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Success Mindset


About 5 or so years back, in the middle of one of the most tumultuous times of my life (the painful and also painfully never-ending pulling apart of my second marriage), a best friend and I made a decision to lock in choices about who we are,

what we expected (chose!) from life,

and how it all just WORKED.

My friend was going through a similar break-up and shift, in fact our lives were so eerily parallel that it was almost disturbing. Actually we were accused at the time of masterminding it all together, to make sure we were doing everything the same as each other! Which definitely WAS a thing in that friendship, freakily so, but none of it was ever planned.

Anyhow –

It was a mid-summers day here in Australia, I was taking a nap I think, before dinner, and I had a sudden call from my friend. Weird, because she was in LA at the time, and I knew it was about 2am there.

“Kat … Kat! This is REALLY bad. OMG”

Her voice was shaking. I’d never heard her like this before, never known her to be anything other than a very steady, very unapologetic, very BACKING of herself badass revolutionary fucking leader. As are basically all the peeps who end up close in my life!

And yet now, I could hear her – SCARED.

When she told me what had happened, I was so fucking scared as well. It was big. Shocking. DEVASTATING. And legitimately concerning as far as the possibility of very bad things happening. I started to freak out myself. I was shaking too. I felt the panic rising, it was real!

And then –

and I don’t remember which of us this was, who said it, or whether, as with most things with us back then, we both came out with the exact same thing at the exact same time, but regardless of where it came from, here is what came out –

“But wait.

WE are always okay.

We ALWAYS make the right decision.

And everything is always working out PERFECTLY for us, for the greater good of ourselves and of others”.

Suddenly, calm settled over me. I sank back against the pillows. And I felt her exhale as well.

“Oh yes. OF COURSE”.

See, a few months earlier than that, on one of our weekly ‘fame calls’ we had, calls which we’d started doing with one another to hold the two of us accountable to money and biz and all around LIFE growth, and alignment, we’d come up with a small and powerful list of PERSONAL POLICIES.

Beliefs, which we decided were just ‘how it is’.

Did you know you can choose your beliefs, and indeed impact the direction of your entire life with same? Guess what? You already are 😉

Anyhow –

Yes. We had decided beliefs that went hand in hand with becoming who we both had, prior to that, been WAITING to be.

Waiting to be good enough –
Waiting to know enough –
Waiting to be seen enough –
Waiting for the next level of income, of certainty, of soul, of life!

We had decided to stop waiting.

And we had decided that the beliefs and mindsets which, up until then, we thought were VALID in keeping us stuck ‘here’, could get to go. And that instead we would replace them with new ones, with beliefs that went hand in hand with already being ‘that girl’. The one who had realised she no longer had to get past HERE, in order to then be THERE.

Idealistic? Fantastical? Stupid? To think to yourself that simply choosing new beliefs, which then become personal policies, could change your life, and greatly assist in you being where you want to be?

Cool … you keep on choosing what’s working for ya.

But consider this:

It’s not just about a ‘nice idea’ or ‘positive thinking’ or being WISHFUL.

It’s about the very real fact that your actions follow your beliefs.
That your beliefs either close or open you to fear, and also to creativity, flow, supernatural knowledge and support.
That having beliefs to LEAN on gives you stability, access to soul, groundedness, a FOUNDATION to then create from.
And that, if you look around at what you already have in your life, it’s impossible not to acknowledge that it is ALL A PRODUCT OF WHAT YOU BELIEVE, EXPECT, AND SEE AS NORMAL!

So why not just CHANGE your normal?

Here are some of the beliefs we came up with together in that time, which I have since installed FIRMLY into my inner programming (meaning: I practiced the beliefs and also the actions that would naturally follow them, until it became automated and ‘who I am’), and which I now consider ‘personal policies’.

Reminders, when shit seems extra real, scary, or I feel as though I don’t know what to do, that THAT IS NOT THE POLICY HERE.

Hand up like a stop sign.

Thank you very much!

“I always make the right decision”

“Everything is always working out perfectly for me, for the greater good of myself and of others”

“I always know what to do, and how to do it. I take soul-led action with ease, it happens naturally!”

“It’s normal for me to always have extra (money / time / space / insert what you want)”

I can always access and hear from God, soul, higher self

“I do what I know I need to do, I do it right away”

“I am always taken care of”

“More and more money flows to me effortlessly each day, from multiple places, often out of nowhere and as if by magic!”

My soulmate clients come to ME, outta nowhere, and sign themSELVES up!”

“Everything is exactly as it’s meant to be”

“I am always taken care of”

“I am always on path”

“I am doing what I am meant to be doing, I use each moment for what it was designated, I am doing it how I am meant to be doing it”.

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

And I guess where I want to bring this home is here:

Do you understand how powerful it is, to choose your beliefs?

I’ve been doing this for years. I teach it in nearly all my courses. I talk about it all the time. I believe it is FUNDAMENTAL TO YOUR SUCCESS that you have ‘personal policies’ about how you choose to think, and see the world. I do NOT believe this is in any way naive, ignoring of reality, and so on. Instead what it does is – it calms and centres and grounds you back to your core, which in turn allows you to see your way forward.

But yes, it’s also a mindset. A way of choosing to see the world.

In the end, what will be will be, and it is what it is, and that’s all it is.

But what if you’re making what ‘is’ a huge fucking problem inside of you, and thus NOT creating or moving forward in the way that the tapped in soul-led you would?

Do you think that might impact your outcomes?

Your life?

The unfolding or no of your DESTINY?

It would be ludicrous to think not.

And what if, right now, you could choose a new path, a new normal, a new way to create, move forward, impact, and receive, JUST BECAUSE YOU DECIDED TO GUARD YOUR DAMN MIND AND BELIEFS?

Would that be worth considering?

Only one way to find out 😉

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.