Be Outrageously, Over the Top, AWESOMELY, You!
Success/Success Mindset

Be Outrageously, Over the Top, AWESOMELY, You!

Do you ever feel as though you’re just holding back how damn awesome you actually ARE and if the world really GOT it they’d fall at your feet and just beg you to keep talking and creating for them?

It’s okay … you can admit how highly you think of yourself and the POWER of what you have to share with the world!

God knows I won’t judge you for it!

Because here’s the truth:
I think I’m pretty damn awesome.

I think I have a LOT of really important stuff to say.

I think my message is not only fucking POWERFUL but that it is ESSENTIAL for anyone who actually gives a fuck about living life like they mean it!

I KNOW I can help you, if you are indeed someone who gives a fuck and is willing to do the work accordingly. I know I can get your head into PURE alignment and I know I can kick your ass like it’s never been kicked before, so you not only get your mind back in the game it was born for but so that you can your every cell of YOU back into the action REQUIRED – perhaps for the first time – to live the life you SAY you want.

And since we’re being honest and open and all (for a change!!) quite frankly I know that there is not a single person on God’s good earth that does alignment and asskickery for DRIVEN women entrepreneurs who are also revolutionary fucking LEADERS and ready to act as such better than me.

Just saying!

But enough about ME, gorgeous … what about you?

What do you know that you know that you KNOW you kick butt at better than anybody else in the WORLD?

What is the message of truth and POWER you are here to share?

What do you just need to IMPART to people because if they only got it – and ALL of it – they would be transformed beyond a shadow of a DOUBT?

And, more relevantly than all of that –


Now here’s the thing.

It’s all very well to have a message –

It’s all very well to know you can help people –

It’s all very well to know that you know that you KNOW how awesome the real you really is –


Then I don’t care!

Which is to say that if you don’t LET me know about it then I WILL not care.

Another way of putting it:

When are you going to start showing up PROPERLY already and show us how outrageously over the top awesome you actually are?!

You know I am NOT talking about your carefully worded and cobbled together what you do’s and how you do ’em’s! I am talking about you speaking your TRUTH, the REAL stuff, and just letting the world AT it!

Would you say, if you had to be objective about it and consider what it is that you project into the world that people really GET you and what you stand for, what you’re here for, how you can actually help them?

‘Cause if not then honey there’s only one direction to point the finger. And you know it’s not at them!

Now I already said here’s the thing but here’s the REAL thing. It comes in several parts!

1. People will not buy from you if you don’t show up and be OUTRAGEOUSLY over the top FULLY awesomely you each day.

2. People will not follow you if you do not give them the REAL truth about who you are, what you stand for and WHY.

3. People do NOT want to buy – nor will they – what you are selling or how you are selling it if they don’t know WHY you do what you do and whether or not they want to ALIGN with you.

4. You will not build a TRIBE – and you will not be a LEADER – if you do not stand the fuck up and lead like you were born to!

Want to know something else? Since we’re being honest and all!

I’m about sick and tired of the way we all seem to think that selling online is about how much we can ‘get’ in exchange for what we ‘have to give’.

It’s time for a new paradigm in online business.

One in which EVERYTHING we do is simply about showing up and being outrageously over the top AWESOMELY ourselves.

One in which we don’t ask what we MUST do or SHOULD give or HAVE to include so we can GET that price or THOSE subscribers in return.

One in which instead we ask, quite simply –

How can I show up and be awesome today?

How can I show up and be OUTRAGEOUSLY me today?

How can I show up and be OVER THE TOP INCREDIBLY FUCKING ON today?

How can I give EVEN MORE?

Even more still?

How can I make it MORE awesome, so much so that people’s jaws hit the floor and I just feel giddy with the fun of it all?!

Is this a naive approach to business? To think that if we just stopped worrying about how to build a list or how to make sales and just LET THE WORLD HAVE OUR AWESOME and gave the best of ourselves, ALL of ourselves, that things would just work and also BE awesome?

Maybe it is naive!

And you know what else?


And truthfully? I suspect you ALSO could care less.

On a side note: I will tell you that anytime my income has EXPLODED or gone to a NEW high has been when I didn’t follow the rules and instead just showed up and gave AWESOME, and went over the TOP with how much I gave, and how FUN I made it.

Back from side note, and here’s what I really care about, what I want business to be about, and tell me if you feel the same –

I want it to be fun.

First and foremost, I want it to be fun!

I want it to feel … fun! And happy. And EXCITING. And cool! I want it to feel like this incredibly hot happy fun online PARTY and we’re all just hanging out together having a kickass time ’cause we love hanging out together and because we both benefit GREATLY from the relationship!

