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Success Mindset

How to Have Your Cake and Eat it Too: Creating Wealth on YOUR Terms

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If you look around the ‘net it’s easy to convince yourself that success is possible for anyone willing to really put the work in. From a logical point of view at least you have to admit that anyone has the POTENTIAL to ‘make it’ online if they do what it takes.

From there its only natural to assume that if YOU do what it takes, and continue to do so repeatedly, you’ll eventually get there. There, presumably, being the place where you’re making money in your own business and no longer wondering if you shouldn’t just go and get a job like the rest of the world.

But here’s the thing.

Most women entrepreneurs, even though they ARE getting to make a living from their own business, are not exactly living the lifestyle dream they thought they’d be able to. Instead they’re caught up in a never-ending list of Things That Must Be Done to get ahead, constantly comparing themselves to others, struggling to find true alignment in how they spend their time and continually putting off the creative work they really want to be doing, let alone the easy-flowing lifestyle they long for.

If you can relate then I know you can also relate to this –

At some point your dream of having your very own business where you got to make money by doing exactly what you love and are born to do because simply ‘having your very own business where you get to make money’. The part about doing it entirely on your terms kind of fell off along the way, and even if you noticed, you really didn’t feel you could afford to stop and pick it back up again.

And now, as much as you do love that you’re paving your own way, your primary focus is staying on top. God forbid you stop and assess whether the path you’re on is really moving you closer to your dream life with any real sense of speed or effectiveness, because if you DO stop? The whole enterprise might just come crashing down.

From the moment you wake until the moment you finally switch off that Facebook feed your mind is consumed with everything you haven’t quite yet finished and everything you need to get done. And somewhere in the midst of it you have occasional sparks of inspiration or desire about what you’d REALLY do if money weren’t the focus and if you weren’t worried that doing exactly what you DO want to do probably wouldn’t WORK.

If that’s you, I totally understand. Even to this day and despite how ‘on my terms’ my business is, I have those days and sometimes weeks where I am totally caught up in the list and in comparison and in all the things I COULD do to grow my business, or simply caught up in rushing around DOING rather than occasionally stopping and BEING; tuning in to who I really want to be in my business.

And if I’m not careful, it’s easy to return to that pattern of believing that only once I ‘get everything done’ will it be okay for me to do what I REALLY want to do.

But you do know it’s a trap, don’t you? The worst trap of all, in fact! And often, one that is born out of fear.

What are you really afraid will happen if you commit to taking daily action on the stuff you REALLY want to do?

What is the worst possible scenario if you really have a crack at making money entirely on your terms? The obvious answer is ‘it doesn’t work’. But instead of looking at it that way (and I don’t really believe you think it WOULDN’T work anyway, hmmm?) how about you look at it this way –

What’s the worst possible outcome of NOT having a crack at making it entirely on your terms?

How are you really going to feel about yourself if you allow another year, another month, another DAY pass by in which you fail to put your faith in yourself and your ability to live the life you truly desire?

Seriously now – for how much longer can you stomach knowing you COULD give it a shot if only you dared, but yet you continually tell yourself you can’t, it’s not the right time, you’re not ready when really the truth is simply that you’re scared.

Scared is okay. But you really do have to feel the fear and do it anyway, because the truth is that you’ll never NOT feel scared, or at least not until you actually start taking concerted daily action on the stuff you really want to be doing and finally realise that all your wildest fantasies CAN come true.

Because as much as I know the fear is TERRIFYING and absolutely believable at times, the alternative is simply far far worse. So jump off that ledge. Give it a go. Stare into the eyes of the beast and decide NOT to look away. And know this –

You will not know where to start at first, and that’s okay.

You’ll feel yourself falter each time you look for the next step, and that’s okay.

You’ll stumble and perhaps fall again and again and again and AGAIN and that’s also okay.

You’ll probably churn out a TON of really average stuff and maybe even complete drivel before you start to create the really good stuff, and that’s okay as well – in fact it’s really the only way.

You’ll continually feel guilty (at first) that you’re not doing stuff on your list or stuff you promised other people or stuff you think you really HAVE to do in order to keep that wheel a-churning, and know that it’s okay to feel that guilt and then tell it to get the hell outta there while you give yourself permission to work on what’s really important to you.

The Universe or God or the powers-that-be or simply your own tricky mind will throw some kind of test at you, possibly a few, just to see how serious you are or whether you’re sitting on the fence, and you’ll feel that it’s a ‘must’ for you to once again put your dreams on hold and deal with the issues at hand, but it’s totally okay to ignore that sudden grab for your attention and calmly continue on your way.

Success might resist you for a while, and perhaps you’ll even tell yourself ‘see, look – it’s not working; I can’t do this; I can’t be that girl’ and know that this is normal and everyone goes through it but ultimately what is NOT okay is to give in to that or to anything else that would tell you you can’t have things your way.

Because the truth is you can.

You can have your cake – the whole damn thing – and eat it too.

You can do business your way.

You can do life your way.

You can start now.

In fact if you don’t start now? You very likely never will.

So take the jump beautiful. Lean into the abyss and let yourself fall. Step out into nothing, and know –

That you are freaking amazing.

That you deserve for your widlest dreams to be your daily reality.

That you can have it all.

That you don’t have to wait.

That your only limitation is the one YOU choose for yourself.

That you won’t be the first and nor will you be the last but if you DON’T do it? You’ll forever be the one looking in the mirror wondering when your time will come.

And if you do?

You WILL figure out how to fly. And the view from up top? It really IS as good as you can possibly imagine, it really WAS worth it, and it really IS yours. Get out there and claim your destiny!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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