Can We Just Talk About How to Make it Simple?

May 13, 2015

The hardest battle you will have to face, in your online business, after whether or not you can move forward and have what you really want, is the battle inside your head as to whether or not you can move forward and have what you really want.

Spoiler alert:

You can.

The catch:

It very well might eat you alive first.

The requirement:

YOU NEED TO LET IT.

What they don’t tell you:

Therein, lies your joy, fulfilment, EXPLOSIVE fame and fortune, and ultimately the TRUE freedom and choice you so desperately crave and DESERVE.

Can we just talk about how to make it simple gorgeous?

I feel as though lately in the conversations I’ve with y’all the tide is really turning. Perhaps this is because, finally and FULLY, I can say I’ve deliberately and directly cultivated a tribe of true visionary, revolutionary, want it all and know they can HAVE it all kickass women leaders.

Women who know, deep down at their core, that they are here for a reason. That they have a calling. That they were born to MAKE millions, and to impact millions.

It sounds all very well and exciting! When you’re in the moment and dreaming bigger and big, and writing inspired thoughts in your journal or perhaps on a blog; shouting it to the world!

But the truth is that with great knowledge about what you are capable of comes great responsibility. And at times, it weighs very heavily. Often what happens as a result of this is that we turn away from the TRUTH we have within us as to what we really need to face up to, and who we actually need to be, in order to create the success, no scratch that the LIFE, that we were born for.

So we go looking for systems, and solutions, and ‘what to do’ and ‘how to do it’ in the world of online marketing and ‘making it’ online, and we tell ourselves surely the problem is we’re MISSING something in what we’re putting out there, and surely we’re just not yet DOING it right.

Well yes. Both statements are very true! But not in the way one would first think. And deep down, we know that.

Deep down we know it’s not about whether you launch this way or that.

Or whether your sales page has this one it, or doesn’t.

It’s not about whether your Facebook Ads are working.

It’s not about how you ‘network’.

It sure as hell ain’t about how pretty your website looks!

And it’s not even about how often you email!

Can we just talk about how to make it simple lovely?

I’m noticing a shift lately. Like I said, perhaps due to the fact that I’m drawing in the true leaders. Heading a revolution. And here’s what I’m noticing:

You’re realising.

You’re waking up.

You’re tuning in.

You’re reminding and inspiring ME, also, and I thank you deeply for that. Sometimes I too get caught up in the detail of it all and what I ‘should’ be doing!

You’re being HONEST, finally. REALLY REALLY honest. About what you know you were born for, about who you are at your core, about what you want and about how you intend to see it happen. Honest with me, sure, but honest with you, FIRSTLY.

I am seeing some POWERFUL shit going out there lately. A LOT of it in my own inner circle, The Society. Mind-blowingly intense power and honesty. But I’m also seeing it more broadly, in my other groups, and around.

THINGS ARE CHANGING.

Can we just talk about making it simple?

A year or two ago, it was all about the rules.

Lead gen.

Marketing.

Branding.

Sales.

How to sell, what to sell, how to get people to see what you sell, how to sell them more of it.

Gotta crunch those numbers baby! It’s all about the numbers!

Can we just talk about making it simple my love?

IT’S NOT ABOUT THE NUMBERS.

IT’S NOT ABOUT THE SALES PAGE.

IT’S NOT ABOUT YOUR GOD DAMN PROCESS! Even though yes, I get it, it’s reassuring and helpful and even wonderful at times, to have a process!

And now, I see you coming to me, and you come with your questions and for feedback, and at first the conversation is around the usual –

What should I do in my launch?

Can you give me feedback on my sales page?

What do you think of my emails?

What else should I do?

But I’m seeing a shift beyond these questions, and I’m so grateful for it because it is the shift that will CHANGE OUR WORLD.

It is the shift that is seeing women – natural born kickass LEADER women – shrug off the self-imposed RESTRICTIVE shroud of being a teacher or a straight up ‘coach’ and instead embrace the role of being a truly transformative LEADER, which is to say embrace the role of being WHO THEY ARE AND HOW THEY WERE BORN TO BE.

And I’m so grateful to you for allowing me to be so honest with you.

To call you out, on the lies you tell yourself.

To help you get your head back in the game, back into your SOUL, to gently – okay sometimes roughly! – strip the layers off you so you can see what it’s REALLY about, what you actually need to DO to get the outcomes you want, what the true PROCESS looks like.

And it ain’t about the numbers, or the steps.

Can we just talk about how to make it SIMPLE lovely?

Making money, is simple, when you’re being who you really are, saying what you truly think, standing for what you actually CARE about and giving the world what you know it NEEDS and ultimately what you were brought to GIVE.

Another way of saying it:

Making money. Creating fame. Reaching true FREEDOM, is so very SIMPLE when you say a big fuck you to ANY of the rules of how it should be or what it means to be an entrepreneur and you just show up and do YOU, awesomely and from the heart.