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When I think about life, and what I believe we are really here for; what it’s all about, there is one thing that stands out for me above all else.

Even talking about this can bring me to trembling and tears, and with it a sense of urgency so breathtaking and profound that I think I often avoid really facing into it, because it hurts so much.

And the thing is –

I’m SO aware that the pressure and desire and pull and push I feel about what life must BE, is so different to what is taught to us and what is expected.

There’s a part of me which feels so bad, that I will never be that person who hand on her heart says that the greatest work is to be a Mum, or a partner, or that relationships are what matter most.

But, it’s the truth that I don’t feel this way, and if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s tell the fucking TRUTH. Firstly to yourself. That’s a good start. But from there –


Do I think you have to shout it from the rooftops and make a big song and dance about it? No, actually, I don’t think that, even though yes, of course, I know I do that.

But conceptually, no. My feeling is: speak when called to speak. At the same time, if life puts you in a position of needing to choose whether to stand up for and claim YES I FUCKING DO THINK | LIVE BY | BELIEVE that, then you DO so.

Don’t back down.

Accept and even EMBRACE the fire.

It’s all, always, exactly as it is meant to be.

And of course, exactly AS it’s meant to be in order to help you to grow, life certainly does put you in those positions. Quite often, I find!

Mind you, there is one way to avoid having to face into such fire, having to learn your own path of handling conflict, having to be perhaps burned at the metaphorical stake just because you dare to exist AS THE REAL YOU.

Would you like to know how to avoid such pain? Why, it’s simple!

Hide from your message.
Turn away from your truth.
Do work that freezes your soul.
Until eventually it cracks and falls to dust, and you, at some point then or later on, whenever time and God says so, die.

Still inside, but hey, that’s cool, it’s not so as you’d actually really KNOW, since you buried it so deep.

Except, of course, for this one small thing:

You always fucking know.

– wait

I was telling you about how there’s thing, one concept, which can without fail bring me to my knees in tears, in sadness, in no, in PLEASE no.

About how this thing …

I believe …

Is what life is all about.

And so many people will tell you:

“What matters most is relationships.

What matters most is self-love.

What matters most is contribution, giving back.


(they don’t say that last bit, not with words at least)

And I just feel like –

OH. I’m nervous, depending on the company, and even then, to say this. To say this. Fuck, just say it!

I don’t believe
That what matters most
Is love.

I don’t believe that what matters most
Are relationships
(No, not a single one)

I don’t believe
That what matters most
Is even
Being of service

And actually
What I do believe
If you’re here, and you’re reading THIS, and you’re somehow, and maybe you have no fucking CLUE how, but yet here you ARE now, magnetically drawn in to being here with ME, what I yes I DO believe, about YOU:

Is you feel the same
As me.

Perhaps you admit it
Perhaps not
Either way
You can’t deny it

I mean –

You can continue to attempt to do so
If you like

Telling yourself
The world will wait
Time will be my friend
I’m going to, no really, I will!

Can I tell you?

As much as it’s ‘never too late, you’re never too old, you’re never too broken, to begin again’ and that’s TRUE, eventually?

The final bell WILL fucking toll gorgeous.

And when it does …

If you have a moment to reflect …

Will you nod your head the slighetest bit and breathe out your last breath knowing that YES –

I fucking DID THE WORK.
The work I was BORN for.
The work I was FORMED for.
The art.
The madness.
The mayhem.
The message.
The YES.

Will you?


A story:

Everybody has a story
That one day they’re going to wake up, do the thing, be ready, get it happening!
A book in a week –
Their entire business just done –
A dream, which has been waiting in the wings and gathering dust, brought to LIFE and NOW look at me bitches!

Do you tell yourself this story, I wonder? And if you do …

Do you believe it?




Let me tell you another story.

I know that maybe you think, as I did, once upon a time, that the reason you KNOW YOU WILL is because you KNOW that you KNOW that you KNOW that you WILL and that you were born for MORE and you just fucking KNOW BECAUSE IT’S DESTINY, BITCH!


It’s a BEAUTIFUL story.

And it’s going to be a BEAUTIFUL FUCKING PAIN to work through, if and when you DO actually wake the fuck up and realise that life is NOW and you’re not pressing PLAY and you better get the fuck ON with it, but, well, here’s the THING:

The thing about the other story.

It’s a story of one hundred million souls, or maybe more, or maybe less, or maybe just that ONE person in your life who you –

Used to know.

It’s a story of a man.
A woman.
A child.
A fucking MESSENGER, an artist, a creator, a visionary.

And this person –

Was born for more.
To change the world.
To live an EXTRAORDINARY life.

And they came –

Grown and planted and tended to by God HIMSELF, the mark of one who was called upon them from before the dawn of time.

Do you know this person?
Do you remember?

Your mother, your father, your aunt, your lover, your friend, and a hundred
All around you.

And as they grew up, they dreamed of things beyond the realm of possible, beyond the realm of ordinary, beyond the dreams of even the greatest dreamers of all time.

And they knew:
Deep in their heart, their soul, their DNA, their EVERYTHING:
That one day they were going to do something amazing.
Fucking DESTINY baby, it said so!
And so it was

But the problem
With this person
Is that they forgot one piece of the destiny pie
And how it works

And that piece?


We were born with INFINITE CHOICE gorgeous.

God made you in the image of himself.
You were born with a blueprint, a plan, His hand in your very making and your soul KNOWS all of this.


EVERYTHING you dream of is real.
You ARE meant to do something amazing in the world.
The art you LONG to create WILL change thousands and thousands if not millions of lives.

And you will love and you will laugh and you will serve and you will build INCREDIBLE relationships and you will do EVERYTHING you came here to do.

AND that’s all just one option.

Because you get to choose.

You get to choose.

You get to play.
Or not.

And the person who you used to know, who was born for ALL of this and more, is also the same.fucking.person.who is now DEAD.




And those who remember them will remember the always slightly haunted, lost, sad, feeling they carried.

And you can fill it.
If you try.
With love with life with relationships with contribution with ALL the fucking THINGS


Because the missing link? The thing which life is actually ABOUT, and which also leads to ALL the other things, really:

That’s it.
That’s it.
That’s it.

Wake up baby.

The person you used to know is you.

Get a fucking grip.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.