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5 Ways to Get Over Your BS and Start Being True to Yourself

It’s do or die gorgeous and the big hand on the clock? It’s pointing at now.

We are 5 weeks away from Christmas, which is freaking awesome (sun! holidays! fun!) but also freaking scary, right?

As with every year, it seems only the blink of an eye ago that you were planning out your awesome 2013 and telling yourself that this would be your best year ever.

And perhaps it was. I’m sure that there are so many things you can look back on from this year with pride and a well-earned sense of accomplishment. And you totally should celebrate and reward that stuff, especially as the year draws to an end – there’s no better time to do so, after all.

But also – there’s no better time really for a ‘sent with love and respect’ well-placed kick up the butt when it comes to becoming even MORE aligned with who you want to be, and how you want to live your life. And I’m more than happy to be the one giving you that push – I know I’m grateful to those who push ME and so I just wanna send on the love!

So. Let’s talk then, hmm? Let’s talk brutally fabulously honestly about what you DO want and WHY you’re not there yet. And let’s talk specifically about HOW you can get over all those excuses and reasons-you-haven’t-yet-done-what-you-swore-you-would-do and how you can finally start being completely true to yourself. After all – life is now, right?! Let’s press play – today!

1. Stop Pretending You’re Okay With Being Okay

It’s awesome to feel ‘good’ about your life and where you are at, how you’re progressing in your biz and other areas.

But are you really playing this game for a life of ‘good’ or ‘okay’? Or are you after freaking awesome? The truth is you CAN wake up every day feeling motivated, inspired and absolutely thrilled that you get to live YOUR life. And if that’s not the way you wake up right now? I have to say you’re missing out on something you definitely should and could have!

So get real about what you want beautiful – don’t build a business based on what you think would best sell, or based on what others are doing. And don’t build a life based on anything but exactly what your heart most desires. You’re going to put the effort in day after day anyway, right? So jump off that ledge and put it into something that MATTERS to you. You deserve nothing but your very best and if you don’t have it? You’re BSing yourself.

2. Procrastination is Your Saviour: Pay Attention to It!

I have something on my list at the moment that I’ve literally had on there for most of this year. I’m talking I’ve seen it every single day because every single day I do NOT do it and so I move it to the next day! It’s definitely something that would make me money, that’s the crazy thing! Or is it …?

You see, I have a theory about procrastination. It’s a survival mechanism – an inbuilt way of stopping you do stuff you’re not meant to be doing. The long and the short of it is that there is a lot of stuff you COULD do and that would certainly improve your finances/body/relationship/living environment/business etc, but just because you could and even just because it seems a smart thing to do? Doesn’t mean you have to and nor does it mean it IS. Smart, that is.

What do you really want to spend your time on? Don’t you believe within your heart of hearts that success can be yours ON YOUR TERMS? So why try to reach it any other way then, hmmm? I’m crossing that annoying task off my list NOW – I suggest you do the same with one of your niggling ‘should dos’. And comment below when you do!

3. One Day Never Comes – Unless You Make It

It’s very very simple gorgeous. ‘One day’ is today. There is no future. Absorb that knowledge and then freaking well do something about it no matter what your go-to excuse! Speaking of which –

4. Stop BSing Yourself About Why You Can’t

Here’s the thing.

Either your goal is more important, your DREAM is what matters most … or you prefer to give your power and potentially your entire life away to a bevvy of excuses. You can say whatever you like, but no matter WHAT the reason, if it stops you from doing what you really want to do and from being TRUE to the you who you KNOW you really are?

Then your excuse and your comfort zone matter more than your dream. Don’t be that person, please. Please!

5. You Can’t Figure it Out by Trying to Figure It Out

I LOVE to journal and brainstorm. I’m a thinking kind of gal, and if you’re a big dreamer like me then you probably can relate. But really – there’s only so much of your life you can live in your mind, yeah? And at the end of the day you cannot figure it out by trying to figure it out. At some point you gotta get out there and DO it, and figure it out as you go.

Comment below! What is ONE thing you’re going to stop BSing about, being scared to do, trying to figure out and JUST START DOING-  TODAY?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

PS

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I so deeply believe and know that women (and men!) like us – we just CAN’T do it in the normal way. We’re never going to fit in the Internet Marketer box. We don’t want to fit in the box! And even if we could fit in the damn box we’d blow that shit up! It’d be messy AF … and often IS.

It’s just not going to get us the results we want, because for those who are so soul-led, like you, like me, and have that whole crrrrrraazzzzzy creator thang going on (with a hefty dose of chaos!)

We gotta do it a different way.

BUT.

Being that person, the crazy creator soul-led one, can all too commonly result in work, yep, the actual ASSKICKIN’ work that needs to be done for YOUR empire to be created to, well –

Not get done.

The crazy ones have a tendency, from time to time, to get so caught up in ‘I gotta FEEL it’, that they don’t necessarily ground, plant, DECIDE, and make shit happen.

You may have noticed 😉

Maybe because there’s fear there of having to conform! And knowing from experience or just ’cause you KNOW, that you’re not going to, you won’t follow their rules, and so why even try.

Yet at the same time you know:

I have to lay myself on the line.

It’s time to back myself, but FULLY.

I gotta dig my damn heels in and DO the darn thing now!

This? This is what Rich Hot Empire, and the work I do with you as a private client in this 6 week time together, is all about. It’s a time to really get into the structure and strategy in a DIFFERENT kind of way. To go behind the scenes of how I’ve done it, to build a multiple 7-fig per year biz which breaks all the rules, lets me be me, and yet is also highly structured … without at all feeling that way!

It’s a pretty cool thing, to realise you figured out how to unleash ALL your madness, but fully, and NEVER compromise on what feels fuck yes and fly for you, and yet know you got your biz shiz sorted!

Guess what??

You get to have that too.

In Rich Hot Empire I take you fully behind the scenes of how I do this thing, and I help you to craft and also implement and FULLY action all the ins and outs YOU need to grow your soulmate tribe, and activate low right through to high end income streams, so you too can create the empire you dream of, FULLY ON YOUR TERMS.

You do this in a mastermind with my other private 1:1 clients, and you get to keep all content, all BTS of my biz, all templates, ‘how we dos’ (all based on being the crazy creator type), you name it, it’s all right there for you for life, showing you exactly what to set up, and how! I’ll give you a detailed rundown of that 6 weeks when you message me.

AND! Alongside the mastermind you’re simultaneously doing 6 weeks 1:1 with me. All in. You and me. Completely tailored. Daily conversation flow. Alignment and asskickery to infinity, baby.

We dig ALL the way in to your belief stuff, mindset stuff, energetic alignment and ability to receive, everything INTERNAL that is stopping you from already being where you know you should and could, and what to do about it.

Rich Hot Empire gets such incredible results for people because it marries these two areas together. Full alignment to that next level identity you KNOW is waiting for you –

And full asskickery to do what you know you gotta do, with me right there by your side showing you how to do that, how to find the exact way that feels good and works for YOU.

Ready to dig those damn heels in sister, but for real this time??

Message me for the full overview. Do it now. You don’t need another fucking person who will NEVER think like you telling you how to do shit you’d rather fork your own eyeballs than do. Even if it’s your own fear mind haha. You need someone who has done it for real from crazy. From madness. From flow. From SOUL. And can show you how to go all in on yours.

It’s motherfreakin’ time.

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