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5 Ways to Get Over Your BS and Start Being True to Yourself

It’s do or die gorgeous and the big hand on the clock? It’s pointing at now.

We are 5 weeks away from Christmas, which is freaking awesome (sun! holidays! fun!) but also freaking scary, right?

As with every year, it seems only the blink of an eye ago that you were planning out your awesome 2013 and telling yourself that this would be your best year ever.

And perhaps it was. I’m sure that there are so many things you can look back on from this year with pride and a well-earned sense of accomplishment. And you totally should celebrate and reward that stuff, especially as the year draws to an end – there’s no better time to do so, after all.

But also – there’s no better time really for a ‘sent with love and respect’ well-placed kick up the butt when it comes to becoming even MORE aligned with who you want to be, and how you want to live your life. And I’m more than happy to be the one giving you that push – I know I’m grateful to those who push ME and so I just wanna send on the love!

So. Let’s talk then, hmm? Let’s talk brutally fabulously honestly about what you DO want and WHY you’re not there yet. And let’s talk specifically about HOW you can get over all those excuses and reasons-you-haven’t-yet-done-what-you-swore-you-would-do and how you can finally start being completely true to yourself. After all – life is now, right?! Let’s press play – today!

1. Stop Pretending You’re Okay With Being Okay

It’s awesome to feel ‘good’ about your life and where you are at, how you’re progressing in your biz and other areas.

But are you really playing this game for a life of ‘good’ or ‘okay’? Or are you after freaking awesome? The truth is you CAN wake up every day feeling motivated, inspired and absolutely thrilled that you get to live YOUR life. And if that’s not the way you wake up right now? I have to say you’re missing out on something you definitely should and could have!

So get real about what you want beautiful – don’t build a business based on what you think would best sell, or based on what others are doing. And don’t build a life based on anything but exactly what your heart most desires. You’re going to put the effort in day after day anyway, right? So jump off that ledge and put it into something that MATTERS to you. You deserve nothing but your very best and if you don’t have it? You’re BSing yourself.

2. Procrastination is Your Saviour: Pay Attention to It!

I have something on my list at the moment that I’ve literally had on there for most of this year. I’m talking I’ve seen it every single day because every single day I do NOT do it and so I move it to the next day! It’s definitely something that would make me money, that’s the crazy thing! Or is it …?

You see, I have a theory about procrastination. It’s a survival mechanism – an inbuilt way of stopping you do stuff you’re not meant to be doing. The long and the short of it is that there is a lot of stuff you COULD do and that would certainly improve your finances/body/relationship/living environment/business etc, but just because you could and even just because it seems a smart thing to do? Doesn’t mean you have to and nor does it mean it IS. Smart, that is.

What do you really want to spend your time on? Don’t you believe within your heart of hearts that success can be yours ON YOUR TERMS? So why try to reach it any other way then, hmmm? I’m crossing that annoying task off my list NOW – I suggest you do the same with one of your niggling ‘should dos’. And comment below when you do!

3. One Day Never Comes – Unless You Make It

It’s very very simple gorgeous. ‘One day’ is today. There is no future. Absorb that knowledge and then freaking well do something about it no matter what your go-to excuse! Speaking of which –

4. Stop BSing Yourself About Why You Can’t

Here’s the thing.

Either your goal is more important, your DREAM is what matters most … or you prefer to give your power and potentially your entire life away to a bevvy of excuses. You can say whatever you like, but no matter WHAT the reason, if it stops you from doing what you really want to do and from being TRUE to the you who you KNOW you really are?

Then your excuse and your comfort zone matter more than your dream. Don’t be that person, please. Please!

5. You Can’t Figure it Out by Trying to Figure It Out

I LOVE to journal and brainstorm. I’m a thinking kind of gal, and if you’re a big dreamer like me then you probably can relate. But really – there’s only so much of your life you can live in your mind, yeah? And at the end of the day you cannot figure it out by trying to figure it out. At some point you gotta get out there and DO it, and figure it out as you go.

