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Your greatest flow is the exact thing which will guide you to your greatest foundations.

The structure, the very pillars on which your empire will be built, and also –

the solid grounded strong AF yet flexible like a willow tree core of your life –

will all in the end come about as a result of the flow you danced with, allowed to wash over you, became one with, and it with you.

When you look back, and you see how it was that you built this thing, you will clearly point to, notice, and share –

This system came from that flow.

This structure from that little piece of magic.

This process, ‘how we do’, the Standard Operating Procedures of Me Being Me and doing a Damn Fine Job of doing it? It all originated from the dance, baby.

The whirling whirring twirling breathless being IN it.

In it?

In life. In the moment. In the VIBE of the thing, of making it up as you go, of going where LED, of letting yourself simultaneously be and be WITH the flow.

You know?

So yes.

You want systems, and structure, and foundations you could bounce a dime off like you would on that firm peachy booty you dream of? LET THE FLOW BECOME THE SYSTEM. Let EVERY thing that you WISH had a structure or process around it develop as a result of where your flow takes you.

But at the same time –

Fucketh that noise, fucketh it very nicely, fucketh it all the way!

Because here is what else:


I mean –

Don’t get me wrong

You should DEFINITELY make your flow into your foundation, your discipline, the rules of how you do you!

But also – don’t do that shit, it takes the magic right out of it, messes things up, turns expansion into contraction, and basically results in you being one of those sad little bitter little dried up of pussy kind of people who, decades later, are still yabbering about how they don’t understand why the thing worked when it ALWAYS USED TO WORK!

Of course it doesn’t work anymore! You stopped being IN it. And you made it about having to DO it.

I know it’s annoying.

When I come at you with contradictions.

Like how I told my Inner Circle / 1:1 clients this morning, on our monthly Zoom mastermind hotseat I do for all my private clients to join in on together, as part of a bigger conversation around not having to be ‘feeling’ it in order to create, sell, BE the leader –

I AM my work. And also I ABSOLUTELY AM NOT MY WORK, it’s a whole separate entity to me, it lives and breathes FROM me!

But yeah, I am my work. You know?

Here’s the thing:

It’s a dance, baby. THE WHOLE ENTIRE THING IS A DANCE. Between you, and God, and life, and soul.

Every day a blank slate.

And you GET to go into it, eyes and heart and soul wide open, and just SEE WHAT IS CREATED AND WHERE YOU ARE LED.

Orrrr –

For sure, you don’t gotta do that at all. It’s your life! You can choose. You can choose to broken-record Groundhog Day TF outta your entire existence, because:

You’re too scared to be in a new dance each day

You’re stuck on your ideas of your moves from a decade or so back

You’re watching how everybody else does the dance and worried that if you don’t do it like them you’ll get kicked out, not make it to the next round, be laughed at

Or you just didn’t really think about it!

But now that you ARE thinking about it –

don’t you wanna be IN it each day? Breathlessly whirling and twirling and nearly missing a beat and then – splat! Maybe you do, but WHATEVER, because it’s YOUR dance and the only way to create it IS to be in it.

Always known.

Always unknowing.


And that’s what it all comes down to, isn’t it?

You can take the things which ‘made you this person’, or pointed you in the direction of where you know you’re meant to be. The things which you twirled your way into, and found worked for you, felt amazing, were good, and even great!

And you can then ALLOW them to become foundational structures, ‘ways of doing you’ that you repeat over and over, systems that become yours.

“This is what I do, and why I do, I wouldn’t wanna NOT!”

We all have things like this, that once upon a time we fell into, or upon, and are now part of our identity. This is good! It’s great. It’s amazing! It’s exactly how all of the best structures and routines in my life business and personal came about.

I NEVER ever managed to do that thing of ‘figuring out’ how to make millions online, automate income, have the exact hot AF body I want, be in a relationship with my soulmate, or even parent! Or anything else.

What I DID do, and why I have such flow and hell yes in these areas? I let my chaos, my mess, my all over the place-ness, my being IN it, create the way I did.

The way I do.

And become how I BE.



The moment I notice something has become ‘what I feel I have to do’, I cut it. Snip snip. Fly away, little soldier balloon; off you go!

Because what I know for SURE is, that when I take my flow, my breathless beautiful dance of LIFE, and I turn it into ‘this is what I have to do’ and now I MUST –

It becomes contracted.


Dried up.

Yuck! Like a gross old moldy old throw it out avocado. Or vulva. Whatever you wanna visualise haha.


So what to do, then?! Do I make my flow into my struture, or no?!


Don’t you get it yet?

You LET your flow become structure. You let it just unfold as and how it wants. You tether to the OUTCOME you desire, choose, decide, intend. But never the process, unless the process itself IS part of your desired outcome, meaning – YOU WANT THAT PROCESS JUST FOR ITS OWN SAKE.

And then? You get back on the damn dance floor of life. You SHAKE your flow thang.

And you see where you’re led.

Maybe it’ll be the same move, over and over again, and one day you notice that huh – ! I guess that’s my thing. It feels great, and right, and yes! So I’ll keep doing it!

Pillars laid down.

But know this –

The actual foundation is you. Planted in God and soul and life.

So don’t be to burn it all to the ground at the drop of a hat the moment you notice you’re ‘having to’ do these certain things.

Be afraid NOT to.

Either way –

The dance floor is gettin’ cold without you sister.

Come back and fly with us.

You’ve only go the whole world waiting!

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.