Success Mindset

YOU DESERVE A SOULMATE LIFE

It took me, I would say, the first 15 or 16 years of my adult life, to truly believe I was worthy of a life on my terms.

I know that might sound like a funny thing for me to say given what I teach and preach all day long, but hey – we always teach what we need to learn, right?

If you want to know the truth, I never ever remember questioning whether I was good enough to make it as a leader, a messenger, a visionary. Oh, I definitely went through the spirals – for years actually – of wondering HOW to do what I knew I was born to do, and yes even of questioning who would want to listen to me, and I definitely took my sweet time to actually start saying what I wanted to say in business, but deep down I KNEW:

I was born to make millions.
Impact millions.
Change the world.
And I was always GOING to.

So I guess what I’m talking about, as far as my own self worth shit, is more to do with my inherent worthiness as a PERSON, as a woman, as Kat. I grew up feeling not good enough, not cool enough, worried that people wouldn’t like me, worried even that my own friends might not really like me! I don’t know why … I don’t know whether this was passed on from my parents or just innate … I think it’s common with those of us who have one foot in and one foot out, of reality.

I never did really live in the real world after all, it was always the world inside my head that interested me. So I suppose on the one hand I was desperate to fit in, be accepted and cool, and on the other hand –

I just wanted to go hide under a bush in the playground and read my books and write in my journal.

Can I tell you a secret? A lot of the time I STILL just want to go hide under a bush, or behind a tree, or perhaps right here in a cafe with my head down and my headphones on and block out the WORLD, so I can read my books, write in my journal, write some more, step into CREATION, and let everything else –

Fade away.

Have you ever felt like even if you REALLY really tried and gave it your all, you just don’t have what it TAKES to fit in?

I have to tell you, not to spoil the ending here, but I think it’s important:

EMBRACE THAT SHIT.

Anyway. I believe that those of us who are called, as I am, as I dare say you are, if you follow me, we live two lives.

One foot in.
One foot out.

The real world, where we still want to BE like the other girls and boys, let’s be honest, in some ways! Whether it’s wanting to look or appear a certain way, wanting to be accepted, wanting to be able to at least have the OPTION to pretend we can act like that, dance like that, talk like that, be cool like that, be ENOUGH.

And then the world which, if we’re fully honest with ourselves, we were born for.

The world where everything around us is irrelevant.
Where space and time cease to exist.
Where we go WITHIN.
And where we let out.
Everything we were always here for.

I don’t know about you, but THAT world is the world I live for.

Purpose first, always, before EVERYTHING.

And sometimes I feel like every other role I have to play in my life is just something I must endure, for as little time as possible, so I can get back into that world.

And when I’m IN that world I am happy, I am free, I am doing what I’m meant to do, I am ME, but at the same time, the more time passes, I feel the anxiety at knowing that at some point?

I must return to the other world.
Exit flow.
Play the game.
Head up.
Smile.
Exist.
Stay in the lines.

At some point I guess I just started to go outside the lines though. Because the thing with the world we WANT to live in, the world of purpose and passion and flow and CREATING, is that it’s not a world where practical human needs can be met.

There is no food there.
There is no shelter there.
There is no sleep there.
There is no consideration there, for the norms of society, for what we are expected to do, for the creation of what most would consider a LIFE.

What there is, is your fucking SOUL being at peace, which REALLY, is EVERYTHING, but still:

At some point you do inevitably have to exit stage right, and go play with the humans.

Which honestly … is just exhausting, most of the time. Eventually … you learn that there are others like you though. Others who, just like you, masquerade when needed, as a normal person. Others who, just like you, can float on by APPEARING to be one of THEM but who, actually, live on that same other plane as you do.

Eventually you learn it’s ok, to play outside the lines, to be you, even in THIS world.

One foot in.
The whole freaking mind heart soul out.

When you FIND those others HOLD THE FUCK ONTO THEM.

Just a tip.

So yeah … I don’t know if it was really that I didn’t feel WORTHY, or if it was, at a deeper level, just that I knew none of it mattered, that I wasn’t born for that world and so why pretend?