I want it to be MEANINGFUL. Meaningful to me, quite simply, is getting to talk and speak about the stuff I care about and that I believe matters! Getting to do so in an unabridged and unfiltered way; not worrying about what anybody thinks but just sharing who I REALLY am … and if you love me then AWESOME and if I love you too then AWESOME and let’s be friends or call it client/mentor or whatthefuckever but let’s just hang out and create more fun and more meaning and BOTH contribute to the relationship … and if you don’t love or just don’t get me than whatEVA man. I don’t wanna get in bed with everyone anyway, y’know?

What else?

I want it to be EASY. I don’t mean I don’t want to work I love to fucking work! I love to PUSH myself! I love to CHALLENGE myself with what I’m creating, what I’m putting out there, how much MORE of me I can give how I can STRETCH and GROW and LEARN.

But I want it to be NATURAL … simple … FLOWING.

FLOW for me, is one of my VERY highest values. If it doesn’t flow, if it’s not organic, if it doesn’t FEEL right internally then I don’t wanna have to do it!

And I’m not going to either, and can’t nobody make me no more! Insert multiple foot stamps … and also the truth that the only person ever making me do stuff I didn’t wanna do was me, when I thought that was how it had to be!

Speaking of which –

I don’t want to believe it has to be a certain way! And so I won’t believe that! I will CHOOSE my beliefs, and act accordingly!

So don’t fucking tell me that ‘this is how you have to do lead gen now’, or advertising now, or this is the right way to launch or sell or market.

Fuck that shit!

Fuck your lead gen!

Fuck it has to be hard from a non ALIGNMENT point of view!

Fuck I have to do stuff I don’t really like doing in a way that doesn’t jive with who I am with and for people I don’t really LOVE!


I can keep going ALL DAY here you know!

I don’t care about SEO.

I don’t care about BRANDING beyond me just showing up and being awesomely me, that’s my branding!

I don’t care about launch FORMULA’s.

I don’t care about ANY formula’s … although I may very well still use the word tongue in cheek from time to time!

I don’t care about what anyone else is doing in the sense that it should impact what I am doing.

I don’t care whether people like me, in fact I would be quite concerned if I was of very broad appeal!

I don’t care whether I’m being PC.

I don’t care whether I leave a wake of fucking chaos and devastation in my trail … and I do!

I don’t care whether I change the rules, change my mind, even my own.

I don’t care whether I am being impressive enough or professional or organised or whatever.

Now okay, maybe I am just trying to be cool with all the stuff I don’t care about! Hey … look at me … I’m so COOl man, I like, seriously don’t give a fuck … yeah … I’m cool dude … aren’t I?

But here’s what I do care about. Truly, madly, deeply.

I care about doing the work I came here to do, and I care about empowering – and hell yeah butt-kicking – you to do the same.

That’s it.

That’s all.

And everything else can get fucked.

Sometimes I have to remind myself of all this of course! No matter how far I’ve come and how much I have REPEATEDLY proven to myself that success and money and JOY all flow when I let myself BE in flow and just act from the heart sometimes I STILl get suckered in worrying about what others are doing or worrying about how to grow my list or launch something or get my stuff out there more or whatever.

And then I remind myself:

When I act from the heart, and trust in my own intuition, and focus on giving from LOVE and a true passion to just GIVE my stuff and get it out there .. things work. And oh boy do they work.

Whereas when I focus on any sort of version of:

What I should be doing –

How I should be doing it –

In what method or manner –

And according to what sort of timeline –






Plus the whole thing sucks balls in terms of how it makes me feel. And honey I am ALL about it feeling good!

And isn’t that what it’s about, really?

Either you believe you can create a business and life on your terms, or you don’t! And if you believe then bloody well CREATE IT ON YOUR TERMS!

Or stop lying to yourself and saying you believe.

Honestly … the world does NOT need another perfectly coiffed perfectly prepared perfectly presented perfectly fucking boring stepfordpreneur trying to teach it how to be another fembot just like the rest of them.

The world needs you.


The REAL you.

YOUR message.

YOUR truth.

YOUR love.

YOUR joy.

Outrageously –

Unapologetically –



So if you had to show up from this day out, and just let it all hang out, and just be YOU, how would that look?

And if you were to now create your offers only TOTALLY from the heart and with TOTAL love and joy and excitement to just make it OMG amazing because you want to thrill the PANTS off of people, what would you create?

And if you were doing it for FUN, and for the love of it, and because you love the people you’re DOING it for, and because you want it to just be so cool and exciting and really just make it over the top AWESOME, then how would it look?

It’s actually really freaking simple to build a MASSIVE amount of fame and fortune around who you are as a leader gorgeous.

Just show up.

Every day.

And the be the outrageously over the top awesome leader you actually are.

And create and sell stuff accordingly!


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