Comment below! What is ONE thing you’re going to stop BSing about, being scared to do, trying to figure out and JUST START DOING-  TODAY?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

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Let’s talk about them. Breathe them in. ALLOW them in. And then dial them TF in.

Are you ready?

There are certain ways of being, of operating, of thinking, and perhaps most in particular of expecting which are currently dictating your outcomes in every area of life.

You are, quite literally, coded. Programmed. Running on a frequency of … X.

With X being, well – whatever you see around you most days. Whatever you experience. Feel. Know to be true. Receive and hold onto. Receive and do not hold on to. Or do not receive at all.

There are certain things in your life which right now you can click your fingers and command to replicate, on repeat, and they do.

And there are other things which SHOULD be in your life, which you yearn to have in your life, which sometimes you get a glimpse or a taste of or even an entire mouthful, and then they’re gone, into the night, maybe never to return again, shrouded in mystery and frustration but yet at the same time that deeper part of you knows –

it’s not supposed to be like this.

It shouldn’t be.

I don’t accept it!

And I WILL move past.

You look into the future you see inside of you and you know that it is ALL real, ALL available, ALL true, ALL there for the taking. A virtual sushi train of wondrous life options, every one of ’em just a choice you can pluck off as it rolls on by! Don’t see what you want, not exactly? All you gotta do is ASK, and it’ll be freshly made for you!

Your belief around the impossible is OFF THE CHARTS.

And it always has been.

Your PROOF, of CREATING and ALLOWING the impossible is also pretty darn off the charts, if you do say so yourself. Which you don’t have to, because others do it for you!

It’s ALWAYS been this way for you, you’ve ALWAYS been able to dance between realities and choose the one you wanna keep.

But yet –

it feels, so much of the time, as though you’re teetering.

Teetering on the edge of will I / won’t I let myself FULLY go and receive, create, allow, BE –

or will I fall back into normal, into rules, into worries, into shoulds, into the dreaded dreaded fear that it’ll somehow all just stop working and I’ll find out there was never anything special about me at all, never anything wondrous about what I could do, and that I just somehow … fluked things for a bit.

Sometimes you’re CERTAIN which way you’re going to topple.

And other times you’re terrified you have no idea at all, and if you did you wouldn’t want to know.

But what you do know is this:

When things are working.

When things are flowing to and through and from you in the precise ways they should be.

When things are OH so yes.

When it’s all just coming together, the different areas of your business your money your life and YOU just rolling PERFECTLY, like a beautiful and impossible to replicate orchestra, pure MAGIC –

it’s not because of what you did.

It is not because of how you planned, followed the plan, did it right.

It’s not a list you ticked off that made it that you got to then GET.

It’s not because you followed RULES for success.

Or really anything at all.

It’s because you were playing life on a certain frequency. You were tapped in, dialled in, LEANING all the way in to something you can’t even fully describe but you KNOW when you’re in it.

You were, not to be too corny or cliche about it but we’ll say it anyway ’cause it’s true – one with life itself. Dancing the most beautiful dance of BEING FULLY YOU with the wind beneath your wings nothing other than God and truth and the very fabric of the universe, what else could it be?!

Put simply:

you had those Success Frequencies switched on to high AF, and you were using ’em.

Want to know how to do that more, in fact any time you choose, in fact with complete calm understanding of what it is you ARE doing and how to tap in and BE in that energy, that place, that receiving, at will?

It’s always been available.

It’s ALWAYS been right there for the taking.

EVERYTHING you’ve suspected this whole time is true.

And now?
We’re gonna get you understanding it (every last bit).

Living it (as naturally as breathing).

And UTILISING it to let life unwind to the places you’ve been waiting to be (the way it’s meant for you).

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Here’s what it comes down to:

You’ve always known that the work is about so much more than the work. AND YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. There’s not a single extra second you will one day be relieved you waited to go all in on that.

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