Fuck Mindset
What I’m about to say is something I never thought you’d hear ME say, not EVER!
Are you ready for this???? (The title sorta gave it away).
Fuck.
Mindset.
Fuck your fucking mindset and that’s what I’ve been doing and so WHY is it not working?
Fuck your fucking mindset work which tells you that you can THINK your way rich, or successful, or to everything you ever wanted, now and ever!
Fuck your fucking mindset BELIEFS which allow you to think that the internal work?
Is enough.
Now. {{{Disclaimer}}}
Just so we’re on the same page and all.
What I really mean when I say fuck mindset?
Is that mindset is EVERYTHING.
It is the ONLY thing.
It dictates ALL your success.
It is my LIFE my SOUL my every fucking CELL and there is nothing – no NOTHING – I am more passionate about teaching or sharing with the world.
And yes … in case you’re wondering … I AM on my second (or so?) glass of red right now and I’m ABSOLUTELY certifiable. And not just because of the wine.
So yeah, FUCK your fucking mindset work even though your fucking MINDSET work is the MOST powerful work you can do! Because also, y’know, here’s the thing:
Your mindset work means JACK FUCKING SHIT if it’s not backed up –
Diligently –
Daily –
With UTMOST discipline –
With doing. the. actual. work.
And the actual work, whilst it BEGINS with the mindset work? It does not end with the mindset work.
No Sirree Bob.
Now here’s the thing.
I know you know this.
I know you GET it.
I know you of COURSE want to do the fucking work. And you’re even doing the fucking work!
But are you (honestly now) doing ALL the fucking work?
Every day.
Without fail.
Day in.
Day out.
ALL the way.
Extending your reach.
Making your offers.
Asking what people want.
Listening to what they say.
Adjusting accordingly.
Asking again.
Offering again.
Creating value.
Creating more value.
Creating more value still.
DELIVERING the fucking value also.
(Daily).
Listening more.
Engaging.
Putting yourself out there.
Giving.
Without expectation.
Giving.
And also asking for the sale.
Asking for the sale daily.
No matter what.
No matter how you feel.
Putting your message out daily.
No matter what.
No matter how you feel.
Actively working to grow your tribe.
(Daily).
No matter what.
No matter how you feel.
Actively working to extend your brand.
Daily.
No matter what.
(No matter how you feel).
Thanking others for what they do.
Seeking to help them.
Seeking to be of fucking SERVICE.
Without expectation.
Releasing the outcome.
But also – asking for the sale.
Creating new content.
And more still.
Giving more stuff away.
And more still.
Pitching harder for the sale.
But learning how to actually CLOSE.
Studying the areas you’re weak at.
Studying them till your eyes bleed.
Studying them till your brain fucking bleeds out your head.
And asking for the sale.
And offering more value.
And showing up.
And showing up again.
And showing up longer than ANYONE around you.
And putting more in.
Every day.
No matter what.
No matter how you feel.
And being true to yourself.
And being raw.
And being real.
And being authentic.
And being transparent.
And saying what needs to be said.
And asking for the sale.
Doing the extra hour in the morning.
Doing it at night.
Doing it when others are watching TV.
Or whatever the fuck it is that others do.
Doing it when it is working and it feels fun and awesome and yay!
Doing it when it’s not working and it feels awful and ugly and God!
Doing it when others question you, or hate you, or mock you, even those close to you!
Doing it every.
single.
fucking.
day.
Slashing what’s not working when it’s not.
RELENTLESSLY pursuing the understanding and creation of that which will work and will also be in alignment.
Being COMMITTED to alignment and equally COMMITTED to selling what people will buy and if you’re not yet matching the two then COMMITTING to freaking figuring it out by doing ALL of this and by keeping. on. asking and keeping. on. keeping on.
And doing what others won’t.
And doing it again.
And doing it EVERY FUCKING DAY.
And doing it UNTIL YOU FUCKING GET THERE.
And are you doing ALL of this work and SO much more besides, no doubt, ALL the way no MATTER what every. fucking. day?
Or are you, y’know, just ‘doing some fucking work dude!’???
Are you out there MAKING SHIT HAPPEN but deep down you know that actually, no, you’re not making shit happen?
Or did you just not realise that this is what it takes?
ALL THIS AND MORE.
Do you look at the above and think it’s unrealistic, not okay, too much, RIDICULOUS?
If so, and I say this with the GREATEST of love and heartfelt desire for YOU to succeed at whatever it is you CAN commit all out to:
Get the fuck off the batting field.
This game is NOT for you.
And it’s NOT going to work.
Not like this.
Not now.
Not ever.
But if you can commit.
And you can commit to ALL of the above and WHATEVER ELSE IT TAKES.
And you can do it with FULL determination and DAILY discipline.
Then maybe.
Just maybe.
You can make it.
But if your APPROACH right now, is to do some of that / what you can / when you can / when it works / as you figure it out / etc / blah / fucking / blah??
And meanwhile you’re doing your journaling! And writing your affirmations! And putting your intentions OUT there!
Well.
Let me be PERFECTLY clear because as much as I am the success mindset gal and I believe mindset is the start of EVERYTHING, it’s the fucking START of everything and the work I put in, the daily work, the work my successful clients put in, the DAILY work, the fighting of the battles both inside and out and the DOING. OF. THE. WORK, well THAT?
Baby that’s not for the fainthearted.
And we do what it takes.
No matter what it takes.
For as long as it takes.
Until it takes.
And we SACRIFICE and we BLEED and we SWEAT and we CRY and we do NOT compromise on the things that we VALUE in our lives but yet we MAKE it work to DO the work and if that fucking SCARES you or you think you don’t have what it takes then GOOD.
Because you don’t.
And really?
You can fuck your mindset work.
Or, you know, you can do it ’cause it makes you feel SO nice and fuzzy and that’s SO nice for you.
But not so nice for the dreams you say you want to achieve.
Success is a battle that few can survive.
You have to fight for your beliefs.
Fight to be you.
But in the end, no matter how brutal the struggle, the result is this. Your life. Your way. Every day.
Fight now.
Do it daily.
Do it all.
Or battle forever.
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