IF YOU GOTTA THINK ABOUT IT, IT’S A HARD NO. RUN, AND DON’T LOOK BACK!
It’s funny how, when something comes along in your life that you REALLY want and are excited for, you basically can’t hold yourself back from screaming YES. Your eagerness shines through in a way which could even be deemed a little embarassing depending on the situation, and there’s zero fucking doubt:
You want it.
You’re gonna have it.
It’s a hell to the FUCK yes.
And frankly you really couldn’t GIVE a damn about the details, cost or otherwise.
I was going to say you just want the OUTCOME, but really it’s more than that. What it is, when it’s an absolute fuck yes, is that it just FEELS right. There’s absofuckinglute certainty through to your core and so what on earth could you possibly need or want to think about?
The obviousness of this is so profound (I think!) that it really does make you wonder why on EARTH we give our time and energy to anything even REMOTELY less than this!
And I don’t care whether it’s who your next mentor is gonna be … whether or not you should go on another date with that person … whether you should push to make that program that’s not quite selling and certainly not flowing ‘work’ … or even whether you really HAVE to take that different style of workout class which you really REALLY don’t feel excited about. In any and ALL situations how it SHOULD be is it should fucking amazing and like “just try to stop me!”
And life would be so much easier. Don’t you think? If we all just learned to act FAST from the gut and ONLY from the gut. Not only EASIER but also more fun and what’s more, more ALIGNED, which in turn would basically have a butterfly effect beyond what I think we can even imagine.
Just think – if we start ONLY saying yes to what IS a real yes in every area of our lives we could actually change the WORLD.
You might think it’s not such a big deal, that often near enough is good enough and that sometimes you just gotta suck things up and MAKE ’em work, but you’d be wrong. I mean, okay, sure, you’re welcome to YOUR beliefs and opinions … but I think you’re wrong 🙂
I think:
Life should flow.
Clients should be OMG yes or no.
Relationships should be TRY TO STOP me and OH GOD YES or no.
Working out should be something you can’t WAIT for.
EATING right should uplift you emotionally not just physically.
Making a decision of where to spend your time –
Your energy –
Your money –
Your resources –
In your business –
With your finances –
In your fitness –
Even with your TEAM –
Should simply be something which, as soon as the right path is revealed or you CALL IT THE FUCK IN … (you DO call the fuck in what you want, yeah?) … you AUTOMATICALLY and without THINKING say yes to.
Quickly.
Readily.
No thought.
OF COURSE.
In fact, it’s SO much of a hell yes that you pretty much don’t even notice you’re already saying yes before you even consider whether you SHOULD consider it.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
YES.
And then afterwards, maybe, you think to yourself, well –
“I guess I should have a look at what I really said yes to … or ask for all the details … or work out the practicalities of this thing …”, but really?
Meh. Who cares! It’s a yes, that’s all that matters, and so you’ll damn sure FIGURE THE FUCK OUT THE HOW along the way.
It’s the only way, actually, y’know? To figure the fuck out HOW after you first commit. After you LEAP. After your YES pops out of you so fast you couldn’t catch it if you tried.
And this is not just about that it’s SO much fucking easier to make something WORK if it AUTOMATICALLY FUCKING WORKS ’cause it’s right, it’s also about the fact that every time you say YES to a “I think I hope maybe but not QUITE” type of situation, you essentially make it clear to your own inner self as well as the world around that you’re not someone who goes all in, nor someone who is WORTHY of living the life they really dream of.
The truth is –
And you want it now –
And you want it on your TERMS –
All you have to do is ask.
You fucking KNOW this as well baby, but at some point you might wanna consider ACTUALLY FUCKING ASKING and then also acting accordingly, but here is the REST of that truth:
And you want it now –
And you want it on your TERMS –
YES you gotta ASK, and then ACT, but also?
You gotta stop giving a single God damn ‘nother second to anything less than.
Living your dream is a black and white thing gorgeous. You’re either all the way in, or you’re all the way fucking out.
Decide.
Decide to say FUCK it because you have ONE life, it’s THIS one right here and no it’s NOT a dress rehearsal!
Decide because in following ANYTHING you have to THINK about you not only set YOURSELF on the wrong path or further out of alignment, but there’s also a carry on effect on those who you’re here to impact.
Decide, because life and business and fitness and love SHOULD be fucking fun, and it SHOULD be an OMG yes let me at it.
Decide, because aren’t you fucking WORTH it?
Decide, because isn’t it TIME?
Decide, because aren’t you just DONE? With trying to force yourself into the wrong box, the wrong business, the wrong circles, the wrong LIFE? With getting caught up in sabotage, with having to numb yourself, falsely lift yourself, constantly tell yourself –
That it will be okay.
That you’ll MAKE it work!
That it will get better.
That maybe it IS right, and YOU are just confused!
Enough.
Decide.
Decide.
Decide.
Now.
That you’re going to LIVE.
That you’re going wake the fuck up and go all IN.
That you’re going to RUN from anything you gotta THINK about.
And that you’re going to have faith –
That if you follow your heart –
And the blueprint God GAVE you –
And you respond to the whisper the shout the scream of your SOUL –
That actually?
You already knew the entire fucking time what it was meant to be about, and that now?
You’re damn well gonna have it.
Decide.
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