FEEL LIKE A FRAUD, AND SCARED EVERYBODY WILL FIND OUT? TIME TO STEP UP AND SHINE!

Ok. That not really shining ’cause you think you’re not good enough and that people will find out you’re a fraud thing you got goin’ on? Time to quit that shit …!

So here’s how this went down.

SO many things. SO many fucking things. So many SIGNS, you know? SO many God damn signs, messages, downloads, flashes of inspiration, TRIGGERS, have come up the last few days all of which have clearly been leading me, commanding me, REQUIRING me to write this post for you.

It was going to be a post about the HOW of gettin’ paid to be you … hint: BE inherently of value so that you just being you IS of value … by which I mean just OWN your freaking value … but anyway, turns out the post is not about that, not quite, not fully.

Then I thought I’d write about making a PROMISE to just keep on seeking alignment … because I was thinking about making a promise to God to, no matter what, just keep seeking him, but that I would BREAK my promise to him which I’ve made so many times before and FAILED at, to be perfect … and THAT made me think of how that’s what ALIGNMENT is all about, just promise to keep seeking it, but, hmmm, I don’t think THAT is the post for today.

And then I found myself wanting to tell you to remember to BLESS WHAT YOU WANT! You know? Like, when you see somebody shining like a BRIGHT FUCKING STAR, or doing THINGS, the THINGS, that you wish you were doing, that you kinda sorta feel you COULD be doing if only you just freakin’ made it a MUST, and you feel – jealous. Triggered AF. Grumpy! And sad. Yep – gotta bless the person, the situation, all of it, or how the hell will you GET it?!

So, I thought about that. In fact, the first 2 post ideas were trying to worm their way out of me between 1130pm and 2am last night when by rights I should have been SLEEPING, since I had to get up at 4.45 today … and did! So, that was fun.

DON’T WORRY!!

I have been H.I.I.T sprinted and caffeinated into fully switched the fuck ON, and in not too many hours I’ll be snoring away in my Virgin Australia flatbed, LA bound! So, no need to feel too bad for me 🙂

Anyhow.

Sometimes when a message is coming through you, it first shows up in sorta SHADOW versions. Like hmmm, yes, that would be a good post. Or hmmm, okay – I can livestream on that! Or hmmm, okay, somebody should SAY something about that!

And then, for whatever reason, you just don’t get it out, and all of a sudden you have ONE more conversation or ONE more download, which suddenly melds the whole thing together and you realise oh FUCK –

THAT’S what I need to talk about!

And this is what I need to talk about.

What I need to tell you.

What just KEEPS COMING UP, even amongst my MOST successful of clients, and even from friends and peers I know whose business make 7-figures … multi-7 …. 8 … in some cases even 9 and multi-9!

And that message is this:

That thing you’re doing, where you’re shrouding yourself a little, playing small or safe or nice, being UNAPOLOGETIC about who you are, and just kinda tentatively peering around the edges of your God damn LIFE –

Yeah.

That’s gotta stop.

I mean, let’s just be practical! Reasonable! You DO know how REASONABLE I love to be, don’t you?!

And REASONABLY and PRACTICALLY and LOGICALLY speaking, I’m just gon’ let you know:

YOU’RE NOT GOING TO WIN THE INTERNET WITH THAT KINDA ATTITUDE!

Your shit will NOT go viral!

NOBODY is gonna be inviting you onto their top rating shows, podcasts, sites.

You will NOT be sought-after to speak at cool AF places.

And frankly –

M’dear –

NOBODY IS EVEN GOING TO REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE.

If you think I’m being a bit harsh, and besides, you don’t ‘need’ to win the internet thank you very much (yeah right, stop lying, you want your message to be seen, and YOU want to be seen, be honest!), then shut the fuck up and just think about this:

It’s not about whether or not they’re gonna remember who you are, actually.

It’s about the simple and undeniable fact that they can hardly remember who you are –

If you don’t first –

Y’know –

SHOW THEM.

Can’t remember something you never saw, can you now?!

So there.

Anyway, I’m not trying to win points over YOU or something; I know I do get a little bit pleased with myself when I make one though 🙂 … but actually here is the real reason I’m writing. Well, two reasons!

1) I know who you are. I know who you really fucking ARE baby, and I know that this meek, shy, girl-next door, NICE thing you’re mostly showing the world, where of course people LIKE you, but who the hell cares really, you were born to LEAD and UNLEASH not to worry about being liked, yeah THAT thing, that’s not the real you. Actually.

YOU’RE A RAGING FUCKING WARRIOR WOMAN.

It’d be NICE, speaking of nice, if you showed that, owned us, and then did your fucking job once in a while!

2) EVERYBODY FEELS THAT WAY.

Do you hear me? EVERYBODY.

I have clients making tens of thousands … even on their way to hundreds of thousands … per MONTH … and I KNOW people (I KNOW PEOPLE!) who are making in excess of millions per month … I have met, had dinner with, hung out with, been in masterminds with mentored or been mentored by some of the MOST amazing and incredible people in the world.

Not all of them! Still so many cool people to meet. But enough to know one thing for sure:

EVERYBODY feels like they’re maybe not good enough, like they’re just playing a big game of make-believe, like they never got their adult certificate, and like PEOPLE ARE GONNA FIND OUT THEY’RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH AND DON’T REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY’RE DOING.

Everybody?

EVERYBODY.

I know, I know. It’s kind of SHOCKINGLY UPSETTING, in a way! Don’t worry, I remember that feeling too, from when I found out. That feeling of “what the fuck, you mean I will never transcend into thinking I’m perfect and have all my shit together all the time? I thought that was the whole POINT, or at least part of it!”

Sorry to burst that bubble.

But putting THAT little humdinger aside, isn’t it also THE MOST REASSURING THING EVER?

And I know what you’re thinking right now! Right now SOMEBODY has popped into your head.

Maybe me!
Maybe somebody else.
But SOMEBODY who you have on a motherfucking pedestal, and you’re thinking, well Kat, that’s a nice story and all, and I appreciate you tryna make me feel better, but I know for a FACT that SHE / HE / THAT MOTHERFUCKER wouldn’t feel that way! THAT person has UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE AND SELF-BELIEF spewing out of their every pore, and besides, they talk all the TIME about how awesome and powerful they know they are … they clearly are REAL grown-ups and also deserved of their success crown.

Once again:

Shut the fuck up.

The only difference between you and them is they decided to own it in SPITE of all those feelings.

And then? They kept fucking deciding, and also doing the work to go with that, day by day, until it took.

Doesn’t mean they don’t still feel that way even NOW though, by the way! DON’T FORGET I REGULARLY TALK TO SOME OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEURS AND LEADERS IN THE WORLD! And, I kinda sort am one. UNAPOLOGETICALLY!

So, I’m talking from FACT, and from nearly daily conversations, not from theory.

Which brings me to my point:

If you want what you say you want and you KNOW you were born for it you are going to have to get the fuck over yourself and just DO it.

You can twist and turn it any which way you like, justify like all get out, or keep on striving to have just one more element of proof that you’re worthy enough, but in the end?

You’re either gonna be up here putting your fucking crown on and playing life like the you who is INSIDE and begging to be let out, REGARDLESS OF YOUR HUMAN AF FEARS –

Or you’re gonna stay wherever the fuck it is you are now –

Living a life of bullshit.

Stop MAKING your bullshit bigger than your dreams.

You get to have one.

Choose.

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