Success Mindset

Stop Being Such a Lazy Whiny Bitch! (10 Ways to Do the Work That Matters)

It’s simply not good enough to tell yourself day in and day out that you’re going to make a change – soon, I promise! – if you’re not also able to go to bed at the end of EACH and every day saying yep, I did – I made a change. I started something. I took ACTION.

I know that you’re scared.

I know you’re unsure.

I know you’re worried even about what it might mean to actually reach your goals, never mind what it might mean to not reach them; to not even try!

I get that fear is biting you on the ass every freaking day, that resistance has hold over you, that you don’t want people to say or think bad things about you, and that to top it all off you’re tired.

So tired.

Of pushing and pulling every which way. Of trying so damn hard to get … somewhere.

But the truth is – and please, let’s just be honest – you’re not actually trying that hard at all, are you?

Oh, I don’t doubt that you’re putting time in. Effort. Emotion. Even money.

But are you doing the work that fucking matters, as a result of all of that?

It’s really just hell YES, I am, or it’s a simple no.

I’m not.

And it’s okay. I’m not here to judge you. God knows there are many things in my own life I’ve still to take action on, things I have repeatedly put off or allowed fear to be the driving NON-force, rather than desire and commitment.

But, I am committed to my growth and I am learning day by day to be ever-better at taking action ANYWAY.

And I’m committed to helping you to do the same. The greatest joy for me is in hearing from someone that I helped them get clear on what really matters, and then kicked their butt to actually DO THE WORK. Whether I kick your butt day by day via my writing and videos, and I never even get to know you, or whether we end up working together in the very deepest and most transformative ways, either way I want you to know:

You can do it.

Whatever you want, whatever you desire, whatever you set your mind to you CAN create.

But here is what else you need to know:

It’s not going to happen by fucking accident, or magic.

You want it? Then you need to wake the fuck up sister. Stop being such a lazy, whiny bitch. Stop letting how you FEEL govern what you create!

And you need to do the fucking work that matters. Here are 10 ways to give you the rocket up the butt you need, so you can start TODAY:

1. Your Dreams Aren’t That Special

Stop making it out to be SUCH a big deal. It’s not even about whether or not you’re worthy, or capable, or how damn awesome it would be to live like that, have that, do that. It’s just a choice. You get to CHOOSE. The stuff that you think of as being SUCH a big deal is just normal to somebody out there, somewhere. And YOUR normal is someone else’s big scary dream. So … stop building it up so much. Make it normal. Make it everyday. Get over whether or not you’re ALLOWED or what it would MEAN, and just go DO IT.

2. Get Real About Putting the Time In

It’s great to journal and think and ponder and plan. I love it! But that business ain’t gonna build itself from your journal. That funnel isn’t going to magically just BE there. You’re not going to be in shit-hot shape without moving your fine ass every day and making good food choices! Etcetera.

So – get real about putting the time in. When you get to the end of the day you need to be able to say DEFINITELY that you put the time in. Either you did or you didn’t, yeah? Thinking about it doesn’t count as doing it.

3. Know What You’re Actually Chasing

Of course it would help to know what it is specifically that you’re working towards, when you put the time in. Writing your goals out should be a regular practice. If you haven’t done it VERY recently, then take today to write out your 90-day goals. Exactly what you want to do and have, and who you want to be. Break it down to 30-day milestones, and then identify what you need to therefore start with today.

Do that, when you put the time in.

4. It’s About Input, Not Achievement

Don’t sit down and tell yourself that today you’re going to do ‘everything!’, or finish ‘all of it!’. It’s too open to all sorts of variables, largely your own resistance and fear and overwhelm. Instead, just work according to a specific chunk of time.

“Today I will spend one hour working on lead generation”. And you do whatever you can in that hour. Repeat this daily and you will change the fucking WORLD in the next year, starting with your own world. (Not just on lead gen as a goal obviously!!)

5. Let Go of the Outcome

Set specific goals but then release the outcome. Your job now is to simply show up and do the work. Day in and day fucking out. Some goals you’ll hit in the way you planned to, others you won’t. So what? The JOURNEY is the destination. Being outcome focused stops you from following a path of true alignment, and you’ll miss opportunities that come up along that path.

6. Listen to Your Gut

If it doesn’t feel right, it’s not.

Pretty fucking simple.

Pay attention.

7. Eat That Fucking Frog!

If you find yourself repeatedly procrastinating – aka NEVER FUCKING DOING – the stuff that matters then you need to be disciplined about WHEN you do it not just about saying you’ll spend an hour on it. Else you’ll put that hour off till the end of the day and it won’t happen. Uh-huh. I know. I KNOW ALL YOUR SECRETS AND SNEAKY WAYS!! I am you 🙂

So – do the thing you dread most first. Use the stuff you WANT to do as a reward you GET to do after the awful thing.

8. Take the Emotion Out Of It

A key reason for NOT taking action, and ultimately a key (ridiculous!) reason women don’t live their dreams? We didn’t FEEL like it. Wahhhh! Seriously- you want your destiny to be based on how you FEEL?! Good luck with that plan of attack!

So when you eat that frog, when you put the time in, take the emotion out of it. It’s not about whether you want to or even know how and it is SURE as heck not about all the bad things that could happen. JUST DO THE FUCKING WORK.

9. Review

Daily, take 5 minutes to review the previous day. What worked, what didn’t, what are you proud of, what bothers you, what can you learn from? Do this on a bigger scale weekly, monthly, annually. How do you expect to continue choosing the right path if you never stop to look at where it’s taking you and in what way?!

10. Acknowledge Your Efforts but Also Slap Yourself Silly

When you review, take time to acknowledge the good you’ve done, the battles you’ve fought and won. But also – don’t be an ostrich about the stuff you’re not doing. Be hard on yourself. Be demanding. EXPECT excellence and then question when you don’t get it.

And then get back to doing the fucking work. Who you are today dictates what you have tomorrow, so take a good hard look at yourself, your current actions, and where that stuff is leading you. If you can’t say with CERTAINTY that you are moving forward in an AWESOME way, then just remember:

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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