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Live Your Passion

How to Deal With Jealousy Online, and Seeing Others Succeed Where YOU Should Have

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We all have that business arch nemesis who just rubs us up SO badly. Everytime we see them do something we just want to stamp and throw things, then get on a big trumpet that speaks to the entire WORLD and let everybody know –

It should have been me!

I am BETTER than that!

I KNOW more, and I’m smarter too!

If you’ve never felt that way, then congratulations, you are indeed a robot. OR maybe you just haven’t found the stuff you truly madly deeply care about yet.

Because here’s one fact that they won’t tell you in Entrepreneur School –

When you’re passionate about something, you want it DEEPLY, you KNOW it is part of your destiny, you FULLY believe you can and SHOULD have it and yet you DELIBERATELY AND REPEATEDLY DO NOT CHASE AFTER IT?

It’ll kinda piss you off when others do.

How DARE they be out there following YOUR dream?!

And doing a better JOB at it than you to boot!

You can’t deny it – the one DOING the job in ANY way or shape or form is doing a helluva lot better at it than the one who is NOT EVEN TRYING AT ALL.

So let’s get down and DEEPLY honest here gorgeous.

What is it you REALLY want?

What is your soul CALLED to do?

What do you KNOW is your destiny, your future, your MUST?

What are you so damn passionate about creating, or experiencing, or it would just be the ULTIMATE for you?

Perhaps it’s becoming a best-selling author …

Hitting the NYT best-seller list to take it even further …

Speaking at TedX …

Being friends with Tim Ferriss …

Having a column in a major international publication …

Appearing on James Altucher’s podcast show …

Being on stage with Tony Robbins …

Having over 100,000 people on your email list …

Writing about the stuff you REALLY want to write about (speak about, coach about, etc) but which you repeatedly tell yourself people don’t really WANT from you …

Traveling the world …

Launching that mad hatter idea of yours …

Or just showing up every day and actually DOING the stuff you say you one day WANT to do.

Something I’ve learned about life, and chasing my dreams. And I say this knowing full well that I? I am one of the most action-taking people I know. But yet –

The more something DEEPLY matters to me or the more AMAZING I feel it would be? The more I run from it, avoid it, shirk it, use whatever ridiculous story I can to tell myself that right now? I’m not ready.

In the case of some of my big dreams – such as becoming a best-selling author – I’ve managed to get past this. In all cases where I’ve gotten over myself and actually chased down the “big dreams” it’s taken me a LONG time, but I notice I’m getting quicker and quicker at ripping that bandaid. Because the long time part of it has always just been me talking myself into it, the actual creation of most big dreams is relatively quick and simple compared with what you might think!

But yeah. I still have a TON of stuff on my bucket list (maybe even the stuff I used as examples above!) that I’ve yet to do.

And you know what? I admit it. I am DAMN jealous and pissed off when I see people with BIG success who have done or are doing things that I want to. It should have been me, right?! I KNOW I could have done that! How DARE they! Especially when I know I could have done BETTER!

Truth time?

Coulda, woulda, shoulda.

I didn’t do it.

It wasn’t me.

And who cares how I COULD HAVE DONE it if in fact I NEVER EVEN TRIED?

It’s like the whole ‘Facebook was our idea’ thing all over again. You know, the twin friends from college, in the movie? They can jump up and down and stomp their feet all they like and insist that THEY came up with the idea of Facebook but when all is said and done?

Ideas count for nothing.

[pq]It doesn’t MATTER whose idea it was, it matters who MADE IT HAPPEN. [/pq]

Let me ask you something –

Who is out there, right now, making YOUR dreams happen but in THEIR lives?

Who makes you want to hurl the laptop through the window because they’re CONSTANTLY AT IT?

Who do you find yourself fixated on, obsessively checking what they’re up to or ranting about it to your partner and friends because you can’t BELIEVE they did what they did and it SHOULD HAVE BEEN YOU?

WHAT are the dreams that you have now seen come to life in not just one other person’s life but perhaps 10, 20, more still and yet YOU STILL HAVEN’T EVEN TRIED?

What is YOUR ‘impossible’ that others are out their LIVING?

And seriously?

What the fuck is your excuse now?

Don’t turn to me and point the finger back because I’ll be the FIRST to admit I’ve still got work to do. This is not about me preaching down from a place of having done it ALL. I haven’t done it all, it never WILL be all done because the journey never ends. But I can tell you what I AM done with, and that’s delaying for even ONE MORE MOMENT the really REALLY big ass dreams about how I want my business and life to be.

I hope that you’ll join me.

Don’t you see –

You can’t pick and choose what is ‘allowed’ to be possible for you.

You either believe in the power of manifestation and CHOOSING your life, or you don’t.

So if you DO believe, and you KNOW you want something bigger, greater, MAGNIFICENT for your life, you have this ‘one day’ idea of what you’ll do when you’ve REALLY made it?

Then why the heck not just do the one day thing now?

You can choose ANYTHING to focus on.

You can make the process painful, and slow, and ‘step by step’, or you can just go straight to the ultimate goals and dreams.

And the truth? It’s easier out there in the final mile. Not so many people ever even try to get there. The majority of the pack, even the so-called change makers, are all bumping shoulders on the road well traveled.

So in actual fact reaching your biggest and MOST crazy dreams is a lot easier than you’d think.

But really it doesn’t matter, does it, how easy or tough it might be because it’s not going to be at all easy OR tough if you’re not even freaking doing it!

So get up sister.

Get up off that sweet ole hesitating butt of yours and stop pretending you’re one of the go-getters when in the last day, week, month, year, LIFETIME you’ve not made even ONE big step towards the stuff you ACTUALLY WANT TO GO AND GET.

But if you’re going to do this? Then hurry! Because right now there’s someone, 5 people, 100 people out there who are already taking action on YOUR dreams.

Best you go and put YOUR name back in the running of your own life, hmm?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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