Either way though, it caused me to manufacture a lot of pain for myself, and in some cases for those around me, as I fought to keep that one foot in the normal person world, be like the other girls, do it right, fit in.

It was never going to work ANYWAY, I see that now.
I want to let you know that if you’re trying to keep your human world foot firmly planted, be like the others, do it right, fit in, YOU ARE GOING TO FAIL.

Do it fast.
Do it now.
INSIST on a soulmate life.

For me how it mostly manifested, has always been in my relationships.
One foot in, one foot out, doesn’t work so well, when it comes to relationships.

The crazy thing is, most of the time, I FELT like it was me who wanted to be all in, be loved, be accepted, please like me, say I matter, say I count!

Now I see …

The thing I was really lacking all that time was aligning myself to who I really WAS. I thought what I needed was for everybody else to love me, but all I actually needed was to love myself and ACCEPT what I came here to DO and ACCEPT that I was NEVER GOING TO FIT IN and ACCEPT that actually there are others like me where I WOULD fit in … so long as we can all back the fuck off from each other enough to let ourselves create, which of COURSE we can because we don’t LIVE IN THE NORMAL WORLD!

But it took me so long to realise this.
It took me, perhaps, until this very moment right now, or perhaps I’ll never really realise and I’ll always be one foot in.
One foot out.

You too, maybe.
I do actually think that those of us who are called this way, that one of the ‘curses’ that comes with our blessings is, we are born to wander and our souls will never rest.
I do actually think that even though this SOUNDS on the surface to be a tiring thing, it’s actually another blessing after all.

Keep on wandering.
Keep on seeking.
Keep on creating.
STAY FREE.

But for so long I really did try to play in the real world, the world THEY think is real. I wanted SO BADLY to be loved, so I turned to wherever I felt any hint of something that might BE love, because deep down I was terrified that me just being me would never be enough.

Who would WANT me, in all my madness, with my head so far in the clouds and my feet mostly trying to float away?

Plant your feet, Kat! Be like the other girls. Smile, laugh, fit in, and if somebody shows you any interest BE CAREFUL NOT TO ROCK THE BOAT!

I’m making it sound worse than it was, maybe. I think that the relationships and friendships I’ve had have been, mostly, 99% right and real.

But what do I say to you every day?
99% in.
Is 100% fucking out.

YOU DESERVE A SOULMATE LIFE. No, not soulmate LOVE, although YES, of course. But I’m talking about every.single.part. of your LIFE.

Because here is the thing that it took me ALL those years to figure out, and which maybe I’m still not clear on:

The reason you can’t keep that foot down in the ‘real’ world is that you WEREN’T SUPPOSED TO EVER BE PART OF IT ANYWAY.

YES you can play the game, when needed.
YES you can act the part.
But YES, you MUST first and foremost respond to what’s inside of you.

PURPOSE FIRST, ALWAYS.

So when you find yourself –
Worrying about not fitting in.
Struggling because you don’t feel accepted.
CAVING, because you wanted to feel normal, for a moment, prove on some level that you can BE LIKE THE OTHERS, that you are worthy, that you can be loved, enough.

REMEMBER:

THAT’S NOT THE VALIDATION YOU’RE ACTUALLY LOOKING FOR.

Because REALLY, what this is all about, REALLY, the big point I’m trying to make?

The stuff you feel inside of you is real.
You, plain and simple, WERE born for more.
And your mission is NOT FOR THIS WORLD.

When you give yourself permission –
To be who you actually are –
And to stop desperately needing the critical acclaim of the NORMAL people –

You’ll find that you were always ALWAYS worthy and that all you had to do? Was what you thought you needed the rest of them to do.

Accept who you are.
EMBRACE THE MADNESS.
HUNT DOWN and hold onto the other crazy ones.
And NEVER stop wandering or dreaming, going where the flow takes you and FUCK THE WORLD.
You deserve a soulmate LIFE gorgeous.
Do whatever is fucking necessary to get it.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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