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Success Mindset

THIS IS HOW TO UNCOVER YOUR PURPOSE

Here is the simplest way I’ve found to discover what your true purpose is, the work you were born to do in the world which will ultimately also make you the most MONEY.

It’s the thing you do to escape INTO you.

Escaping into you is not EVER to be confused with escaping OUT of you, although EITHER ONE WILL SEEM TO DO THE JOB IN THE SHORT-TERM.

The JOB being:

Release.

Coming down.

Detoxifying LIFE.

Releasing the madness or the overwhelm or the fear or the hyped up energy or the I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO SO I’LL DO THIS.

I can release THAT shit by escaping outside of myself with binge eating. DID do, for years! CAN do, still, on occasion. No longer NEED to do, when instead I’m operating from alignment and choose to give myself what I ACTUALLY need as an escape, which is to escape within.

Needless to say, binge eating is not my purpose even though it provides a RELEASE, a coming down, a detoxification. Bingeing of any kind / sabotage / mindless TOXICITY; that shit ain’t your purpose. But I bet that if you’re not LIVING your purpose and basing your life, business, income, everything around it then you WILL frequently escape outside of yourself, with whatever your go-to sabotage IS.

Yes?

Yes.

The way that you know what your REAL thing is, the thing to escape INTO, is that when you’re doing it you get the release, the come down, the detoxification, and overwhelm is GONE, but you also get one other CRITICAL component:

You get back to YOU.

You step into FLOW.

You are ALIGNED.

And the world, once again, makes sense, if even for that breath, that moment, that blink of an eye, and all of a SUDDEN –

The need to escape away, to run and hide or to stuff it down, drink it down, scream it away –

Disappears.

You know you’re on purpose when you no longer NEED those crutch-activities. You know you’re OFF purpose when you find yourself trapped by them, once more.

Eating mindlessly.

Drinking furiously.

NUMBING yourself.

Deliberately causing situations of tension, stress, upset.

Etcetera.

The thing with being on purpose is, the stuff that THAT stuff provides a band-aid solution to, is taken CARE of.

You can BREATHE.

So you don’t need to IMPLODE or EXPLODE.

You are BEING WHO YOU ARE BORN TO BE, when you do your purpose work.

And even though, as you NOW do it, you may not have the money results or the fame results or the dream freaking life results, but yet somehow you just know:

It’s all going to be fucking amazing.

How do you know what the work of your purpose is?

Plain and simple, it’s the work you can’t NOT do, when you’re being honest enough with yourself to give yourself PERMISSION to need what you need, and maybe even to believe you’re allowed to do that, it’s okay, and it could even lead somewhere.

When you don’t DO that work, you shrink. You tighten. You run SCARED. And also:

You fucking know.

You KNOW what you NEED to do, and yet you resist, avoid, try and hide. With food, with drink, with mindless bullshit, with the mundane everyday STUFF that people give their lives for.

Telling yourself:

I can’t do that.

I shouldn’t.

It’s not right.

I have ALL THIS OTHER STUFF TO DO.

Of course really the record you’re playing is that YOU can’t.

I can’t be a _________ –

What?

WHAT can’t you be?!

That’s your thing, maybe.

Definitely.

I can’t just spend my time __________ !

WHY?

Why can’t you?

I can tell you that whatever you’re ending that sentence with is EXACTLY WHAT YOU SHOULD BE SPENDING YOUR FUCKING TIME ON.

I can’t just do _______, not ME! Who would want to _______ !

WHAT?

FINISH THE FUCKING SENTENCE!!

The sentence is your LIFE honey, don’t you see? The thing you tell yourself doesn’t matter, or is a waste of time, or you shouldn’t INDULGE in, or nobody wants YOU to do, or you’re not even that GOOD at, or it’s just silly that you even WANT to, THAT IS THE THING.

Don’t you see?

It’s the fucking THING.

It was always the thing.

Every day.

Since forever.

There’s such a simple way to uncover your purpose, the thing that will allow you to get rich, impact millions, live your LEGACY, and maybe even change the world.

Don’t you SEE yet?

It’s what you can’t not.

It’s what you can’t not.

It’s what you can’t NOT.

Tonight I was tempted to go back to my hotel after a long and stressful day. GOOD stress, doing an incredible HOLLYWOOD photo-shoot. The day started off a little uncertain – questioning whether I should look SO glamorous! But it ended a good day, a great day, an EMPOWERING day!

A day also, that hyped me up, and caused me to need to RELEASE.

I wandered the streets –

Bought some hot new jeans –

Took a call –

And all I could think was I need to ESCAPE. Just that quick release, to get my mind back to CALM. I can’t FOCUS if I’m hyped up, I certainly can’t do anything that constitutes action-taking in a catch-up or busywork or even SALES sense in my business.

I need to release.

I walked back towards my hotel.

Thought about the contents of the mini-bar, thought about the idea of laying back on the bed and eating ALL THE THINGS, fast, until I got my RELEASE.

Thought then about how I’d feel after that.

Turned instead left not right.

Came here, ordered the scallops, and the octopus, and the oysters, and the grilled romaine with bacon, and the wine.

And I did the thing I need to do, REALLY, to escape into ME.

And here we are.

Sometimes people think I write so much because that’s the magic fucking formula to success or personal branding, that writing 2000+ word blog posts multiple times per day is what MESSAGING means.

The writing was NEVER about you, or anybody else, don’t you see?

It was always for me.

The fact that I finally gave myself permission to do it, to tune in, to escape within, to live my purpose and to do it from a place of COMPLETELY UNFILTERED authenticity not only was in the end NON-NEGOTIABLE for ME to actually be able to BREATHE, in my LIFE, but it was also –

Oddly –

Yet inevitably –

The thing that made me rich.

Gained me a following.

And helped me to change the fucking world.

The thing you need to do is the thing you’re meant to do.

The thing you’re meant to do is the thing that will make you your money –

Gain you your tribe –

Get you ALL the way famous

And help you live your fucking dream.

Do this thing first.

Do NOTHING else before hand.

LET THIS THING GUIDE THE WAY.

Stop escaping with the wrong fucking thing baby.

And tune back into you.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!