Success Mindset

YOU’RE GOING TO TOTALLY CRUSH IT AND OWN IT. JUST FOLLOW.THE.SIGNS!

The ONE thing you can be sure of, possibly the ONLY thing you can be sure of, when it comes to figurin’ out what will work in business and how to get to where you want to go, is that you DO have to be fully you.

Unapologetically –

No holds barred –

Zero fucks given –

And also? No matter what.

It’s literally IMPOSSIBLE for you to succeed if you don’t do this.

I don’t mean you can’t make money … built a following … even RESPECT, and a whole ton of other so-called success stuff besides. Of course you can do that shit with or without following your heart and letting people see and feel the real you AND your real art.

But if you want actual success? Like – success you feel on the inside not just success that meets the approved social markers of success? You’re gonna have to give in to being you.

This seems like it should be obvious, but apparently it’s not. Because if you look around, if you start to pay attention, if you notice what people say ‘yes’ to, versus ‘I can’t’, or ‘not now’, or ‘it’s not time and I’m not READY’, you’ll see that it’s quite mind-blowingly astonishing just how out of tune people are with following their soul needs, and doing what FEELS right; what they LONG to.

And apparently, as far as most people are concerned, it’s so easy to say ‘yes sir!’ to everybody else’s commands or ideals except your own.

Listening to the voices around you, aloud or just implied, telling you –

Do it this way …
THIS is how it’s done …
This is NORMAL …
This is what you NEED …
You won’t get there if you don’t …
You HAVE to …
Stop, do this!
No, do that!

And like an obedient zombie-person, you obey.

Assuming that every other fucker out there must know more for you, about you, and about what you need.

Wanna know a secret?

I don’t write about this stuff – or any of the stuff I write about – because I’ve got this shit all nailed down.

I like to think I’m PRETTY good at following my instincts, backing myself, doing things MY way or not at all, giving in to my SOUL needs, but the truth is I can be as guilty as the next person at getting wrapped up in the shoulds, the coulds, the maybe I’ll just TRY it.

This week alone I’ve engaged in two separate conversations which would have, had I continued them, pulled me down a path of once more looking OUTSIDE of myself to get to where I want to go.

Once more, assuming that there is a ‘right’ way to do things, a done process to follow, and that the nudges I get from inside of me as to what MY ‘how’ should ultimately be are WRONG, with somebody else’s way being RIGHT.

Fortunately, as time passes, I do seem to get better and better at noticing when I do this, and it takes me usually only a day or two to give myself the swift mental uppercut I need and pull back.

And when I do, I’m always so freaking grateful for the accompanying reminder that I HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS INSIDE OF ME.

I’ve ALWAYS known I was born for more.
I’ve CHOSEN over and over again to believe that even when I had no evidence to back it up.
I KEEP on choosing to believe and also TRUST in that any time I feel stuck, or unsure, or like I’m spinning my wheels, or as though the next thing I want is SUPER next level and maybe I do need to be told how.

And ultimately this is what it comes down to, isn’t it? Trusting not only that you DO get to have the outcomes you desire, live the life you want, have it on your terms, reach even your BIGGEST dreams, but trusting also that the WAY to do that is by following your soul.

This needs to … GETS to … be taken VERY literally though.

In every situation.

Every day.

And this is where most people fail miserably, over and over, until they eventually give up the idea that being fully you and doing it your WAY is even possible.

Because here is the truth, about how life will look, when you give in to being you, and follow the RIGHT signs; the ones from within:

You’ll frequently find you have to walk away.
You might be in a social setting or supposed to go to one, or perhaps it’s a project you’re engaged in, or just a conversation, and all of a sudden you’ll get that nudge, that whisper, that pull –

“Leave”, it will say.

“Go do the thing”.

The thing being –

Your art, or your heart, or your rest, or your madness, or your digging IN, or you’re letting OUT. Whatever the damn thing IS!

And you’ll have a choice –

You can choose to say no, that’s not okay right now, that’s inappropriate or unprofessional or what will people think or ‘but I already spent so much time / money / effort on this!’.

And if you GET what success, true success, and a life and business of PURPOSE, actually takes, you’ll know to shrug.

Turn away.

And say –

“So what? This is what my soul requires right now. This is what it instructs. This is what it COMMANDS. And whilst I appreciate the reminder to be driven by fear and to create my life on should ’cause THAT’S WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE DOES, I think I’m just gon’ be over here saying yes to ME”

I can tell you that it DOES GET EASIER TO DO THIS, too. There might always be that part of you that gets pulled in by ‘should’, by CONFORMITY and by following the rules, and I suppose that’s just because existing in the normal world, even if you feel as I do that you only ever really have one foot in, does still rub off on you a little bit.

But it’s down to YOU to be strong, and to know who you are.

To back yourself.
To trust in what you’ve always thought your path, and how you’d get to ‘there’, would be about.
To PUT your true needs and desires first.
And to run run run RUN from anything which takes you away from that shit.

The sad reality is that only a VERY few people will ever do this, like REALLY do it, where it’s just how they live their lives, to follow what’s INSIDE not out.

Most people will nod, hell yes, ‘GET it’, but then continue to follow the road well traveled by EVERY OTHER FUCKING PERSON.

And so it is.
And that’s life.
And it’s plain and simply why so few people EVER do something truly extraordinary.

Never mind ever get to experience the absolute flow and fulfilment that can ONLY come from doing the work you were put here on this earth to do.

And today I want to urge you –

Draw that line in the sand.

The one you’ve been longing to.

The one you keep getting PULLED to.

The one that says ‘thank you but NO thank you’ to ANYTHING that is not an instant and absolute hell to the yes from your SOUL.

Here’s the thing –

You’ll tell yourself it’s only today, it’s only this thing, it’s only an hour, it’s just that, it’s just until, I just can’t, and so on and so forth, and you’ll create a life based entirely on what the world expects from you and what the ‘done thing’ is.

OR –

You’ll turn your back.
You’ll walk away.
You’ll learn that this is a DAILY practice.
And you’ll go do the damn thing.
You’re meant to damn well do.

Just before I wrote this blog, I listened to an audio from one of my best friends, whose name is also Kat. She knows I’m going to speak tomorrow at a killer big event here in Dallas for one of my entrepreneur BF’s, Ryan Stewman. And she said to me –

“I’m not sure when exactly you’re speaking, but I KNOW you’re going to crush it and own it!”

The timing was beautiful, as I was just about to write this blog, I knew already what my message was, but the title hadn’t yet come through.

And as I listened and smiled and felt the love and gratitude and laughter I always feel when listening to amazing audios from my amazing friends (it’s a thing we do, daily!), I thought to myself –

“You’re fucking right. I WILL crush it and own it, thank you! And the reason for that?

Is because I’ll follow what’s inside of me”

Fuck the rules baby.

You weren’t born to be ONE of them.

Quit acting like nobody told you that yet.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

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{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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