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Success Mindset

YOU’RE GOING TO TOTALLY CRUSH IT AND OWN IT. JUST FOLLOW.THE.SIGNS!

The ONE thing you can be sure of, possibly the ONLY thing you can be sure of, when it comes to figurin’ out what will work in business and how to get to where you want to go, is that you DO have to be fully you.

Unapologetically –

No holds barred –

Zero fucks given –

And also? No matter what.

It’s literally IMPOSSIBLE for you to succeed if you don’t do this.

I don’t mean you can’t make money … built a following … even RESPECT, and a whole ton of other so-called success stuff besides. Of course you can do that shit with or without following your heart and letting people see and feel the real you AND your real art.

But if you want actual success? Like – success you feel on the inside not just success that meets the approved social markers of success? You’re gonna have to give in to being you.

This seems like it should be obvious, but apparently it’s not. Because if you look around, if you start to pay attention, if you notice what people say ‘yes’ to, versus ‘I can’t’, or ‘not now’, or ‘it’s not time and I’m not READY’, you’ll see that it’s quite mind-blowingly astonishing just how out of tune people are with following their soul needs, and doing what FEELS right; what they LONG to.

And apparently, as far as most people are concerned, it’s so easy to say ‘yes sir!’ to everybody else’s commands or ideals except your own.

Listening to the voices around you, aloud or just implied, telling you –

Do it this way …
THIS is how it’s done …
This is NORMAL …
This is what you NEED …
You won’t get there if you don’t …
You HAVE to …
Stop, do this!
No, do that!

And like an obedient zombie-person, you obey.

Assuming that every other fucker out there must know more for you, about you, and about what you need.

Wanna know a secret?

I don’t write about this stuff – or any of the stuff I write about – because I’ve got this shit all nailed down.

I like to think I’m PRETTY good at following my instincts, backing myself, doing things MY way or not at all, giving in to my SOUL needs, but the truth is I can be as guilty as the next person at getting wrapped up in the shoulds, the coulds, the maybe I’ll just TRY it.

This week alone I’ve engaged in two separate conversations which would have, had I continued them, pulled me down a path of once more looking OUTSIDE of myself to get to where I want to go.

Once more, assuming that there is a ‘right’ way to do things, a done process to follow, and that the nudges I get from inside of me as to what MY ‘how’ should ultimately be are WRONG, with somebody else’s way being RIGHT.

Fortunately, as time passes, I do seem to get better and better at noticing when I do this, and it takes me usually only a day or two to give myself the swift mental uppercut I need and pull back.

And when I do, I’m always so freaking grateful for the accompanying reminder that I HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS INSIDE OF ME.

I’ve ALWAYS known I was born for more.
I’ve CHOSEN over and over again to believe that even when I had no evidence to back it up.
I KEEP on choosing to believe and also TRUST in that any time I feel stuck, or unsure, or like I’m spinning my wheels, or as though the next thing I want is SUPER next level and maybe I do need to be told how.

And ultimately this is what it comes down to, isn’t it? Trusting not only that you DO get to have the outcomes you desire, live the life you want, have it on your terms, reach even your BIGGEST dreams, but trusting also that the WAY to do that is by following your soul.

This needs to … GETS to … be taken VERY literally though.

In every situation.

Every day.

And this is where most people fail miserably, over and over, until they eventually give up the idea that being fully you and doing it your WAY is even possible.

Because here is the truth, about how life will look, when you give in to being you, and follow the RIGHT signs; the ones from within:

You’ll frequently find you have to walk away.
You might be in a social setting or supposed to go to one, or perhaps it’s a project you’re engaged in, or just a conversation, and all of a sudden you’ll get that nudge, that whisper, that pull –

“Leave”, it will say.

“Go do the thing”.

The thing being –

Your art, or your heart, or your rest, or your madness, or your digging IN, or you’re letting OUT. Whatever the damn thing IS!

And you’ll have a choice –

You can choose to say no, that’s not okay right now, that’s inappropriate or unprofessional or what will people think or ‘but I already spent so much time / money / effort on this!’.

And if you GET what success, true success, and a life and business of PURPOSE, actually takes, you’ll know to shrug.

Turn away.

And say –

“So what? This is what my soul requires right now. This is what it instructs. This is what it COMMANDS. And whilst I appreciate the reminder to be driven by fear and to create my life on should ’cause THAT’S WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE DOES, I think I’m just gon’ be over here saying yes to ME”

I can tell you that it DOES GET EASIER TO DO THIS, too. There might always be that part of you that gets pulled in by ‘should’, by CONFORMITY and by following the rules, and I suppose that’s just because existing in the normal world, even if you feel as I do that you only ever really have one foot in, does still rub off on you a little bit.

But it’s down to YOU to be strong, and to know who you are.

To back yourself.
To trust in what you’ve always thought your path, and how you’d get to ‘there’, would be about.
To PUT your true needs and desires first.
And to run run run RUN from anything which takes you away from that shit.

The sad reality is that only a VERY few people will ever do this, like REALLY do it, where it’s just how they live their lives, to follow what’s INSIDE not out.

Most people will nod, hell yes, ‘GET it’, but then continue to follow the road well traveled by EVERY OTHER FUCKING PERSON.

And so it is.
And that’s life.
And it’s plain and simply why so few people EVER do something truly extraordinary.

Never mind ever get to experience the absolute flow and fulfilment that can ONLY come from doing the work you were put here on this earth to do.

And today I want to urge you –

Draw that line in the sand.

The one you’ve been longing to.

The one you keep getting PULLED to.

The one that says ‘thank you but NO thank you’ to ANYTHING that is not an instant and absolute hell to the yes from your SOUL.

Here’s the thing –

You’ll tell yourself it’s only today, it’s only this thing, it’s only an hour, it’s just that, it’s just until, I just can’t, and so on and so forth, and you’ll create a life based entirely on what the world expects from you and what the ‘done thing’ is.

OR –

You’ll turn your back.
You’ll walk away.
You’ll learn that this is a DAILY practice.
And you’ll go do the damn thing.
You’re meant to damn well do.

Just before I wrote this blog, I listened to an audio from one of my best friends, whose name is also Kat. She knows I’m going to speak tomorrow at a killer big event here in Dallas for one of my entrepreneur BF’s, Ryan Stewman. And she said to me –

“I’m not sure when exactly you’re speaking, but I KNOW you’re going to crush it and own it!”

The timing was beautiful, as I was just about to write this blog, I knew already what my message was, but the title hadn’t yet come through.

And as I listened and smiled and felt the love and gratitude and laughter I always feel when listening to amazing audios from my amazing friends (it’s a thing we do, daily!), I thought to myself –

“You’re fucking right. I WILL crush it and own it, thank you! And the reason for that?

Is because I’ll follow what’s inside of me”

Fuck the rules baby.

You weren’t born to be ONE of them.

Quit acting like nobody told you that yet.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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