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Live Your Passion

Let em hate

Let em Hate

You want to stand out, change the world, go to bed at night KNOWING in your heart of hearts that you have given it your all and made the difference you are MEANT to make in the world?

Then stop being so mother-freaking vanilla with what you say, how you present yourself, who you are.

You can take your pretty website and shove it for all I care if that website is not in fact (and I really do wonder!) revealing the real you.

Are you trying to be just another ‘successful coach’ or entrepreneur? Are you trying to make sure everyone loves or at least likes you? Are you writing about stuff that you’re sure will get you good Google love, that ‘solves problems’ and is ‘topical’ and is based on what you see your competitors or others around you doing?

If so, then I gotta tell you –

You’re boring me to tears. And I suspect you’re boring yourself to tears as well. Worse still, I think we both know that deep down you are a mix of ashamed, frustrated and mighty PISSED off that you’re not really letting rip with the energy, glory and perhaps even terror of who you really are.

Nobody needs another business, life, weight loss, wellness, balance, healthy living, money, success coach or whatever.

The world does not need more vanilla.

If I want to read stock-standard stuff on any of the above topics I’ll go to an aggregate blog and find endless repetitive loops of the stuff.

What I really want to know, when I come to YOUR site, is are you with me or are you against me?

Another way to put it: are we from the same tribe?

‘Cause really, you know what? Doesn’t matter how pretty your website is and how glammed up your program names and sales pages, if I don’t love YOU for the way you think, feel and talk, then you can bet your bottom dollar I’m not going to care enough to give you money. Doesn’t matter how damn good your ‘systems’ are. I’m going to get those systems somewhere else if I don’t also want to buy YOU.

So what are you selling right now, hmm?

Are you selling safe, boring, bland, vanilla?

Or are you letting it all hang out? The good, the bad, the freaking terrifying?

Are you a scaredy-cat who says one thing about business and the world to her buddies or partner, but then plays it safe online, not wanting to put anyone off?

The truth:

If you don’t stand for something? You stand for nothing.

I’m not talking about being contrived, you know that. I’m not talking about deliberately stirring up controversy if in doing so it is not also based on how you actually think and feel. But that’s the thing, isn’t it?

If I look at your stuff, read it, look at your site, do I KNOW how you really think and feel or am I seeing a carefully planned version of what YOU think you need to present to the world in order to succeed.

The world needs you to be you.

So [pq]stand up, take a stand, stand for SOMETHING, and if they wanna hate then let ’em hate.[/pq]

There is literally NOTHING you can share about who you really are, what you’ve really done, how you really think, that will scare off your ideal clients. And that’s who you want, isn’t it? You want your tribe, your cult, your people who love you because they love the way you THINK, because they love your honesty, because you give them hope and massive inspiration for who they can become.

The ones who are scared off, horrified, appalled at your so-called skeletons, your opinions, the stuff you talk about, laugh at, HOW you talk about it or laugh at it –

To hell with them. They’re not your people, never will be, and you can try all you like to please them but you will never truly be ABLE to if you are actually being YOU. So you can spend your days trying to be all things to all people, being careful not to piss anyone off, talking only behind the scenes to your BFFs and Mastermind buddies about what you REALLY think about business and life, and attracting a boring mix of boring people with boring ideas and minds who will bitch and moan anytime you dare to slip up on your perfect polished persona, OR –

You can come out, guns a-blazing, as the incredible, fabulous, amazing, selfish bitch, demanding, driven, unbelievably AWESOME woman you are.

You can keep playing it safe, running scared that if people find out the truth about your money, your business, how you think, your background, your self sabotaging issues or whatever that they will hate you and think you a sham OR –

You can recognise that when you let that stuff rip you find your true people.

You can create products, programs, offerings that aim to fill a gap in the market and you can make a few bucks and get a nice warm fuzzy feeling in your belly, OR –

You can create something that the vast majority of people will not get, will be scared by, or just think is plain ridiculous or even offensive but that your TRIBE will do anything to get their hands on.

You can be just another coach, consultant, woman trying to make a few bucks online to live some sort of lesser version of normal, OR –

You can start a revolution, throw forth a call to arms, make it crystal clear that you don’t give a f^&k who likes or agrees with you that you are going to be nothing if not brutally brutally honest and real.

So which is it gonna be?

Selfish bitch who says what she thinks, shouts it loud and proud and does not CARE if it causes people to run scared or even think she’s a bad person, or boring old vanilla cupcake shoved into a dusty corner of the internet and hoping someone will come and love her?

I think we both know what you have to do here.

And if you’re not sure where to start with this, if you GET it but you’re thinking OMG but how? As in – how do I do that without sh*tting myself, but also, literally – how do I actually stand up and figure out WHAT I stand for? Then baby what YOU need is some self-belief. You need to train yourself to be strong enough, empowered enough and god-damned confident enough in who you are to stand up and yell your message from the rooftops.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/