day, when” life right now.

Because the truth, whether you like it or not – and I hope that you do like it because it’s really quite thrilling, I think! – is that this right here IS your “one day, when”. And it’s time to start acting like you know that.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!