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Success Mindset

You’re So Boring (and why my accountant called me conceited)

I know there’s so much more to you than what you’re showing the world.

You, with your multi-passion, multi-crazy, multi-personality approach to how you live your own life, what matters, what you invest time and money and energy and emotion into.

You, with your big big crazy dreams and your willingness to do what so many won’t so you can live a life they can’t.

You, who has sacrificed so much, fought so hard, GIVEN so much of your own soul.

You, with your boring little online persona where you try and be a business coach or a health coach or a relationship guru or a transformation coach (whatever the fuck that is!).

You, who is trying to package and position and fucking NICHE yourself into a BOX so you can say to the world ‘look, this is who I am, I do this, here’s my elevator spiel and here’s how I can help you, so hey! Buy this training because I can show you how to DO STUFF!’.

You, who is wondering why despite so much effort, despite so much care, despite truly GIVING IT A FUCKING CRACK, you’re still not there.

Not making the money you want.

Not making the difference you’re called to.

Just not feeling as though you’re really OUT there and doing this whole thing in the way you were born to.

You feel it, don’t you?

Even when stuff is selling, even when people are thanking you, even when something ‘works’, you feel it.

That … niggle.

That sense that something is lacking.

That sense that you’re MISSING something.

I can tell you what that feeling is, you know.

It’s the feeling of playing a game with limits when you were born to be limitless.

It’s the feeling of playing small.

It’s the feeling of playing safe.

It’s the feeling of being so.

fucking.

boring.

You could honestly just fall asleep right here on the table at times when you think about your own stuff and how SURFACE it still is.

So let me ask you a question, you with the big dreams and the so many facets to what makes you tick, and the rich rich background of all you’ve done, learned, given to get to where you are now –

Why do you do it?

Why do you box yourself in and try to be a coach, a guru, a trainer when what you are is, quite simply, a you?

Why don’t you just be you?

Why don’t you just build the WHOLE FUCKING THING around being you?

With your multiple-passion, multiple-crazy, multiple-personality madness.

Why not just make money by showing up every day and being YOU and sharing with the world who you are as a WHOLE ENTIRE PERSON not just what you fucking KNOW about business, or life, or health, or what the fuck ever that nobody actually cares about, not really, because even when people think they need information to learn something what they really WANT is transformation and to believe that they can live a life where all their dreams come true.

Where ALL of what is on their heart and all of what they care about MATTERS.

Decision time though.

Because maybe, you don’t want the business to be you.

Maybe you want to be known as the very best provider of ‘X’ type of how-to training, and you want to build a leveraged and automated income machine around providing this training and its derivations, and sit back and watch the money flow in because you BUILT A SYSTEM.

Now this, this is FINE. This is a way that you CAN make money online. You need to understand how to build the system of course. You need to have a great product that mets people’s desires. You need to have great lead gen and marketing and sales processes in place. And then you need to work the system, test the system, refine the system, and watch the system ultimately work for you.

Nothing wrong with that.

It’s one approach to business and hell yeah it can work if, like anything, you’re willing to make it work.

But let me ask you a question –

When I called you boring, did you agree and DO YOU WANT TO BE MORE?

If the answer is no, if you’re like ‘whatever’, I just want to get more units sold and increase my sales page conversions so I can make my almost passive income and then kick back with my squillions, then cool.

Go build a system.

But if you FELT it, within you –

If you felt that slightly desperate feeling of YES, I’m NOT putting myself out there in the way I really want to, I’m not telling people what they need to hear, I’m not giving ALL of me, I want to go bigger, I want to do more, be more, I want it to be about ALL OF ME and what I stand for, well then honey the SYSTEM approach, while it may well end up being part of your business is not going to work AS THE BUSINESS.

This also means that trying to NICHE?

Is just never really going to fit for you.

Fuck niching!

And trying to put yourself in an industry, a category, a box?

That shit ain’t never going to fit.

My accountant asked me last week, while going over my taxes with me, what my industry is.

“I am the industry”, I said, without even thinking about it. We both laughed and he called me conceited but also it’s TRUE. Nobody else is doing what I’m doing! Nobody else can come close! NOBODY ELSE CAN TOUCH ME BEING ME!

But for that to actually work and really MEAN something I have to actually BE ME.

Not a business coach.

Not even a leader of revolutionary fucking leaders.

Just – me.

And me, well I have multiple MULTIPLE passions, multiple levels of crazy and no doubt multiple weird-ass personalities as well.

AND YOU’RE GONNA HEAR FROM ALL OF THEM.

As with all my posts, when I started writing this to you today and called you out on being boring, I was also talking to me.

I feel ready to step the fuck up with a whole new level of awesome.

I want to open up the conversation amongst women of what it REALLY takes to have it all.

I want to be compassionate and loving, sure, but ultimately I want to call you on ALL of your shit because THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED.

So we’ll talk business, sure.

We’ll talk making money on your terms.

We’ll talk SUCCESS.

But we’ll also talk about what’s going on with your health, why you binge eat or don’t exercise or treat yourself like shit.

We’ll talk about your relationships and why you put up with such BS, why you dole it out perhaps as well.

We’ll talk about your DREAMS baby and what you actually commit to having in ALL of your life.

And I’ll share my ‘stuff’ in each of these areas as well.

Because me, I wasn’t born for a niche baby.

I wasn’t born to be your ‘trainer’.

And I just don’t ENJOY trying to fit into a box, even though the one I’ve created is a pretty big fucking box with lots of room to move around and do crazy shit.

But it’s time to blow the lid off of things.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!